THE HARD R: ALL ABOUT PLUS

Wednesday, March 10th, 2010 at 5:00pm by

Congrats to Ziltoid and Grover XIII for entering the blogger world. Check out their new blog, The Number of the Blog!  It takes balls to work on something and put it out there for people (the world) to ingest. I’m sure they will get a good following. The Internet is such a specific place so a different perspective goes a long way. If there is humor involved, even better!

Your success is dependent on you and no one else. There are people out there who believe you need to fail for them to succeed. That’s bullshit. There’s room for everyone to step up. Get out there and do what Ziltoid and Grover XIII did. Start something. Congratulations again guys. I’ll check it out as much as I can.

Let’s get your band closer to the success you want, need and deserve. There are so many tools at your disposal to get your band noticed. Networking, playing shows, making merchandise, recording albums, making webisodes, etc. But one of the most important aspects of moving forward in music is one of the most overlooked.

Positive thinking. Yeah, I said it. On the big, bad metal blog. Sue me.

I know what your thinking but I’m not going to go all Tony Robbins or The Secret on your ass. Believe it or not, positive thinking is very powerful for a band. The human brain is by far the most complex mechanism in the world besides the universe itself. We know why trees grow, how rain turns to snow. The genius of man created the computer, the iPod, GPS, Pro Tools. But the genius of man still can’t figure out the full capacity of the human brain. The potential of the human brain, in my opinion, is limitless. Yes, I believe reading minds and moving things telepathically is possible. Imagine four or five brains working together for a similar goal. It can move the things we can’t see or hear. Emotions. Thoughts. The intangibles.

Two situations. One band finishes a demo. They network. They play shows. They hit the grind every day. But they go out there with “I smell shit” scowls on their faces all day, every day. They think every one owes them something. The promoter owes them a show with Testament. The label owes them a record contract. The groupie owes them a blow job. They carry a chip on their shoulder the size of my ego. The second band goes out there and grinds it out. They help other bands load equipment. They load their own equipment. They smile when they get the short end of the stick. They congratulate the other local band on their success. Generally this band enjoys, hell, lives for the experience of working from the ground up.

Which band do you think is going to have a better chance of moving forward consistently? My bet is on the positive band who enjoy their time. The band who thinks they deserve everything for the least amount of work is in it for the wrong reasons. I’m not saying you should continually eat shit if it’s sitting there in a bowl every day. I’m saying things can always get better as long as you believe they will get better. Believing in your music and your goals can and will carry you very far.

To be clear though: Positive thinking doesn’t have to be the “happy go lucky, everything is great” attitude. It can be a wealth of things. Positive thinking can be the belief in your art or bands current direction. It can be a silent pact with yourself to practice every day outside of band practice. It can be the channeling of a special moment to someone or something else. For me, positive thinking is productivity.

I know it gets rough so keeping the “positive” hat on all the time is unrealistic. A general sense of ‘it will work out’ is important for your mental well being. I’ve learned more from my failures than my successes. In my eyes, each failure is an opportunity to get it right.

Every band has it’s bumps in the road. Some huge, some small. Perspective is important and positive thinking helps you come to grips with reality. Things can be a hell of a lot worse than it is now. If you play drums, think about the guy who wants to rock out but doesn’t have the talent or the time? Every body is good at something but it’s up to you to find out what you do well. Positive thinking breaks the barriers you believe are in front of you.

What does negative thinking do? It creates copy cats.

How many of you can attribute a positive or negative outlook affecting the course of your life? Have you ever changed your outlook to see a significant change in your career/band/etc?

-DC

Check out Dallas’ new project, Genetic, on MySpace.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Anthony-Showalter/100000592087843 Anthony Showalter

    Grover’s blog has been around for a while now! Ziltoid just became a contributing writer on it though, read his blog on Italy’s Jacula, the first black metal band in 1969!!!

  • Gaia

    Grover’s just doing his thing. It’s pretty good and interesting, a nice alternative which isn’t always bitching about something or other. And the guy has taste in music.

    • http://thenumberoftheblog.com/ groverXIII

      I still bitch about stuff now and a gain… especially on Saturdays.

  • dave

    DALLAS SUCKS COCK

  • Paddy O’Furniture

    “Yes, I believe reading minds and moving things telepathically is possible. Imagine four or five brains working together for a similar goal.”

    [citation needed]

    I believe there’s a Chinese teapot orbiting the Earth too, don’t you?

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Mark-Gavin/1396340262 Mark Gavin

    I just now read your blog, Grover, as I didn’t know about it before. Bookmark’d. Good stuff, man.

  • Slaughterhouse

    Lol…Good blog…its funny the comments are about Grover’s blog…WTF…

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Mark-Gavin/1396340262 Mark Gavin

    Also, I don’t think positive thinking gets people far so much realistic thinking does. People who just think that everything will come to them if they are continually looking up won’t get shit, and neither will people who think that they deserve everything for no reason. Anybody with a sense of realism will eventually understand “Okay, this just isn’t working.”

  • kelfro

    Is positive thinking the reason why you’re no longer in God Forbid?

  • http://schenkeltown.blogspot.com SchenkelTown

    my last post was deleted, but check out my blog…ya fucks

  • Loves2spooge

    This guy is a moron, why the hell is he still allowed to write for this website, oh wait I forgot I’m on Metalsucks, that makes sense now

    • The Ghost of D. Boon

      That doesn’t make sense at all, shitbag.

  • Keviathan

    I think you nailed it right on target Dallas.

    Although its great to think big, and to have large tangible goals, too many bands in 2010 get way ahead of themselves, considering themselves rockstars before they’ve even played outside their hometown. These respective bands believe they deserve so much; their hearts are truly in it for themselves instead of their fans or the community, let alone the art of music.

    A band is a business, and within this business you must embrace the level and size of your company to have the most realistic vision possible. Should a new small business use the same approach to their marketing strategy as, say, an established large-cap corporation, of course not. It’s business basics- a simple ideology to learn, but one which too many young inexperienced bands even care to take the time to learn.

    I’m a member of a band who encounters this scenario on almost every tour/show we perform. On the road, I find myself having to bite my tongue more than I actually practice my instrument, listening to these self-proclaimed “virtuosos” talk shit about every other band in the business.

    It makes me wonder if eventually the fans will stop caring for metal or music as they once so passionately loved decades ago…

  • Ziltoid

    Whoa! Mr. Positivity! Positive thinking is actually quite a helpful tool in dealing with the shit life deals us.

    And thanks for the support, but give all credit to grover. He started it all on his own, and he’s done most of the posting for the site.

    • SonOF

      “Positive thinking is actually quite a helpful tool in dealing with the shit life deals us.”

      Ziltoid, that comment is laughable coming from you.

      • ass2me

        But…he does think positively. About good metal. The negativity starts when people post about shitty bands and claim that they’re awesome. Of course, I’m sure most of you just think Ziltoid is a troll.

        • timmah

          he’s not?

    • aids robot

      so positive=good and negative=bad eh? does the rest of the world know about this revolutionary new philosophy?

  • Heavy Metal

    that’s pretty cool about the plugging their (Grover’s) bolg

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Mark-Gavin/1396340262 Mark Gavin

      “Plugging the Bolg” should be the new hip euphemism for anal.

  • http://thenumberoftheblog.com/ groverXIII

    Wow. Just wow.

    What can I say… it’s great to be recognized. I started the blog as something do while I was at work, to see what I could do with it. It’s taken quite a bit of work, more than I expected, but I’ve got some great people contributing, and it’s come a lot farther than I expected. I mean, hell… we have an actual domain now! That’s more than I expected.

    So, thanks for this, Dallas. To hear this is encouraging, to say the least, and tells me that I’m doing something right.

    I’m on vacation next week, so the other guys will be running the site, but I’ll make sure we keep the good stuff coming!

    Thanks, guys!

    • http://www.iamgenetic.ning.com dallas

      Putting your opinion out there is tough. So i hope it gets bigger and you can reap some of the efforts.

      • http://thenumberoftheblog.com deseee

        Wouldn’t you know it, I just installed a nice little bar where you can buy us a beer over at the blog… jus sayin… reaping the efforts and all… :D Thanks for the plug!

        • http://last.fm/user/snagon Snagon

          uncle Snagon needs some brews as well

      • Hammer_Smashed_Hurtt

        Get fucking real, Opinions are like Assholes WE ALL GOT EM. Having an opinion and putting it out is easy (especially whilst stationed behind a keyboard).

        Getting replaced by Matt Wicklund?

        Thats Hard.

        • SonOF

          ZING!

      • SonOF

        “Putting your opinion out there” on the internet, especially posting under a pseudonym, is NOT hard. The consequences for your words are minimal, you can essentially say whatever you like with no repercussions. Perhaps crafting your opinion into a coherent, enjoyable form is hard, but just “putting it out there” isn’t difficult, as long as you can type and think.

  • evilfatguy

    Although I agree with everything Dallas said, I have a feeling this post was brought on mostly by the reaction on this site to the song he posted here last week.

    • http://www.iamgenetic.ning.com dallas

      No man. Something fucked up happened to me about two weeks ago and I had to shift my focus to something positive. The reaction to the music has been love it/hate it so far. i wasn’t surprised about that at all.

      • evilfatguy

        Oh yeah? What happened?

  • pfft

    what a particularly sexist post for 2010… even for metal

  • http://thenumberoftheblog.com DemiGodRaven

    I’ve actually been curious for a while about an approach like this to being in a band, as I’ve sort embraced a zen lifestyle of going through things. Not to sound like a damned hippie but things sound so much easier when you’re not angry all the time. However, I spent some time playing in a (incredibly shitty) local group, and at which point do you turn the positivity off when it comes to things that happen? There was a certain point where it seemed like all that happened was we would get screwed, and then eventually this wave of darkness just sort of swept over the whole group and we couldn’t even communicate with people just because we knew that by dealing with them we would probably get screwed again. I know that for a long time you have to accept this of course, because you need every opportunity possible to get up on stage and play but at which point is it best to just call it and quit being stomped all over on? I know you touched on this but my group actually ended up over what was a largely negative outlook, as well as things just weren’t going our way so a perspective shift just seemed pointless at the time.

    • http://thenumberoftheblog.com/ groverXIII

      You damned hippie.

  • Me

    I agree with what Dallas is saying, and the building yourself from the ground up really applies (e.g. loading gear, networking with music fans, etc.). I’m starting my own music site, investing more than half my savings and a helluva lot of time. If I didn’t have the positive thinking combined with the realistic perspective that startup companies don’t have a good success rate, I would be doomed from the start. Positivity mixed with reality will get the best results. Of course, it also helps that even if you have to do endless menial tasks (like loading equipment like I mentioned), it is all part of a larger goal, so you should really enjoy that aspect of it despite it’s tediousness. You have to keep yourself grounded somehow when you have such elusive or lofty goals.

  • robocop420

    positive mental attitude is huge. i used to get all worked up about shows and stuff. one time, we were playing about an hour out of town with some bigger regional acts, and since we don’t have a van a few of us went separately. long story short, a guitar player got arrested on the way there and he and the singer didn’t show up. we didn’t really know what to do, so we played three songs, had a guy that had never heard us before make up words, and got our free beer. a year ago I would’ve freaked out and left but that seemed unnecessary. it sucked to play a show like that in front of a bunch of people that had never heard us before, but whats the point of being a mope about it?

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Jason-John-Crispen/100000169530540 Jason John Crispen

    well done! i agree. a positive attitude cannot be overstated. there’s gonna be times when you’re not paid, there’s no crowd, you break a string. do you turn tail and act like a bitch? no, you suck it up and deal with it, laugh about it and move on.

  • DustintheWind

    While we’re all joyously plugging blogs…. heres mine

    http://www.ourthursday.com

  • The Ghost of D. Boon

    “Which band do you think is going to have a better chance of moving forward consistently?”

    I dunno. Which has a big money pile to invest in promotion, which has an uncle at a record label etc.?

    Positive thinking is nice, but when it comes down to it success in the music business has as much to do with luck and money as anything else.

    • evilfatguy

      A bunch of my good friends are just now becoming successful with their band, and it’s taken a lot of hard work, getting their name out there, playing shitty shows while keeping their mouths shut, knowing when to walk away when you get a raw deal, and did I mention working FUCKING hard? It sure as shit didn’t happen overnight.
      Ask the guys in Neuraxis about “success in the music business” and “record labels”… I know a lot of people in the world think very highly of them, and it took them years and years of constant touring to finally get to where they could finally sustain themselves without going broke.

  • Hammer_Smashed_Hurtt

    Negative thinking gets us The Hard R.

  • Biff Tannen

    This Dallas guy should shoot himself.

  • Wolverine999

    Thanks, Dallas. I see your point!

  • BTK666

    SHUT THE FUCK UP DALLAS! For fucks sake man, you make me nauseous with your bullshit. YOU ARE A FUCKING POSER