JUMPING DARKNESS PARADE: EYAL WANTS TO KNOW WHY YOU LIKE METAL

Friday, March 19th, 2010 at 4:30pm by

I’ve never really wondered this about myself, but I guess it’s a good question:why the fuck am I still involved with metal?

Honestly, I don’t have an answer besides to say that no matter what I do, I’m always drawn to it. It’s almost akin to a sexual preference. You don’t choose it. It is what it is. People choose their sexual preference as much as they choose their fetishes, which is not at all. Well, I think tastes in music and art follow suit. Sure, you get college lesbians as much as you get people who take on the musical tastes of their significant others or social circle, but at the end of the day, I don’t think you can really choose what your tastes are. I think there’s some sort of brain wiring involved which dictates our taste preferences, and I’m just not privy to the actual process.

I remember what I got out of listening to metal in the early days: the intensity of the feelings expressed and sounds created spoke to how frustrated I was with my life. It also echoed the anger I wanted to unleash on the world in response to that frustration. I’m talking back when I was twelve.

Well, I’m not twelve anymore. And I certainly don’t act like a twelve year old. And my frustrations with life are definitely not the same. So why does the genre of music still apply to my life? I have only one friend left from that era, I don’t hate my parents anymore, I’m not worried about if I’ll ever get laid, getting out of the prison known as “school” is a distant memory, there’s no more plaid shirts in my closet, all the insecurities that come with being that age are gone, the Black Album is not the current monster metal record, and I certainly don’t have an acne problem. Obviously my life is way different.

And beyond being different, my life is in the best place it’s ever been. It’s gotten consistently better with each passing year. So shouldn’t it follow suit that little by little my tastes would morph into some genre where happiness and positivity are what’s expressed?

My tastes in music do go far beyond metal, but they always have. There’s one common factor though: Rregardless of genre, the music I listen to seems to always be expressively dark and musically groundbreaking. For instance, those are qualities you will find in Opeth, Pink Floyd, or Aphex Twin. Radically different genres but, they still all are or were expressively dark and musically groundbreaking.

Maybe it’s not the genre I’m drawn to, maybe it’s just the criteria I listed above. Or maybe I just realized at a young age that the world is an abject shithole, that most people suck, and things are not going to get any better in that regard. Doesn’t matter how old you are, or what your level of success is. The world is a shitty place. Life hands us bullshit cards constantly and all that really measures our worth is how we react to and handle these things. As a twelve year old or as a thirty year old, the basic understanding of the horrible nature of our species and the world we’ve created stays the same.

I think that me being drawn to metal is a combo of all I listed above plus a few other things I haven’t quite figured out yet. What about you guys? I’m seriously curious to know. If you’re a teenager, why are you listening to metal? If you’re a full grown adult with an adult life, why are you still listening to it? Tell me! I’m especially curious to know if your tastes in metal don’t originate from a negative place.

-EL

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  • http://schenkeltown.blogspot.com SchenkelTown

    it sounds cliche, but metal makes me feel alive. it’s the only thing i’ve ever really connected with on a level that went beneath the surface.

    • john ottersberg

      i couldn’t have said it better myself as far as this topic goes.I would just add for me personally that i have always listened to metal because to my ears it’s one of the only true and honest forms of musical art there is.I can usually hear a new band and be able to tell if they are writing metal to sell to the masses or teens, or if they wrote the shit in their basement or wherever with conviction and meticulous love .Plus i just fukin love Brutal as fuk metal whether it be thrash doom or death metal, as long as it crushes i will stand behind it!!!gotta say i really enjoy reading your thoughts you put here, so thanx for the food for thought and the sweet tunes you provide to us long time metal heads……cheers!

      • http://myspace.com/wearecarnevil AEnema175

        This exactly. Both of you hit it dead on. Jazz/Blues and Metal are the only styles that haven’t been completely corrupted for mass consumption, and even then its a pretty good majority. I have always been the type looking for something new, something innovative, and metal has it in spades. I guess I seem to look at metal like its a never ending treasure hunt.

        • Psychological Perspective

          Hey Eyal, I am no expert on psychology but I have learned a shitload already so here goes, here are some of the reasons why metal is so alluring.

          1. Comradery – We are rewarded with bursts of neurochemicals such as dopamine (one of the chemicals you get for doing anything right in the world from having someone smile at you to orgasming) when we feel somehow connected with others, such as at a metal gig when we are all chanting the chorus or headbanging/fistpumping. For what its worth there are studies that have shown that mimicing someones movements during conversation causes them to like you more, same concept can probably be applied here.

          2. Novelty – Same neurochemical effect, our brains like new novel things because they cause them to release more dopamine. Metal is a far more broad sounding genre than most of the mainstream shit so it is more (potentially) novel. Novelty is also one of the reasons why the divorce rates are so high (see the Coolidge Effect).

          3. Emotion – Music as a whole is a good outlet for emotion, no other genre covers such a wide spectrum of emotion, most of the other genres of music don’t have any outlet for feelings of aggression or hate, which means it can serve a purpose for frustrated individuals. Also I cant help but say that I think that metal songs are more sincere in their expressions of emotions. Weightlifters often put on relatively heavy music while they lift weights to pump themselves up, and studies have shown that this actually increases their ability to do so, can’t say I know what neurochemicals are behind that though, perhaps adrenaline.

          Believe me though, its a lot more complicated than this and this is not the place for me to speculate about the uncertainties. Reading this page I have already heard “emotion, novelty, and comradery” repeated over and over, just thought I would give you a little more in depth analysis.

          P.S. Saw you guys at Thee Parkside last summer, you guys touring around when you release the next daath album right?

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Kasper-Maigaard/1027001938 Kasper Maigaard

    I love metal because of a number of things. First of all the culture itself is beyond fascinating. It just is. Secondly I love that feeling of brotherhood only metal can create. When at a show, you feel like you know everyone there and everyone treats each other with respect. And third of all I love the feeling you get from a good metal song. Whenever I feel tired or something I just put on some metal and all of a sudden I feel like I can take on the whole fucking world.

    Metal is a magical kind of music and that is why I love it.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/James-Koch/100000785018253 James Koch

      Completely fucking agree.
      Its the only genre that really respects its fans and its brothers.
      It takes talent, and when listening to it I feel empowered. I’m a teenager in a ghetto town so It’s difficult to find fellow metalheads, but when a metalshow comes to town… everyones a family, except for that one bald guy in the wifebeater that doesn’t like the band but just wants to mosh.

      • SatanicDrew

        Shit, you know that guy too?!

        • http://www.facebook.com/people/James-Koch/100000785018253 James Koch

          Who the fuck doesn’t man!

          • Hammer_Smashed_Hurtt

            Sorry it was laundry Day..

            J/K ( I know that guy ALL to well!!)

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Kasper-Maigaard/1027001938 Kasper Maigaard

    I love metal because of a number of things. First of all the culture itself is beyond fascinating. It just is. Secondly I love that feeling of brotherhood only metal can create. When at a show, you feel like you know everyone there and everyone treats each other with respect. And third of all I love the feeling you get from a good metal song. Whenever I feel tired or something I just put on some metal and all of a sudden I feel like I can take on the whole fucking world.

    Metal is a magical kind of music and that is why I love it.

  • Kazz

    Im 22, and got into metal when I was about 18. I think I was drawn to it because I was and still am completely turned off by mainstream music these days. Formulaic, boring, cliched music, whether it’s rock or hip hop or pop makes up about 98% of what gets played on the radio or MTV.

    Metal was somethiing different at first, since even bands like Caliban or All That Remains were separate from the mainstream. Eventually I left some of those gateway bands behind as I looked for more creative music. It doesn’t have to be dark, but for me to really love music it has to be groundbreaking somehow. Metal bands aren’t really in it to appeal to broad audiences, so a lot of them are more willing to push boundaries and try something new, I think that’s why it’s become what I listen to the most.

  • King Cheezit

    Kind of same story, I was pissed off 16 year old who’s girlfriend just cheated on him and moved to Puerto Rico within the same two weeks. I went on vacation and had lots of music-listening time to be all pissy in my own little world, so my wigger-self started feeling the heavier parts of Linkin Park and Creed (my guilty pleasures back then to my otherwise 100% rap collection). When I got home I was craving more and randomly stumbled on SOAD’s 2 Dollar Bill MTV2 show for Mesmerize. I WAS MESMERIZED! It was intense, th beat actually changed at times and it was still enjoyable…nice! From there I moved onto Disturbed and Slipknot since I had heard of them and my buddy had their music. Flashforward 5 years and my metal interests are still growing, but so is my hair and overall music library. By getting into metal and seeing that all of my friends didn’t hate me for it, I started coming into my own and being happy with who I wanted to be and not what the crowd wanted me to be. Now I am not afraid to blast Lamb of God while riding through the hood or even test out some Meshuggah and Mastodon on my roommates.

    Now come hang out with me at the Troc in Philly when Mutiny Within comes around on April 2nd :)

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Conor-Hatch/1295996381 Conor Hatch

      i think that your story is one that many of us share, myself included…those bands that you listed may not be the most highly thought of bands in the metal world….but they fill the gap between what is pop culture and heavy metal…it’s a muddy trail but once you get through the gate, things start to look a lot brighter

  • Mark Robertson

    When I started listening to metal as a 13 year old kid; the two things attracted me were the level of musical talent demonstrated by most of the bands and the hair standing up on your arms/chill down your spine feeling that I would and still do get when I listen to certain songs. At 25 yeasr old, I continue listening to metal because the music still inspires me as a musician, which is the reason I dusted off my instruments after I stopped taking lessons. I also still get that hair raising/chill down your spine listening to the great old and new metal songs.

    • Goolash

      yeah, i get the same sensation sometimes, haha. usually during an incredibly crunchy riff

      • Metalcraft

        happens to me all the time! \m/ the best kind of high is the kind you get from hearing a new band or riff that just blows you away (kind of like the revocation I am listening to right now)

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Andrew-Sterner/1335958279 Andrew Sterner

    Huh, never really cared to think about it. I’ve always enjoyed rock(still do), and I saw metal(Started with Zeppelin, which lead to Sabbath) as a natural progression to music I would enjoy more. I never rebelled against my parents. I had a great childhood, and so did my friends(who are also into metal).

    I’ve never cared for c(o)untry, and I can’t stand the sound of modern hip-hop, rap, or R&B. I don’t mind listening to some older stuff though. I still enjoy listening to softer rock, in fact, The Mountain Goats are playing in my iTunes. That being said, Since I found metal, I’ve been in love with it. I think you’re on to something about us being hardwired to enjoy certain types of music, because I had no real social reason to be drawn to it.

    By the way, I’m no poser. I’ve had people accuse me of not being “trve cvlt” or something along that line because I’m not exclusive in what I listen to. I’m just not the type of person who lets people tell me what to like, even with metal. If I were, there’d be no reason for me to listen to Stuff like Manowar and Iced Earth.

    Another good post by the way, keep up the good work man.

  • Dan

    I’m 19, I got into metal around 12-14. It started with Linkin Park – it was the nice melodies combined with the appropriate- but not overbearing aggression that caught my attention. Then I heard Slipknot and, I wasn’t keen at first, but I’m in the same situation as Corey Taylor – I’ve never known my father. Knowing this and hearing his lyrics really inspired me and brought me out of myself and it all grew from there.

    Now I still listen to metal because it’s constantly growing, I’m always hearing new things even though I’ve already heard so much. I also respect how metal musicians write all of their own music and lyrics, it’s all their own work rather than pop artists that are just glorified and over-paid karaoke singers. Some of them really are incredible singers, but they don’t write their own music or lyrics so what’s the point?

    At the end of the day, metal just hits me right here *beats chest*. There’s no feeling in the world like being in the front row of a gig as a band comes out on to stage and destroys you with their first song. I saw Moonspell for the second time last year, the intro to At Tragic Heights nearly made me cum in my pants, then it all kicked in and just hit me like a pneumatic drill to the bollocks, there’s no feeling as intense as that, and that’s what will keep me going to metal gigs for what I expect to be the rest of my life.

  • Tortiss

    I got into metal back in grade 8 (2004ish), when a friend online showed me Bodom and few other metal bands. The weird thing was I never really paid attention to to vocals…I obviously knew that it was screaming, but I never thought of it as another type of singing. Maybe I was just a stupid kid? I think I really dug the melody and energy compared to a lot of stuff presented to me via the mainstream. Anywho, I kept listening and listening and her I am now typing on a Metal blog site 6 years later.

    I should also note my Dad was into Metallica, Nirvana, Suicidal Tendencies, System of a Down and a whole bunch of heavy music that he’d blast in the car when I was a kid. Grade 5, I had a big time obsession with Linkin Park. Then grade 7, I was way into System of a Down.

    It’s also worth noting that I get along great with my Mom, Dad, siblings etc. etc. And my life is pretty good, middle-class yadda yadda, and pretty content socially (could certainly use more wimmens tho…)

    Fin.

    • Tortiss

      Also, It might be a Nature vs. Nurture sorta thing.
      How pre-disposed you are to metal vs. What kind of music you grew up with and other social or family situations

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Michael-Par/1311163597 Michael Paré

    I don’t think I could list one simple reason why I love metal, but if I were forced the word that comes to mind is “versatility”. When somebody brings up another genre of music, you generally have an idea of what they are talking about, rap sounds like rap, country sounds like country, hip hop sounds like hip hop. While there may be small variations within those genres, they all follow the same general principles within their own kind.

    With metal, you can have a song that is completely brutal and dark, or a song that’s extremely uplifting and positive. You can find songs for when you’re in a great mood, a shitty mood, a sad mood, when you’re fucking pissed, when you need to veg out, or when you want to listen to some technicality. Despite being the “underground” out of most genres, it truly has something to offer most anyone depending which extreme they prefer.

    PERSONALLY, I really love metal because of the raw power and energy that it invokes. In high school I was mostly into your standard nu-metal and pop punk stuff like Blink 182, Green Day, Korn, Limp Bizkit, and all that that went along with my “angst”. Like yourself I grew out of it once high school was over and I stopped whining like a bitch about every bad thing that happened to me. At that point it became about the feeling the music gave me. I just couldn’t listen to any other genre and be so inspired in so many different ways.

    That’s the shortest version I can give.

    Mike

  • Tonberry

    Until I was maybe 12 or so, I didn’t listen to anything but video game music. I would actually get to parts in games that I’d like the music of, then leave it there so I could listen to it. Now, really listen to any of the first 5 or so Mega Man soundtracks, or any of the Castlevania soundtracks. I was indoctrinated with metal before I could even realize it.

    • Sin and Death

      Along the same lines as what you’re saying, I swear that the old Nintendo game Shadowgate is one of the reasons I like some of today’s power/dork metal. I swear to christ that the keyboard parts in Amophis’ “Black Winter Day” sound exaclty like some of the music from that game. Granted, I haven’t played Shadowgate in over a decade, and the keyboard parts could be completely different, but in my mind they’re one in the same.

  • g man

    Well..I’m 43 and I have been drawn to metal like a magnet. I was in grade school ( around 6th or 7th grade ) when my friends older brother turned us on to Van Halen 1( the beginning ). I grew up in the “burbs , I had no real hatred towards anything ,or anyone , but the music just drew me in. It feels “right”..there is no other way I can describe it. Like yourself , I have some non metal cd’s in the collection , but even when I TRIED to getaway from it, I couldn’t resist that Crunching, Pounding, Screaming,and now Growling, insanity of metal.
    IT”S IN THE BLOOD !!!

    beer time !

    • quess

      G-man…I’m with you all the way…I’m the same age as you (just turned 43 a week ago) and have liked metal since I was 15 (Maiden!!). I tried to listen to rap/hip hop, but being a lower middle class white kid, I couldn’t relate. I was always into mythology and religion, so the metal shit just “spoke” to me, especially Maiden. Anyhow, I was into the whole Priest/Maiden/Motley scene, and even some of the hair band shit, but now i love that stuff plus death metal and any kind of metal; Opeth, Behemoth, Finntroll, alot of bands talked about on this web site, I can’t get enough of it!!

      Long live metal!! And fuck country music! LOL!

      • Potatogod93

        Fuck Country?? No way man, just listen to Hank Williams, Hank Williams 3, and Johnny Cash. THeres some great stuff right there.

        • http://www.omimetal.wordpress.com The Greys

          I’m also an old fart like G-Man and quess. In the beginning, I listened to metal because it was a vent from my teenage frustrations, such as hating high school, being mad at my parents (which is kind of a cliche, isn’t it? Every teenage boy at some point between 13 and 18 hates his parents, I guess), not knowing where I fit in with society, etc. But those things passed; thank god for time, in that respect, at least.

          Why I listen now isn’t terribly complex. The main reason is the power of the music: As others have said quite well, there’s an energy to metal that picks me up and makes me feel 10 feet tall. It’s like a double shot of espresso for the soul. The musical complexity is also a draw – I love being able to listen to bands like Opeth or Blut Aus Nord and hearing something new almost every time.

          Finally, I guess I’d say I love metal because there are some universal truths, and those don’t change just because we don’t stay 16 forever. As Eyal said, the world can be a hell hole of a place. Metal doesn’t shy away from that truth. I don’t enjoy metal that’s too negative or depressing (I can’t listen to “The Downward Spiral,” because it gives me the blues), but there’s an honesty to a lot of the genre that’s an appeal.

          P.S.: Johnny Cash really is awesome.

        • quess

          Sorry, man. I meant fuck that bullshit that passes for “country” these days. Hank and Johnny are awesome.

      • spencer

        keller and the keels is a fuckin tank man gotta love the technicality of bluegrass

  • Andy Synn

    Why do I like metal?

    Because when it’s done right it’s a legitimate form of art.

    • Tortiss

      Isn’t all music is art? Even rap? Just because any art doesn’t involve virtuosic traits and mad skillz doesn’t mean it’s not art.

      • Andy Synn

        I didn’t strictly mean to imply that other musical forms can’t be artistic, but I do find that (of all the styles that appeal to me) metal done “right” has the greatest artistic breadth and the least limitations. I’ve heard ambient black metal, jazz death metal, clean singing over the heaviest riffs, doom bands incorporating the loudest of silences and the growing use of specific ethnic and cultural roots to inspire and enlighten.

      • tiagón

        a lot of cultural manifestations aren’t art; they’re just entertainment, products, or even protest tactics. you can apply that to literature or cinema, for example. Andy’s point is correct, and it isn’t excludent.

  • Baldish

    Im 16 and i really have no clue why I listen to or even started listening to metal. There are many aspects of it that I cant get enough of that aren’t available in the other genres I listen to(rap, techno, etc).

  • c-grind

    Nothing else compares to metal…all the formulatic, over-processed bull crap out there doesn’t do anything for me…..metal is just great, one of my greatest passions as of now.

  • crapper

    20, the sounds the guitars make, make my brain happy inside

  • Bicro

    I didn’t choose it, it chose me.

  • Beastmaster

    Simple. It’s abrasive, brutal, and portrays the emotions of hate, passive aggression, strife, and derision I wish to convey.

    Also, suburbia is boring as fuck. Metal makes it exciting and worth enduring.

  • Beastmaster

    Simple. It’s abrasive, brutal, and portrays the emotions of hate, passive aggression, strife, and derision I wish to convey.

    Also, suburbia is boring as fuck. Metal makes it exciting and worth enduring.

  • http://twoja-stara-gra-metal.blog.onet.pl/ Simon

    My story is similar to all the mentioned above. I started listening music from the radio in primary school, mainly pop rock and pop. But one day I’ve seen an awesome music video on a music channel. There was an animated intro with some kids, and a policeman who accidentally fires his gun and the bullet travels to the real world, destroying everything on its way, until it meets a band of funny looking guys and then it starts flying around them. That’s how I learned about Korn. After them came all the stuff that was popular in the late ’90s- so Limp Bizkit, the Offspring, Slipknot, age Against the Machine and many more. realize that some of them are really crappy, but I’m not ashamed- they all in a way helped shaping the person I am now, and I’m pretty happy with myself. Back then, I felt like crap (thank you, hyper acne!) and shouting ‘Fuck you! I won’t do what you tell me’ or ‘Hit me clown’ really helped. Still, after a couple of years the stuff served by the tv appeared to be not enough, so I started searching on my own. And basically that is still happening. That’s why I read this blog.

    I’m 26 now, still studying, so not leading adult life per se. But even though, I’m rather content with my life, the metal is still with me. There are few things that make me smile like a rapid bass drum part or a heavy riff. A week ago I made a 3 minute dance because I got my ticket for the first Lamb of God concert in Poland. So, to sum up, I listen to metal, because it makes me happy.

  • skip crackers

    its all about sound/texture and energy to me…i fucking love distorted guitars….nothing beats a great metal guitar tone. hearing a great metal band can give you shot of energy….can make you think…and can make you want to fuck….what’s better than that?

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Mike-Long/100000144612811 Mike Long

    I currently am 16 and I have been into metal for the last two years. I am sort of a nerd and a very quiet kid at my school. For this reason, I have never really liked jocks, who always liked rap, so I, naturally, never found the appeal of rap. I also somehow liked how emotional, technical, catchy, and brilliant metal could be even though 99% of the mainstream couldn’t handle it, so I became happy in being an outsider and I looked down upon the people with pants down to their knees and, more recently, the people with emo haircuts who like shitty Vans Warped Tour bands. Also, since I started liking metal, I have been genuinely happy with my life for the first time.

  • Deucemon

    Just hit my 30′s and still into metal even more so then when I was just getting into Pantera at 13. It defintely doesn’t come from a dark place. With just a quick thought about it, I think its the intensity and aggressivness of it, providing an outlet as I myself don’t outwardly show those often. I only listen though, I never have played. Is it cliche that I am really into horror movies also? Good question I’ll have to think about this more, great post as always.

  • mahkiavelli

    My first exposure to metal was hair-metal. I grew up in a small town in the middle of KS, so you took what you could get. Not that you could consider Cinderella, Poison or any of their ilk being “heavy” but I always liked the heavier songs/parts of songs. Then “and justice for all” came out. All of a sudden there was this band that made entire ALBUMS of the heavy shit. It was all downhill from there. I think I’m drawn to metal because its exciting. There’s no way you can listen to a good metal song and NOT feel something, whether its Priest of BTBAM, like many have already said above, the good shit makes you feel alive.

  • brent

    I got into metal by way of The Haunted. I was 16 and I was in a punk band at the time, hanging at a friend’s house, and he put on “The Haunted- Made Me Do It.” I immediately recognized what I interpreted as a punk structure, with a darker feeling, and with guys who could really play. From there it all opened up: I devoured records from all the Swedish greats and couldn’t be satiated. It wasn’t long before I realized what EXACTLY it was that I dug so much: these guys were playing classical music. Plain and simple. The interplay between the instruments, the structures, the arpeggiated sequences. The lead guitars were violins, the bass was a brass section. It was at that point that I felt that I really “got” what these metal guys were trying to convey.
    I think that still holds true for pretty much all of the metal that I’m in to. The prog-metal guys are mixing it with Yes, the doom guys are making it ethereal, the djent guys are playing with time-signatures and using the rhythm as a different expression of virtuosity (just as Prokofiev and Debussy were doing at the beginning of last century with their sonatas.)
    Which leads me to why I still listen: metal stands out as a field in which the practices of experimentation and genre-crossing aren’t just happening, they are thriving. Making a new style of metal, putting your spin on it, is practically required in order to really thrive in metal. And as a listener or a performer, I wouldn’t have it any other way.
    By the way, it’s quite a relief to hear someone else express many of the same quirks of my own musical tastes: generally dark (because I seem to have this filter in my head that interprets anything else as…. cheesy) and requiring a “newness”. In order for it to really pique my interest, music must challenge conventions, or at the very least put at least a slightly different spin on things. I thank you for that, Eyal.

  • SouthFL Infidel

    i love metal for many reasons,but most of all I love it because there are sooo many layers, like an onion. You can get into the technicality of some of the musicians, you can get into the dark lyrics/imagery, you can get into the live performances, you can get into the down-tuned stoner stuff and just nod-out, you can put on moody atmospheric stuff for a rainy day, or you can put on Meshuggah or Superjoint Ritual and burn through a hell of a workout.

    I was a child in the 80′s and my best friend’s older brother had long hair and would party all night and sleep all day. The only way we knew he was awake was when he would fire up the guitar and amp and start riffing to Megadeth or Sepultura. So naturally when he would leave in the evenings us two little 8-yr olds would sneak into his room and listen to his casssettes and would be blown away by the crazy music and album covers. It was there that I realized this is the music for me. As a teenager it served the whole “pissed-off” purpose, and now as an adult it still serves that purpose sometimes…but I also can just come home after a long day of work and turn down the lights and blaze one while listening to isis or Type O Negative.

    I also am fascinated by the metal culture and the whole brotherhood that goes with it. I tell my non-metal friends “There are MILLIONS of people out there who know all about these bands and this way of life, yet outsiders have no idea what’s going on”. I love how I can go to a Dolphins game in a Pantera shirt or a NASCAR race in a BLS shirt and have complete strangers go out of their way to come shake hands and talk music for a bit. It’s like a secret society or something.

    Like Eyal, I’ve always listened to all different kinds of music. But no matter how many Gov’t Mule, Van Morrison, or Townes Van Zandt albums I own, my 6-disc changer in my truck currently has 3 Mastodon albums, Type O Negative’s “October Rust”, and NOLA. The day i stop listening to metal is the day I stop listening to music.

    • Alex_P

      Not like a parfait, you mean?

  • Tanner

    Metal is Universal to me. Along with the oustanding musicianship it offers, It touches upon everything from storytelling to everyday emotions. Iron Maiden tells stories, Chimaira exhumes hatred, Municipal Waste likes to party, Cannibal Corpse wants to kill you, Yngwie Malmsteen wants you to think he’s Jesus and the list goes on! Good metal always raises that question: “What the Fuck is this?!?!” I can still remember how unsettled i felt the first time i heard Tool; how unique and bizzare the music sounded. As a kid it fuggin creeped me out! Now, i love evil sounding, and thought provoking music.

    Why do I breathe metal? For all the same redundant but honest reasons everyone else has mentioned. Its the rabbit hole you fall into to forget about troubles in the real world. Its heart and soul morphed sound. When two people like metal, you can instantly become friends! Plus I enjoy being different from everyone elses musical tastes. I care about what goes into music’s creation: The writing process, how its produced and mixed, if its a concept album etc.

    So Metal is a healthy, fun, and exciting way for me to vent out my frustrations. Great post as expected Eyal!

  • shep

    “Regardless of genre, the music I listen to seems to always be expressively dark and musically groundbreaking.”

    Exactly this. Which is weird because I’m a pretty happy person almost all of the time. I guess I also like that metal just has more of a ‘kick’ than other types of music.

    I was never into the normal sort of rock though, AC/DC, led zepplin etc. it just bores me for some reason. More punk based stuff is ok, so long as it’s (fairly) heavy/abrasive.

  • shep

    “Regardless of genre, the music I listen to seems to always be expressively dark and musically groundbreaking.”

    Exactly this. Which is weird because I’m a pretty happy person almost all of the time. I guess I also like that metal just has more of a ‘kick’ than other types of music.

    I was never into the normal sort of rock though, AC/DC, led zepplin etc. it just bores me for some reason. More punk based stuff is ok, so long as it’s (fairly) heavy/abrasive.

  • Unicorn of Doooom

    Great article Eyal. To me it’s always been the music I’ve related to the most being that it’s so misunderstood by the general puplic and as a pissed off teenager you relate to that feeling of being misunderstood, you start making a connection to this angry music and I don’t think that connection ever dies. It’s the type of music that doesn’t get played by the mainstream, so you make an active effort to go out and look up great bands instead of just having MTV and radio feed them to you. It’s that effort you put in that just makes you treasure and love it even more. And if I’m at a show where a great band are tearing it up on stage and the mosh pit resembles a deleted scene fom Braveheart and my eardums are reaching critical mass I sometimes just have this feeling where all the passion I have for metal just hits me… It’s almost goddamn spiritual. How can I not love it?

  • krunkulor5000

    yes! that is it!!! I got tired of all the poppy happy love club shit out there, i wanted something to kinda play out the frustrations in mind. As i get older certain bands have a jazzy feel i’m after jazz is ok but just dont do it liek a jazzy feel in metal hahah anywayzzzzzzz

  • Anselmowitz

    I just love metal, first cannibal corpse song I heard just clicked instantly. As I get older there’s fewer & fewer new bands that I can get into, but Ill never grow out of classic mid nineties death metal that got me here in the first place.

    That’s probably what I love most about metal, theres rabid fans of Lady Gaga nowadays that won’t remember a single song of hers in 10 years time, but metal, more or less, is for life.

  • typical white guy

    I never really understood metal until I played guitar for a couple of years. Then it hit me, these guys are some of the best skilled musicians instrumentally I have ever heard. I was drawn to the time signatures, the the speed and technical abilities that were put in every song, and that of course changed my whole outlook on how to play guitar and drums. That is why i love metal and always will, it changed my whole outlook on how to listen to music and play it.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Crunch-Valverth/521246222 Crunch Valverth

    I am 21 and I listen to metal since I was 13. I like metal because no matter what the fuck happens in my life, there always is a metal song to describe it, happiness, sorrow, deception, feeling like shit, when you want to hit someone to death. And you CANT get that from any other music genre.So I like metal because it describes the way I feel, no matter how old you are, no matter the way you live your life, metal is so big you can fit in, even if its only noise to some people.

  • James

    Metal is Catharsis

  • Jae

    im just born with it yeah!

  • TyranxX

    I was pretty much raised by metal… The past few years I have been more into producing psytrance just because of the level of production that goes into it, and I don’t need to be in a band to perform it, it’s all me….

    Recently I have been writing metal again, because it is fucking fun and bad ass….

  • http://www.youtube.com/user/ZombieNixon3000 President Nixon

    Well, I grew up with the Beatles and stuff my parents played, so I guess I was always predisposed toward rock music. I remember thinking as early as 8 or something that, “this would be awesome if it were faster and the guitars were louder and the drums were harder.”

    Metal’s the thing that got me back into playing the guitar. I love the complexity, the technical skill, and the fact that it just makes me want to shred and headbang. Also, the lyrical astuteness of metal is often given short-shrift by people who see the genre as full of meatheads, but there are metal bands out there that tackle material not found in any other genre and usually not found outside of 1000 page college textbooks.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Jacquelin-Rostad/635209883 Jacquelin Rostad

    At age 13, it was a rebellious thing. I was a cheerleader, and girls in junior high are cruel. So I went as fast as I could to the opposite end of the spectrum, and at that time, it didn’t hurt that metal boys were cute. I started hanging out with a girl who was into metal (Metallica, Megadeth, Anthrax, Skid Row, etc.), and she got me into a lot of bands. We’re best friends to this day. In high school, I got more into punk and indie rock. But then years later, a friend gave me the Iron Maiden – Brave New World CD, and that was all it took to remember how much I loved metal… it’s like I was reunited with my first musical love, and we’ve been together ever since.

    I think I liked metal when I was young because it was dark and dangerous and the opposite of everything I was trying to get away from in life. Now I still like it because it feels dark and a little dangerous or chaotic, but also because the lyrical content is generally more interesting than most of what’s out there, the songs are more complex, and something happens with really great metal that speaks to my soul in a way that doesn’t happen much with even the really good non-metal stuff I listen to.

  • Mike Arose

    I had a very shitty life growing up in area that was a cowtown turned into a ghetto and I always felt different from everyone else. I hated music up until I was about 12 then I got into Ozzy and Judas Priest. Now I had a Military style buzzcut from the ages of 7-16 but a shitty summer where all I could do is listen to music and nothing else I decided something why not grow my hair out ? Since then I’ve helped some of my bro’s learn about this life changing music, Appreciate true musicians who write their own material from scratch, Learned to play guitar, oh and honestly live a MUCH better life then I did before.

    “It is a way of life not a damn style”

  • Johnny

    I heard the Beatles first after getting their “One” collection and my first boom box. The next album my father brought me was the Paranoid by Sabbath. After that it was an obsession with Nu – Metal (hey I was like 12/13) until I started learning guitar. Then I found Trivium. Just kept getting heavier and heavier as I got older..

  • Eye of Newt

    I started out with Kiss records and the albums my brother and cousin would bring home: Heaven and Hell, British Steel, Animal Magnetism, The Wall, Ted Nugent’s first, etc., and the local rock station was always on at home. For the most part, the lyrics weren’t important for me, it was just cool and powerful. It still is, and that’s why I’ve stuck with it more than 30 years later.

  • dimentian

    my brain leans toward melody because this life seldom gives it, and aggression for the overdose of bullshit it provides. this style of music gives both and all you have to do is plug it in. whether it’s your favorite band, or jus one of your buddies puttin something on for the hell of it. It brings you back and pushes you forward. Metal has the whole pallet of emotions to me. Headbangin! nuff said.

  • Seb

    I can’t really explain why I love metal. I just know that when I hear those certain riffs/songs/lyrics, I get shivers down my spine. It makes me happy, I guess.

    There’s probably a certain cathartic element to it. Expressing oneself in way no other medium can fully articulate. I think this might apply to music in general for me, since I don’t listen exclusively to metal.

  • bertb711

    They scream so I don’t have to.

  • Bianca

    I’m a fifteen year old chick. I started listening to metal when I was twelve. People around my age these days listen to the shittest music out there: Brokencyde, Scary Kids Scaring Kids, and all that crap they play on the radio. When I first listened to metal, (probably old Metallica,) it sounded completely new and fresh to my ears. It gave me a different feeling/view on things. Way better than all that other shit people listen to out there.
    Not only that, but it made me feel original. No other girl my age was walking around wearing an Anthrax or a Pantera shirt.
    And I can connect with the music. It makes me feel like I’m not the only one out there who’s frustrated or pissed off at the world.

  • Ethan

    I’m in my mid-thirties. I started listening to metal in my early teens. I saw the video for Metallica’s “One” around 1989 and thought it was amazing music. For me, it was always about the music rather than attitude or image. I love the intense energy, complexity and heaviness. Aside from a few years in my late teens, I’ve always been a pretty happy, well-adjusted person. But then something happened in the mid-90s that ruined metal for me: nu-metal. If figured if this is what metal had become, metal was no longer for me. Aside from the occasional listen to Master of Puppets, I barely listened to metal for almost ten years. Then one day I just inexplicably felt like listening to Slayer and Sepultura and from there I STARTED listening to death and doom metal in my late 20′s and realized that people had been making real metal all along. I’m now making up for lost time. As a well-educated, 30-something white American I’m SUPPOSED to be listening to The Shins, The Decemberists, etc. Not that they aren’t good bands, but indie rock seems so BLAND compared to metal. I love that I’m not doing what my demographic predicts. Maybe I do have some of that metal attitude after all.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Jon-McManus/527315305 Jon McManus

    Metal is my favorite genre because of many reasons. The decades of history that have created the genre as we know it today are completely engrossing and intriguing. Metal is without a doubt the largest genre with the most varied sound – Death metal, folk metal, black metal, grind metal, thrash metal, melodic metal, progressive metal…there’s always a band to fit my mood, whether it be Necrophagist or Daath or Opeth or Mayhem or Belphegor or Turisas…the list goes on into infinity. Ever since metal came into my life, I’ve changed completely, from the introverted kid that couldn’t think for himself so he leeched off of his friends and felt too weak to do anything, to an outgoing man who had not friends, but true brothers, and I walk around with my head held high and an invisible S on my chest. Metal gives me a chance to indulge myself in everything that your subconscious is supposed to suppress – lust, sadism, violence, insanity, evil, malice, sorrow, fear – and it gives me comfort and power. And now that I’m in a metal band and we’re beginning to find our groove and have recently played with some big bands (including Diecast and Scalpel), metal has given me something that every human strives to find in their lives – purpose. I’d sooner bite a bullet than give up metal. Metal is not just my favorite genre, it’s my life’s passion, my mistress, and I will die to protect her.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Loudden-Mathias/1457846893 Loudden Mathias

    I’m 17 and Metal is pretty much my life. I picked up guitar (best decision of my life) four years ago and played nonstop because of Metal. Metal is the only truly stable relationship I have ever had. In a way, I’m closer to the musicians that I love than I am to my own parents or siblings. The live experience is raw aggression, and what teenager doesn’t enjoy that to some extent? Life is a frustrating beast, but Metal will always be there to help me out when I’m pissed off at all the fallacies. Although I love the raw (not always negative) emotion present in Metal, I also respect the discipline that musicians in Progressive Metal possess (see Cynic). Since being involved in musicianship, Metal serves another purpose entirely for me these days.

    Hope that was a good answer.

  • Hendecahedron

    It’ll sound like a total cliché, but I just feel it. It’s this connection with the music that just feels right. And like other fellows here have said, when I’m at a metal show, it just feels like the right place to be. Sure, I like other stuff like jazz and blues, and all of these genres share the common factor that it’s music that challenges you, that enriches you.

    And that’s why I like metal.

  • The Ironman

    Being a shy kid growing up, metal was my way of venting off my frustration. I wasn’t able to say what I needed to get off my chest but the music I listened to did. My music was like a voice I wish I had, an outlet for my aggression. Metal music was always a fall back for me as well. If I ever felt down, pissed off, or indifferent, metal was always there and could help me cope by feeling the same way. I am at the end of my college days and still listen to metal on a day to day basis. I still listen to the same bands that I did ten years ago because I haven’t lost touch with them and they haven’t lost touch with me. I will never be able to rid myself of metal music, nor would I ever want to. My girlfriend has always accepted my love for metal as with my close and true friends. Metal music is as much a part of my life as is my heart. It is why I still have my life and it is one of the reasons why my life is alive.

  • Chainsword

    it’s unending complexity and evolution holds the focus of my ADD riddled mind.

    the neverending quest to make something more agressive, faster, heavier, more complex, and more abrasive is a demanding thing to keep up with.

    I enjoy the sound, the feel, the culture, other’s perceptions of our culture, and how straight up awesome metal music is. it is both the most technicly demanding, yet organic thing i;ve ever experienced.

    Metal is the epitome of what Mankind can conjure from the depths of our minds. I find it hard to digest that not everyone loves it.

  • tiagón

    great article, and great topic. I could read a book only with stories like the comments on this post (thanks everyone btw). I think it’s fascinating.

    personally, I feel like I was just grabbed by metal. something that happened naturally. I was born in the late 70′s and my path was something like Beatles (listening with my dad), than Pink Floyd -> Deep Purple/Led Zeppelin -> Black Sabbath -> Sepultura. and then Morbid Angel, doom/death Anathema/Paradise Lost, Napalm Death, Megadeth, Gorguts. and then jazz and ambient/electronica and math rock. not only metal founded me, supported me, but also showed me that the music universe could be incredibly wide and generous — exactly the opposite of FM radio does, and everyone at your class when you’re 12 seems to be. (or at any age, for sure; I mean, Lady Gaga, I’d rather be dead than go hip.)

    and like so many stories here, metal gave me a place to live. a rich way to cope with teen anger and frustration, and formed a base to a future in which music plays a vital part. within metal lies the truth.

  • Skullcrusher

    I’ve been into metal since I was 12, when I first heard System of a Down and Metallica. Now I’m 17, and I find my love for metal still growing every day, progressing towards heavier and more intense bands. I love the pure emotion that comes through the music. As a musician, it inspires me to create my own music, and metal is the one form of music that truly moves me. I have always been drawn to it, because of the musicianship, and the feeling of unity I get when I’m with other metalheads. Its a great thing, and I’ve been introduced to many good friends because of it.

  • Bristlecone

    Metal is very powerful music. Oddly enough, my interest in metal evolved from being a huge Floyd head to interest in Dimmu Borgir, Necrophagist, and various other bands. This is the same “expressively dark and musically groundbreaking” concept as in the article. The best aspects of metal do translate into other genres.

    The main reason i was attracted to it was partly that it was dark and progressive, but also that there were so many different styles and sounds within the genre itself. Between black metal, death metal, folk metal, symphonic metal, there are an infinite number of possibilities within the genre. I’ve been listening to metal for a damn long time and i haven’t gotten close to bored yet. You can always create something totally new and unique that is still metal, and that is why metal will always be around.

  • Motoghost

    Well I’m 18, and discovered Metal really at about 6 or 7. In the car with my oldest cousins and my uncle who was like a second father to me, and playing on the radio is One by Metallica. At 7 years old hearing the sound of double bass drum patterns accompanied by gun shots and bombs, was both fear inducing and amazing. Needless to say I was hooked, then only a few year later I plunged head first into the metal realm of Sweden. My first friend in my new neighborhood would fully introduce to me the monster that is Opeth.

    Throughout my life I’ve had depression,anxiety, and severe anger so metal hits all of that and more head on. I’m into Metal simply because it is my way of having catharsis instead of going insane and either killing someone or myself. Now I’m not saying that is all I listen to, I listen to just about anything from Johnny Cash to Bruce Springsteen to At The Gates to David Bowie. But Metal is something very close to my heart and has influenced my being a musician immensely.

    • Alex_P

      I’m trying to indoctrinate my 8-year old brother with the Faceless. I figure he should have an awesome life.

  • http://www.prosaicparadise.com/ Kim

    I came at this kind of backwards. Yeah, I heard Metallica’s One when I was a teenager and listened to it quite a bit but I never connected with the rest of metal back then.

    Fast forward to my 30s and I am nuts for progressive rock, constantly trying to relearn the history of rock from the 70s. But what I found was that often prog was not as heavy a sound as I wanted to hear. So some friends turned me on to a band called Moonlyght (highly silly and defunct), but it opened a door for me back into metal and all the amazing crazy shit that has been going on since I abandoned it all those years ago.

    Someone said above that it’d great to listen to music that for once is not about happy poppy love shit. I agree. It’s why I started listening to progressive stuff – sometimes it’s pretentious but it’s also thinky in a good way. So is a lot of metal. Same appeal.

    I wish I could say the culture was part of it but not many of my friends like metal. Not feeling the brotherhood over here. But I know the feeling in the crowd is awesome at a really good show, maybe more so than other kinds of shows.

  • Alex_P

    I’m 18, almost 19. I first listened to metal when I was 12 with Metallica, but the first band I really got into was Iron Maiden, at 14. I used to be lazy with music, and so I listened to a lot of stuff because my (little!) brother would. When I started giving a shit, way too late in my life (16), I got into metal properly. These last two years have been amazing, if not really filled with all that much sex (or any at all, fml.). I gravitated towards Maiden at first ironically (as a semi-protest against my Christian-infested school), and stayed for the quality of the music. Anyways, from 16 onwards I moved to Montreal, became surrounded by musicians and decided to make up for lost time. I don’t like metal because of any darkness aspect, or because of aggression. I simply listen to metal because it’s the one genre which continually impresses me, and because in metal, something’s always happening even if nothing is happening. I listen to tons of other stuff too, but most of what I like is metal. Metal got me to take up keyboards again, which is awesome (I suck though).

    I’m a pretty content, if somewhat lonely, guy, and I’ve taken charge of my life by staying in shape and staying motivated to succeed. I’m still a nerd, obviously, and shy, but I figure I can at least be in good shape. The rush of endorphins is worth it, and weightlifting is actually a massive part of my life (8+ hours a week if I can manage, and I intend to up it to 10 and start running again). Obviously, I loves me the proggy stuff while I’m at the gym. I could write an essay on gym music, but suffice to say Opeth and Dream Theater are great, while BTBAM doesn’t really fit, even though I love them.

    To any depressed teenage nerd guys reading this (I spotted a few of you): take up or at least try exercise, even if you hate the jock types. It won’t get you laid, but it will improve the quality of your day-to-day life.

    • Hammer_Smashed_Hurtt

      16 aint too late man..It may sound cliched as fuck, but its never too late.

      • Alex_P

        I know, man. These last years have been a great journey. I went from an onlooker to a full-on member of the culture. Hell, I’m a music critic now. Three years ago, I knew fuck all about music, and now I’m that asshole who listens to all those bands you didn’t know existed (although I love to share with my friends. My best friend is hooked on Oranssi Pazuzu right now, and he’s more of an indie kid).

  • RomuluXX

    My journey into metal started around 2003. I had always heard Metallica on the radio and liked it better than anything else on the radio. I bought St. Anger the day it was released and it was the heaviest, most awesome thing I had ever heard. bear in mind, I was 12 and had only ever listened to the radio. Now this was just my first taste of metal and i didn’t really listen to mush other metal than St. Anger.

    Fast forward to the release of Guitar Hero. I played the game constantly and it had some great metal in it, including Symphony of Destruction by Megadeth and Cowboys from Hell by Pantera. Cowboys from hell blew my mind, so I went out and bought Pantera’s greatest hits. Then I bought Master of Puppets, an subsequently every other Metallica album. I basically just started with a bunch of thrash and some groove metal, but Blood Mountain was a HUGE game changer for me and opened up a world of metal to me.

    To this day Metallica and Mastodon are still my favorite bands. There’s just something about the music that feels genuine, and angry, and beautiful, and right all at once and inspires me. It connects with me. Like someone said earlier, I didn’t choose it, it chose me.

  • Shane

    It’s an interesting question. I agree that I’m drawn to the dark and musically groundbreaking, although I find myself enjoying bands that are not as well. I like the energy and the complexity. But ultimately I think metal is the music of the outcasts. Of mainstream society anyway. I never really found a place I fit in until I started listening to metal. Sounds cliche I suppose, but I feel like I belong. I guess early in life it was a way to blow off anger and frustration at the world, but now it’s just like home. Metal feels like family. I can’t imagine listening to anything else.

    Plus, I get some hilarious looks when I’m driving, stop at a red light next to another car, and have something really awesome blasting. Opeth or Daath get some of the best ones.

  • paganheart

    My metal history goes back to eighth grade, when I was a smart kid growing up in a rigidly conservative family in a small, redneck-dominated town. I was a sterotypical “good girl” who made good grades, went to church on Sunday and stayed out of trouble…and felt so stifled and repressed that I wanted to scream most of the time. At the time I listened to Duran Duran and Rick Springfield….mostly because that’s what my friends listened to…until the longhaired dude who sat next to me in study hall took it upon himself to enlighten me. He slipped me mixtapes of Ozzy, Iron Maiden, Judas Priest, and Sabbath…and thus a metalhead was born. Metal was power, passion, energy, excitement…it was a little dark, a little dangerous, a temptation, an awakening. A secret society that only a few were privileged to know about. Today I am a 40-year-old, married woman (no kids, long sad story) with a boring suburban life and a boring, straight job in the legal field, with extremely conservative bosses who would probably fire me if they knew I was blasting Killswitch, Shadows Fall, Down, Queenryche and Dio on my iPod (Thank goodness they let me use my iPod!) I may not look “metal”–one looks a little ridiculous in heavy black eyeliner and a Goatwhore t-shirt at my age–but I remain a diehard metalhead at heart. Throughout the years, metal has been a touchstone for me, a life force and refuge that has gotten me through some very, very bad times. There have literally been days where I could have done physical harm to myself (or someone else) had I not been able to blast Metallica’s “Master Of Puppets” or Pantera’s “Vulgar Display of Power” or Slipknot’s “Vol. III: The Subliminal Verses” through my stereo speakers. Without metal I might have turned to drugs, alcohol or other dangerous habits, as some in my family have done.

    My tastes in music do extend beyond metal; I am a trained singer and have a soft spot for choral music, particularly that of Carl Orff, Arvo Part and Eric Whitacre. I listen to classical (especially baroque), jazz (of the Coltrane and Davis variety…no smooth jazz, please) traditional bluegrass, singer/songwriters like Leonard Cohen and Jeff Bucklley, modern folk (Ani Difranco, Dar Williams) traditional Celtic music, reggae, and pagan music artists like Gaia Consort, Emerald Rose and Avalon Rising. There’s also classic rock and prog rock like Yes, Rush and Tool in my playlists, and a few “guilty pleasures” as well, like cheesy 70s pop (think ABBA and the Bay City Rollers…memories of Saturdays at the roller rink) and Madonna, because everyone is entitled to a little musical junk food. I also have some New Age artists like Loreena McKennitt, October Project, Clannad and Mannheim Steamroller, because sometimes you just need to turn your brain off. Anyway, somewhere I read that the level of skill, precision and talent required to play metal is equivalent to that required for classical and jazz, and I believe it. The musical skill of metal musicans is grossly disrespected outside the genre.

    I think many metal fans and musicians, are, frankly, a little smarter than most, or at least our eyes, minds and hearts are more open to reality and we are not afraid to call bullshit when we see it. We know life is not simple, it is not black and white, it is not sunshine and rainbows and fluffy little bunnies. We live in reality (no, not the TV variety), a place that is usually messy, ugly, unpleasant, complicated, and lived in a million shades of gray. Metal helps us survive in this reality.

    Why do I love metal? Like others here have said, because metal makes me feel alive. Because metal can make shivers run down my spine and the hair on the back of my neck stand up. Because metal makes my heart race and takes my breath away like nothing else….well, with one exception ;-)…Because metal is cathartic, metal artists “scream so I don’t have to” in the words of another poster. Because metal fans are a family and metal is almost a universal language; metal scenes flourish in North America, South America, Asia, and much of Europe…and even places like India and the Middle East are starting to spawn metal bands. What other type of music can say that? Because metal can be fun, furious, thoughtful, mind-expanding, brutal and beautiful. Because metal is in my soul; as someone else said, I didn’t choose metal, metal chose me. Because I am metal, and always will be.

    Horns High!!!

    • Alex_P

      That’s a pretty amazing story, but did you marry the guy who slipped you the tapes? That would make it a movie-type romance for sure.

      Also, big ups for Coltrane and Davis. Two musical gods.

      • paganheart

        I didn’t…we did get to be pretty good friends, though. It was never more than that because I was still too straight-laced for him, even after he turned me on to metal. (BTW, thank you Art, wherever you are…)

        Ironically, the man I did marry–and who is wonderful in many, many ways–is not a metal fan. He’s not much of a music person at all, actually; he’s more of a movie and book fanatic. Lucky for me he is very tolerant of my musical obsessions, including metal, and in fact he’d rather I drag him to a metal concert than a choral concert any day. At least he won’t fall asleep!!! :-)

        And yes, Coltrane and Davis are gods!

  • Soy el niño mas bonito

    I started listening to metal in high school cuz my friends did. I’ve never been angry or angsty; I just enjoy the rush that metal gives me. The energy present in the best metal bands is unlike anything I’ve ever experienced, and that’s what keeps me interested

  • Hammer_Smashed_Hurtt

    I love Metal well…….because its not the norm. It not on FM radio. (real metal anyway).

    I love Metal for the Brotherhood of it, something i didnt see or really appreciate until I got sent to Europe. Americans arent very popular in some parts of Europe, but me and a couple of good buddies have been to countless festivals and shows over the years and we’ve had the chance to meet countless cool fucking dudes with the same Ideals, same love, passsion and Knowledg eof Metal. My favorite part of any show we go to is standing in line talking to other fans before the show. Ive made some great friends from it, and some Ill never forget.

    Metal is worldwide. Something I knew- but it took me seeing it to believe it. Its in your damn blood I think. Its not something that once you turn a certain age you just turn it off and say “meh Im not going to listen to this anymore” If anything my thirst to hear new shit has gotten deeper with age.

    I love Metal because its empowering. It got me through rough formative years in highschool and some even worse times in real life. Metal got me standing up for myself, taking care of myself. it gave me the Do or die attitude, or the Take no shit attitude if you will. But it also taught me to respect others.

    I love Metal..Period.

    • Alex_P

      I agree about not growing out of it. No one who really listens to metal drops it. There was one guy at my school who said he only listened to Trance nowadays, and that he used to listen to metal. I asked him what his favourite band was, and he said Mudvayne…
      Yeah.

      Also, big ups to Eyal for provoking another discussion.

  • DecrystallizingReason

    I listen to metal because it’s fucking awesome.

    • Alex_P

      Don’t we all?

  • DJ Arnold

    I am 28 and I first was exposed to my metal by White Lion and Stryper. I had an older sister that mostly listened to Madonna and Culture Club, but like many teenagers of the 80′s she got into some of the glam rock/hair metal bands by their power balads which I still love more than their “more rocking” songs. I got into Metallica later, but mostly the Black Albulm and yes Load and Reload. I kind of tried the redneck thing for a while, but still constantly wanted to hear more electric guitar distortion ala AC/DC and the so on. I kind of had a slow introduction into the underground by hearing stuff I abhore now like Korn and Rage Against the Machine. I also found out about P.O.D. from reading metal magazines and liked how they were Christians, so Iistened to their music and found out some punk and hardcore bands through them. This was around 99. I started investigating more bands and ended getting the first Songs from the Penalty Box CD, because it had a bunch of punk and ska bands on it that I loved, but found these really great bands that I love to this day. For istance, Living Sacrifice, Strongarm, early Zao and Liberate Te Ex Infernis and Where Blood and Fire Bring Rest. Yes, metallic hardcore was what influenced me to fight about Nile, Behemoth and other more underground bands, but I still love the early metallic hardcore bands. I do still listen to many Christian bands, but I don’t really care what anyone has to say as long as the music is good. It is just a bonus when I agree with them.

  • Adam

    I definitely got into metal out of a combination of frustration and being drawn to the power of it. I wasn’t a cool kid and I got picked on by pretty much everyone, so metal was my fuck you music. I have been drawn to it ever since, though as it’s often been said, your tastes graduate and you find a deeper meaning in music to where you can find the same “heaviness” in Meshuggah as Radiohead.

    There’s just something about the music that (pardon the pun) quite literally strikes a chord in me. I’m drawn to it, I’m compelled by it and quite often when I hear it I want to stop what I’m doing and just rock out. I definitely still connect to the strength of it, because unlike alot of people (note I didn’t say “most”) when I hear just a dude playing an acoustic guitar, I mean sure it sounds nice but it really doesn’t do alot for me. When I hear a good metal riff the hair on my neck stands up, I start to smile and wait for that perfect moment of release.

    From a musician’s standpoint I also really like that metal often just has more depth and artistry. Like I get how pop music is made cause I know musical theory and your 1-4-5 is a guaranteed winner whereas say a 1-3-6 or 1-6-7 can sound cool if you do it right but isn’t as instantly ear pleasing. I also love howmetal often uses minor key but doesn’t always sound like morgue music. And again, it seems to me like alot of metal musicians just naturally try to write cooler riffs and put more thought into what they are doing. It doesn’t get boring as fast and for those of us musical eggheads who want to pick a song apart and see what makes it tick, it’s an actual challenge and it’s more fun.

  • http://www.ceiltsei.com/board Ceiltsei

    Wow, this is a bit far down the list (as I just got home)..

    I recently got into metal.. seriously. I have been listening to different styles of rock for about 15 years, including some music that is a bit metal, like Nine Inch Nails, and other industrial music, but never found the riff based music as interesting until 2007. I was having a crappy day at work and I had some Strapping Young Lad with me (there is a funny reason why I had it with me.. partially I thought it would strike me somehow), and I laughed at how serious the music was, but the intensity of this got me thinking. In rock I had always been attracted to a few things – intensity, monster sounds, strange sounds, and almost mathematic connection with the instruments, and these things I found in bands like The Church, Genesis, Tea Party, and other somewhat progressive bands.

    After the Strapping Young Lad spark, I grabbed Meshuggah (hearing it was a bit like a crazy Tool band) and that was it.. done.. and then I found hundreds more. Besides these reasons, I write music and had this obsession with writing half speed rock songs that became intense as heck.

    So yea.. there’s nothing like intense raging metal.

  • killer kovarik

    I’m currently 16, and I love metal more than anything else right now.
    I got into it back when I was 12? Maybe not sure, I heard metal way before then singing along to Iron Maiden, Metallica and Black Sabbath. I started trying to find the right music for me. I listened to shitty music when I lived in my old town. Then I moved and discovered “metal” I was blown away by the talent and sheer intensity the music gave off. I started going deeper and deeper into metal and discovering all sorts of diferent bands within the genre. By now I’ve found at least one band for any possible mood I could be in. It helps cope with all the shit that goes on with everyone right now and is like my place to get away from everything. Basically Metal is different from any other genre, it can make you angry, happy, excited, energetic or anything. I like that feeling and I listen to more of it. I listen to it for the excitment and enjoyment of the music.

    • http://www.prosaicparadise.com/ Kim

      What! Another Genesis AND Church fan on this board? Awesome. :D

    • http://www.prosaicparadise.com/ Kim

      Shit, that was mean for above poster.

      • http://www.ceiltsei.com/board Ceiltsei

        Ha! This is a surprise on this board.

        Maybe someone needs to make Metal versions of Church music. The sheer brutality and intensity of Cantilever or a chilled out BM version of Magician Among The Spirits would be welcome.

        • http://www.prosaicparadise.com/ Kim

          I am always arguing, fuck the endless Land of Confusion covers, please let a metal band cover Dance on a Volcano or Carpet Crawlers.

  • EdSW

    Tbh, it think It started with Gorillaz and Whetus. When ‘Teenage Dirtbag’ came out i loved it. I loved Gorillaz’ rockier stuff as well. Then I started listening to Linkin Park and Muse as well, loving their heavier songs even more. The thing is, at the time I was even looking for ‘heavier’ (compared to pop) music, i just knew that I liked it when I heard it on the radio. I think my first proper experience of a metal song was ‘enter the sandman’. My mate had a mix CD with loads of songs on so i borrowed it and listened to ‘enter sandman’ on my cheap 256mb mp3 player non-stop for 2 weeks. A while after that, I noticed a couple of people talking about System of a Down (BYOB in particular) so i thought i’d give it a listen. I didn’t know about itunes etc back then so I just limewired BYOB and Chop Suey. I haven’t looked back. I went from SOAD, to LOG (only for a while though as they were too heavy for me at that point) then onto Dragonforce, Killswitch, Machine Head, Trivium and back to LOG. Suprisingly, I only ‘properly’ started listening to Metal about 2 years ago. Since then, I’ve been exposed to pretty much every form of metal and many other genres of music which i never would have done if I hadn’t had my mind opened by SOAD etc.

  • SourDeez

    YES! You are absolutely correct, I’ve always told people that metal is like a sexual preference. Although besides just liking it because I do and I have since I was 12, it’s the energy and ferocity that really draws me to the music. And if the bands aren’t energetic or ferocious, then it’s the epic/gloomy atmosphere.

  • Lisa

    It started when I was eleven, stealing my older brothers cd’s and putting them in my cd’player -with the volum as low as possible sticking my ears to the speakers so my brother couldn’t hear. Didn’t know what it was, but it sounded dangerous and mean. And I fuckin loved it. My mom thought it was one of those “periods” that would pass. When it didn’t she got seriously worried. Couple of years later a lot of shit happened, and music was the only thing I knew wouldnt leave or let me down. And living in a christian place with 800 people surrouned by huge mountains and norwegian fjords, being a blonde girl, and being the only one of those 800 people listening to awesome music -just made me love it more. My 8 grade teacher threatened to flunk me in music because I wrote about Slipknot and Metallica, now -six years later another teacher is mad at me for comparing Opeth with Wagner and Ulver with Wergeland.

    I try to explain “outsiders” the feeling and mood you get at a live show, or the connection you get with the guy across the street wearing your fav bands t-shirt, or the feeling when the two seconds of one song makes you actually lose your fucking breath. Most of them don’t get it. So I do think that people that listen to metal don’t just like it, they love it, and would probably marry it they could. I know I would. Cuz I can honestly say that I’ve gotten more butterflies in my tummie from a band, or a song than any guy. -And I’m pretty damn shure those bands or songs has gotten me closer to an o(ea)rgasm than any guy ever will.

  • WowWee!

    Satan visited me one night and told me I’m the chosen one, then I said “Oh No!!”

    I had people play shitty Metal around me like Rammstein and Dragonforce and didn’t love it until I heard Black Sabbath. I was always into evil stuff like I was always favoring the bad guy over the bad guy in cartoons and video games for some reason. I love drawing monsters and would draw them as soon as I was able to pick up a pen (paper was not always needed). But I didn’t get into metal untill I was about 18 because I was brainwashed and Black Sabbath unwashed my brain to bring me back into my true self and a certain cartoon also helped me out.

  • Fufkin

    Escapism

  • Shitknuckle

    Im into metal because I was brought up on it. Growing up I was hearing bands like Exodus,Megadeth,Metal Church and the list goes on and on.Metal to me,like everyone else said,is a brotherhood.A tight-knit group of people whom all share the same love of this music and it seems like once a metalhead,always a metalhead.And growing up,im glad I had this music,because,like alot of people,some of the messages of the songs helped me with whatever bullshit I had going on.Sure your tastes will change with age,but there are always those certain bands that you love and will never stop listening to.And as far as im concerned,metal is the truest form of musicianship there is.To be able to play this type of music,you really have to know your instrument,and know how to play it well,otherwise,people will not hesitate to call bullshit.Shit like rap(dont get me started),country and whatever else,its just too simple and single-dimensional.I like to be challanged.I for one,love most kinds of metal,whether it be power,thrash,some black,death,melodi-death,and some newer bands and i’m not quick to pigeon hole certain types of “metal” bands because they dont fit into one particular,”popular,”or “true” type of metal.If its good,fast,heavy and catchy,im sure to like it.Great post btw Eyal \m/

  • AngryGeekGirl

    I was a teen during the 80s in a rural area. Metal was so aggressive and alive compared to the heavily controlled area I lived in. Add to that the fact that it was the bible belt and I was constantly being told to be a “properly submissive woman”, I found metal was a natural fit for my rebellious attitude toward my heavy-handed parents and their ilk. And I still enjoy it today.

    • paganheart

      Exactly! I thnk a lot of what initially drew me to metal is that it was definitely NOT something girls were supposed to be into. Metal is aggressive and angry, it can be dark and disturbing, it can be raunchy and blatantly sexual–all things that our societly tells us as “good” girls and women, we are not supposed to be. In fact I think the reason that you don’t find more female fans in metal–or at least females that are willing to admit they are fans–is because it is not socially acceptable for women to be into metal, and women, moreso than men, are hypersensitive to what other people think and percieve about them. Don’t get me wrong, metal is definately not for everyone. It is an acquired taste that is not for those whose sensibilities are easily offended. But I think that there are a lot of women out there who only listen to John Mayer, Michael Buble, Britney Spears and Miley Cyrus because other people are telling them that is what they are SUPPOSED to like. Inside a lot of those females with iPods full of corporate pop garbage, there are metalheads just dying to get out!!!

  • jakob

    it funny people say they never thoght about it, cause i have to account for why I like it every time i say i listen to metal and hardcore. It’s the same question; “Man, why do you like it, it’s just bunch of noise?!”

    i think the man reason it the energy, and jsut that its extreme, cause I always like things over the top. Even though a lot of people say metal all sounds the same, its lamost like there so many different sounds in the genre that its a kind fo music of its own or whatever.. Like there Maiden, Sunno))), Suffocation etc. so much different stuff i think

    And I like the concerts where you can actually talk to a band at the merchtable, get inside i concert for 10$, shout into the singers mic, get on the stage etc. you cant do that at most concerts in other genres. It just seem like a down to earth genre, I think.

  • zilch

    There are far and away more so-called metal bands I could do without (to put it mildly), but when I love it I LOVE it.

  • zilch

    Additionally, I prescribe to wide definitions of metal, i.e. Martin Popoff (’70′s guide to Heavy Metal) or even Chuck Eddy (Stairway to Hell guide).

    Trying to find “pure” forms to the exclusion of “impure” forms is generally futile and pointlessly exhausting.

  • http://Spees Austin Spees

    wen i 1st got into middle skool i was a freak, until i started listening 2 metal and followed it ways.My life is currently going very similar 2 Eyal’s (xcept iv already gotten laid) and i think i listen 2 it 4 the same reasons. not 2 mention that metal is the hardest 2 play, most badass shit out there, and it has a much better code of honor than other genre’s of music (such as rap wer instead of facing sum1 face-2-face they xpect u git alot of ppl 2gether and drive by ther house and shoot aimlessly hoping 2 hit somthing and then driveaway). in metal they don’t use those machines that can change the pitch of ur voice wen u mak a mistake. 1 last thing; metal gits ppl pumped up more than any other genre, even 2 the point wer ppl start beatn’ the shit out of either in massive mash pits just bcuz they can.

  • http://richarddawkins.net RICHARD DAWKINS

    I LISTEN TO METAL BECAUSE I’M NOT A FUCKING PUSSY, OBVIOUSLY.

  • http://richarddawkins.net RICHARD DAWKINS

    ACTUALLY AFTER JUST READING AUSTIN SPEES’ COMMENT I’M NOT SO SURE I LIKE METAL ANYMORE.

    • Eyal Levi

      Austin’s comment is genius. You don’t see that?

  • ITTOA666

    I love metal because everything else fuckin sucks. Plain and simple.

  • Romaould the Loquacious

    I’ve recently been able to call myself an adult having turned 20, though I’m in college, and the teenage element is still somewhat a factor, and thusly, I find metal as a good outlet for my frustration, but not only such. I listen to it when I’m frustrated, true, but also when I’m in a good mood and on top of the world, when I’m high, when I’m full out pissed off, when I’m sad (nothing cures the blues like some sweet, sweet Morbid Angel), when I’m bored, etc, etc, etc. I just love the heavy as fuck jams, and the tasty, rippin’ solos. :P

  • shredtilldeth

    I started listening to metal because I hated ballads. I liked stuff like Bon Jovi but fucking hated “Without Love” and was irritated that I couldn’t get through an entire album without listening to a sappy love song. When I finally found an album that lacked a ballad (Ratt’s Out of the Cellar) I found my genre. One step after the other then it goes from Ratt, to Iron Maiden, to Megadeth, to Cannibal Corpse…you know how that goes.

  • Meredith

    I’m 18 and I’ve been looking into different genres of music since I had a concept of what they were. I’ve gotten bored with lots of music but metal has stuck in one form or another for years now. Metal is the only genre with the energy that I want/need.

  • kmfcm

    Yeah, This guy pretty much said it.
    I just turned 30.
    I really started getting into metal around 17 or 18.

    I feel like I relate to it now as an adult even more than I did when I was younger.

    I like a lot of music besides metal, but the majority is abrasive in some way.

    I think I would love metal even if I didn’t hate life.

  • Thordonar

    Age: 47, and 33 years of metal in my ears

    Why I like metal : I dont know…

    Yes, but why ? : Because Amon Amarth play metal…

    That’s all ? : yes, there is no other admittable reason

    Do you like another style of music : yes, metal !!!

  • chalie

    well i agree with most ppl on here. i love metal cause it’s not passive, as with a lot of diff genres. and once you go so far in metal to the everything-but-the-kitchen-sink grind kind of stuff, it’s damn refreshing when your shuffle pops b/w cephalic carnage and tapes n’ tapes… i appreciate more different sounds now.

  • Josh Graff

    I listen to the metal for two reasons. One for the technicality of it all. I am an aspiring drum player and the style of drumming or guitars, vocals, etc in metal is incredible. It’s people actually playing their instruments (for the most part) and in some cases you can really feel that emotion in a song.

    The other reason I still listen to it is that it got me through a hard time in my life. In the world of a dysfunctional family while you as a person can’t get a word in edgewise because your parents continue to fight really fucks you up as a person. Listening to metal and some of the lyrical themes behind songs helped me express myself, granted it was passionate anger, but it was still great to feel something. It was something new and obscure in my life and I couldn’t get enough of it. I still can’t now almost 8 years later. The metal is a way of life not just a music preference.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Alexander-Joey-Pentecost/1196525770 Alexander ‘Joey’ Pentecost

    The main reason i listen to metal. Is for the honesty in it. Theres is no forced emotions, no album has to be written in any specific way to generate more money for the record companies. Its just a bunch of dudes having the time of there lives playing music and you can really feel it in metal.

  • nester

    i got into metal after it grew on me when i was about 14. i’m 17 now. i mostly listened to garbage on the radio until i was about 13. i started looking for something that connected to me on a deeper emotional level when i got sick of all the monotony. since then, i barely listen to the radio except for pop radio stations in spanish. my brother was the one who showed me that there was better music out there. he was always into rock and metal. for him, it all started with video game soundtracks. we began watching headbanger’s ball when it came back in 2003 and even though we’re not into all the music videos they play, we still watch it religiously. i remember when i was in 5th grade, my mom was concerned over the heaviness of the linkin park songs i listened to. today, she hopes that i outgrow my metal phase, but i am determined not to. i love melodic death metal and hope i only expand my taste in metal as i get older. metal is the only music genre i truly enjoy listening to all the time. i have a lot of anger and it helps me let out some steam.

  • Emily

    I started out listening to dance music and CCM, but my favorite songs on each album were the faster or more intense songs. I broke out of the christian music mold thankfully, and it was just a gradual climb into faster, more intense, heavier etc music.

  • christian

    its crazy that my dad was the first to put me on to metal. i can remember hearing master of puppets and thinking HOLY SHIT!!! i think i was about 6 lol and im 23 now.i love metal because its pure, unrelenting energy.the kind that cant be touched or seen.the type that makes your body move and makes you feel invincible when those guitars are punching and the drums are kicking.as a musician, i can appreciate the dedication and hardwork these people put into their craft, and ive got nothing but respect and admiration for them.

  • http://www.myspace.com/mamagoose2008 La Chupacabra

    I first got into metal around 5 years of age with my dad playing Black Sabbath on the way to kindergarten. Since then, I’ve loved metal. I can never use the same wording twice for why I love it. I just know that these are some of the elements I adore in any art medium that are found in metal in no particular order:

    - more sound without volume increase being needed
    - “telling the story” in a time frame of your choosing
    - lower register tones
    - simple but somehow intricate parts meshed together
    - faster than Superman playing
    - sound and/or image distortion
    - imaginative lyrics
    - varying styles
    - stress releaser
    - recognition of independence
    - open to development
    - bravery/taking a stance for opinions
    - unwavering passion

    I apologize that I am not very specific on this list. I’m just thinking on the topic of my head at this odd hour of the morning. i’m pretty sure I’d be more helpful if I took a much longer time to think about it. I just know that music has always been an emotional release and that it is metal that has been a prominant strength to face the world each day.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Michael-Par/1311163597 Michael Paré

    P.S. People who post to this site are more fanboys of each other than they are of the music they are fanboys of.

    Just sayin’

    • Eyal Levi

      I’m totally your fan boy

      I’ve been following you since…

  • PatrickSTL

    Really I love creating soundscapes in my head, and I love how certain sounds make me feel. Heavier music just sounds great to me. I love the passion, and talent, and creativity.

    There are bands in every genre that sing about every possible topic that you could relate to. Metal, and hard rock, and alt metal just SOUND great to me, and thats the truth. I like a few bands that are in other genres but mostly I listen to metal and hard rock simply because the music is incredible.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Joel-Mark-Fiscus/729265030 Joel Mark Fiscus

    the old nature vs. nurture debate all over again…

  • dexter_walrus

    My mom started me with The Beatles and Elvis when I was 4 or 5. Then sometime 5, 6 years later I saw Nirvana on MTV and slowly switched to things like Offspring, Metallica. 15 years later I have almost 2000 albums in my music collection and I listen to music every day while going to work, while working, while taking a shower, having sex…
    Music “helped” the other kids to distance demselves from me, and that made me dig more into music. Now I’m in my late 20s, married and I have a nice job. And through the years friends who listen to metal slowly disappeared. I don’t have to prove anything to anybody. i listen to music because I like it and not to be accepted in a certain group. Sometimes I miss talking with others about bands that don’t go on the radio… but I guess that is why I visit websites like this one. It feels like there are other like you somewhere there.

  • DaNi

    I’ve asked myself this question COUNTLESS times. I’m 16, and a black chick at that. I still like SOME hip-hop as the stereotype goes, but I have this intense love for metal. Add that to the way I speak and I’m labeled as “white”. My parents hate it, and won’t let me buy any death metal CDs [how i get it is another matter ;] ] or any merch that looks ‘evil’. I can’t even go to concerts. I wonder why I even got into it. But then I realize, metal’s got something different. Faster, heavier, deeper, darker. Most music nowadays just hits the surface, but metal digs down deep in terms of musicianship. Some bands have amazing lyrics to complement it. It’s like, metal dudes actually TRY when they come out with a new album, instead of just slapping on auto-tune.

  • Sin and Death

    I can’t remember why I listen to metal; I just do.

  • http://www.conorschaefer.com/blog/ Conor

    I explained the indefatigable urge to listen to metal to my girlfriend by referencing my taste in all art, not just music: as you say, Eyal, dark things are appealing! I view my fascination with metal as a desire to file and sort my emotional phenomena neatly. Metal and other dark arts can be black places, filled with evil and sin and hate and lying and hurtful memories, but humans need a place to put those things. So metal for me is like a chasm at the edge of the village, a place where I can go to toss in broken bits of dreams while I build anew.

    The Greeks (well, Aristotle in particular) found tragedy to be the highest form of art. I guess it’s reasonable to say that the perspective I relate above could really be summed up as “catharsis,” but I just took the long way about saying it.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Tim-Jones/554310014 Tim Jones

    Metal just makes me happy. There’s something about it. I know it’s usually quite dark, aggressive and depressing, but there’s something so liberating about its “this is what we’re going to play and we don’t give a fuck if you think it’s over the top” attitude; it’s an attitude I relate to a great deal but it’s not something I often find in other genres of music. I just love the unbridled power and passion in the songs that makes you want to jump around playing air guitar and mosh your way to work in the morning. So for me it’s actually the happiest, most exciting genre of music there is.

  • Alex

    Got into metal when I was a teenager through metallica, in middle school wanted to get into Metallica so I went to the store and bought Master Of Puppets because I thought it was their most recent release. Helped me skip the ‘nu-metal’ faze. After that got into meldo-death, and then black/death metal. Got into it because I liked how it was a good way to vent a lot of the negative feelings I was having at the time. (teenager! woo!) Got really out of metal when I was around 18. I wasnt really pissed off anymore so I didnt listen to it a lot. I am now 21 and about 6 months ago I went through my cds and re-uploaded all my old albums from high school, got really back into it for very differnt reasons now. I am more into metal for the fact I think that metal bands just sound pants shittingly cool. I dunno I just think its a really differnt style of music from what you normally hear. I also feel more connection with the lyrics of the bands that focus on subject matter that isnt the whole ‘satan satan gore satan gore’ thing. So really in my early 20′s metal is my favorite genre because
    -I still connect with it more then other genres
    -It sounds fucking cool
    -You can do anything with metal, listen to some death metal and then some prog metal bands and the differnce is astounding.

    yeah thats me.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Matt-Dasher/30826541 Matt Dasher

    LOUD NOISES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • http://myspace.com/legions Dylan White

    Shit man. What other genre of music makes your blood pulse? Sure, I love other genres but fuck, when shit meets fan, metals there every fucking time. I always have melodies and shit running through my head constantly thinking, writing, playing. I don’t know about anyone else on here, but music is my fucking life, it makes me happy, and I’ll take this dream I have to the grave.

  • spencer

    im 16 and i pretty much just listen to metal because I’m a talent chaser. every metal band has a certain aspect to it that makes it different from every other band (for the most part) and the musicianship involved to write songs is incredible. I’m a drummer so I’m constantly looking for something new to play and having a broad spectrum of music to play is incredible. Playing things from the Black Dahlia Murder to Protest the Hero to Opeth to Behemoth to After the Burial. Everything is different and it presents a small form of unity. When at a concert moshing or something like that, you may hurt someone, but you help them back up and all is forgotten. its a forgiving culture despite all the stereotypes and its just a fun way to be.

  • spencer

    im 16 and i pretty much just listen to metal because I’m a talent chaser. every metal band has a certain aspect to it that makes it different from every other band (for the most part) and the musicianship involved to write songs is incredible. I’m a drummer so I’m constantly looking for something new to play and having a broad spectrum of music to play is incredible. Playing things from the Black Dahlia Murder to Protest the Hero to Opeth to Behemoth to After the Burial. Everything is different and it presents a small form of unity. When at a concert moshing or something like that, you may hurt someone, but you help them back up and all is forgotten. its a forgiving culture despite all the stereotypes and its just a fun way to be.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Chaise-Gilbert/1351187926 Chaise Gilbert

    Metal, to me, is pure energy and raw emotions thrown into a musical scenario. When I listen to metal I feel alive! I feel the heartaches, the pains, the anger, the energy, ALL of it when I listen. Metal isnt something that should be shunned and looked down upon as most people society do. I think of Metal as a way of showing that life isnt all happy and fun and win win and :D all the time. I mean really? How can your life be so positive all the time anyways? You cant just shun the bad stuff because if you do you will just have to face it sooner or later and then it’ll hit you twice as hard!
    Metal also has an extensive background from when and why it first began to how it has changed throughout the years. I personally find it fascinating that a genre with its history and cultural stereotype has so much power and passion in it!

    • Psychological Perspective

      I like how you compare the way metal is shunned in society to the way brooding/dark/aggressive thoughts are shunned in society. Insightful to say the least. As much as many seem to wish to be XD all the time, simple fact is that we are not. Although I would personally find everything being perfect absolutely boring, if someone gave me a choice between a perfect heaven and complete nonexistence I would choose nonexistence in a heartbeat.

  • Miasma

    Like somebody said, I didn’t choose metal, metal chose me. I really wasn’t the type for extreme music (just really shy etc) when I first heard it, but still there was something in there that couldnt let go of me. After that I became outgoing, adventurous etc so partly metal made me what I am.
    Did ask myself why though, because I am pretty positive.
    What I love in metal is the powerfulness. It just has so much life force in it.
    Also like the true values, like honour, brotherhood and loyalty.
    I’m blessed for being among those who feel it.

  • katherine

    Metal saved my life and sanity,started with G&R an metallica then slayer an sacred reich, you can never get bored with metal there are too many styles and metal is always outdoing its self,everytime I ask ‘who’s going to top this band?’ I get a mind blowing answer from superjoint ritual to lamb of god to job for a cowboy.. I live for metal music. Thank you to all who have chosen the metal making music path!!

  • katherine

    Metal saved my life and sanity,started with G&R an metallica then slayer an sacred reich, you can never get bored with metal there are too many styles and metal is always outdoing its self,everytime I ask ‘who’s going to top this band?’ I get a mind blowing answer from superjoint ritual to lamb of god to job for a cowboy.. I live for metal music. Thank you to all who have chosen the metal making music path!!

  • Ten4for

    Really, the reason I like metal is the skill involved in creating it, the depth of the music and the history and culture surrounding it. I used to be the biggest fan of hip hop n a very small amount of death metal/ rock/ punk etc but I suddenly realized that rock/metal/death whatever you want to call it and yes: country music- is where it’s at and hip hop is well just plain -bad- in my opinion. I mean no offense to those who like it but even the stuff I used to listen to I can’t stand for more than 2 mins. Gimme some guitars and drums in my ears coupled with some awesome vocals when I work out or play ps3 or when I’m at work or on the bus any day over that other “stuff”

    From George Jones n Kenny Chesney to Nevermore and Katatonia, from kid rock n NickleBack to Faith No More, Bad religion, All Shall Perish/ Pearl Jam/ Slayer/megadeth n Kreator..I don’t care as long as its not that other stuff.

  • http://www.seanjin.com Sean Jin

    I’m a senior in college now, and I started listening to metal relatively recently – about half a year ago. Before that, I listened to mostly hip-hop, but I’ve always listened to a pretty wide variety of stuff. Pink Floyd, Amon Tobin, Mingus, etc.

    Probably the two biggest reasons I started listening to metal was because my friends throughout college listened to metal. For a few years I just thought they had terrible music taste, but later on in college, as I started picking up on music theory and playing some piano/guitar myself, I started to understand *how* to listen to metal. I mean, I started off listening to hip-hop, so when I listened to music I mostly paid attention to rhythm + lyrics, and didn’t really know how to listen for chords, riffs, solos, that sort of thing. Once I understood how to listen for those, I started being able to understand metal better.

    So, obviously, one of the biggest reasons to enjoy metal: technical skill. Mastery of the instrument, and all that.

    Another big reason to listen to metal is that it’s outsider music. Nobody who feels at home in ‘normal’ society listens to metal, or at least not as a kind of ‘home.’ Metal is music for the disenfranchised, the disillusioned, and the generally misfitting. As much as most metalheads will jump on me for this, one of the major reasons I like metal is for the same reason I like hip-hop: because it’s music for outsiders.

    Interestingly, there’s a really interesting difference between hip-hop and metal that I’ve wanted to do some thinking on: while hip-hop and metal are both outsider music, hip-hop tends to know it’s enemy… while metal doesn’t. I mean, sure, a lot of hip-hop songs are about boogers or bling or partying or whatever, but when hip-hop gets political it gets downright *political:* whether it’s the white man, capitalism in general, another rapper, the mayor of new york city, or whatever, when hip-hop picks a fight it’s picking a goddamn fight. Metal music is also aggressive, but it tends to be aggressive… in general? Most metal, that I’ve listened to anyways, is aggressive and angry, but at no target in particular. I mean, look at anything by Metallica – nothing, not even the old stuff, is half as topical as Rage Against the Machine or Public Enemy. Doesn’t make it bad music or anything, just something interesting I’ve noticed.

    The third thing I like about metal is that it really plumbs the depths of, well, depression and anger. No other genre explores the sounds of depression, frustration, and anger as deeply as metal does. Well, maybe some classical music does. I mean, yeah, other genres have some pretty sad songs, but I’ve never heard another genre that gets as downright /doomy/ as metal does.

    Anyways those are just some ‘quick’ thoughts on reasons why I like metal! Hope you found them interesting, definitely let me know what you think too.

    • paganheart

      There are pockets of political metal out there, from Black Sabbath’s “War Pigs,” to Megadeth’s entire “Peace Sells, But Who’s Buying” album, to Metallica songs like “One” and “Disposable Heroes” that are anti-war as hell. God Forbid, Machine Head, and Lamb Of God are also not afraid to call bullshit on the Powers That Be; LOG in particular has a lot of very political songs, like “Contractor,” “Now You’ve Got Something To Die For,” “11th Hour” and “As The Palaces Burn,” just to name a few. Unearth is pretty outspoken politically, especially on their “Stings Of Conscience” and “Oncoming Storm” CDs. Then there’s the Hardcore world, where bands like Cro-Mags and Earth Crisis flip a big middle finger to The Man in almost every song. And of course when you get right down to it, most Black Metal is basically a huge political statement against organized religion and everything it stands for, Christianity in particular (and the same could be said for a lot of death metal as well.) A lot of metal does seem to be angry for anger’s sake, but there are bands, albums and songs that are angry with cause.

  • adam

    why do i like metal?
    hard one to say really
    my dad was a rocker when younger and my bro loves metal and i love metal two
    for my family metal has been passed around i guess

    i love most sub genres

  • Beenyad

    I had an uncle who would always listen to Pantera, Disturbed, Megadeath, Iron Maiden, Led Zepplin, Tool etc. I had always listened to bands like Greenday, Rise Against, and Sum 41. Heavy to me was Seether until one summer I went to my uncles house and we were going to go climb some mountains that were like an hour or two away. The entire time he played The Sickness and A Vulgar Display of Power. I instantly caught on to The Sickness. When we were climbing the mountain he let me listen to his ipod. When we reached the top Hollow started to play and I was blown away. When the summer was over I went to a new school in 6th grade. I had a really hard time fitting in and it seemed like my only family was Disturbed and Pantera. From then on I got into Mastodon which really opened up alot of other metal bands for me. I got into High on Fire for there I got into alot of Sludgey Doom kind of stuff. Some how I got into Gojira and from then on I got into Death Metal.