DO METALHEADS SUPPORT GAY MARRIAGE?

Thursday, March 24th, 2011 at 11:00am by

Freedom to Marry

Metalheads are stereotyped as a homophobic bunch, but I’d love to prove the nay-sayers wrong. There’s an intelligent, thoughtful conscientious community of metalheads whose opinions are often drowned out by the knuckle-dragging, trenchcoat-wearing, redneck image the media portrays.

If you’re one of the many metalheads who believes in the rights of gay people to marry, I encourage you to sign the Freedom To Marry petition, a letter to President Obama urging him to end the exclusion of gays from legal marriage.

Let’s see how far we can take this. Tell your friends in bands, and have them tell their friends in bands. It’d be incredible to see the names of some metal “celebrities” alongside the likes of Rufus Wainwright, Mya and Melissa Etheridge on the list of famous people who have already signed the petition. And who knows, that might just help a little bit in lifting the homophobic stigma associated with metal.

As if you needed to be invited, tell us what you think on these issues in the comments.

-VN

  • Hamarthah

    FUCK GAY PEOPLE

    • legato

      AND FUCK YOU TOO

    • http://dystrophy.bandcamp.com devin townsends lost skullet
    • http://www.theblacklaser.net Joe The Wizard

      Actually, I’d prefer to let gay people fuck each other within a loving, state-recognized marriage. Seriously. Throw a ring on it, friends, and bone the shit out of each other.

      • sasquatch

        Or clam the shit out of each other. Who knows who reads Metalsucks?

      • Major Zim

        1

    • Dez

      +1 but only cuz this is not very metal

  • WowWee!

    Why not let them get married? So they can be miserable just like the rest of us.

    • rupert

      you beat me to this one-liner….why dont ppl realize that marriage is not some holy thing, but simply a finical arrangement.

      • TooOld

        Rupert has it backwards. If you want a financial arrangement, write a contract.

        • Doug Fudge

          You know that legal marriage is quite literally a contract, right?

        • rupert

          i should explain what i mean. by financial arrangement i mean one person sucking the money and life out of the other. contracts seem much more appealing than marriage.

      • http:///www,twistedcritic.wordpress.com Chris

        Roughly 500,000 other people beat you to that one-liner too, so don’t feel too bad.

        • WowWee!

          I’m so original and sooo damn cool for it!

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Skylar-Strange/1095951788 Skylar Strange

      +1. I’m sure a lot of people wanted to say this haha.

      • Vinsanity

        i see nothing wrong here, carry on. i just do not think anyone should be helped to reproduce. gays should adopt. our population is ridiculous. same with straight couples trying to make a kid who cannot naturally. i am sorry, but not all organisms can or should reproduce. im a biologist too. totally against a lot of shit they do. it’s contrary to evolution.

        • MannDober

          The point of marriage isn’t just the daily ins and outs and ins and outs of living together, most gay couple cans get that pretty easily. the point are the legal rights gained, like oh say visiting a recovering spouse in the hospital or combining taxes for your household. Plus, common decency via non bigoted (ahem and overly christian/protestant) government would be nice for a change… seriously, if you’re a metal head worth his/her weight in goatslayingoccultworshiping deviance then gay marriage is the biggest thumb in the eye you can give proto-christian, nuclear family, middle america.

        • http://jinnigan.tumblr.com Sean Jin

          not all organisms can or should fly, i’m a engineer too. totally against airplanes, it’s contrary to evolution

        • Nightwhisper

          As a gay girl: I’d love to adopt.
          The problem is that most countries won’t let us gay people adopt their kids, because of course they would be much better off in an old orphanage with financial trouble than in a loving family with same-sex parents.

          I much prefer adoption over IVF, but if I can’t adopt, I still want kids…

  • Vakarm

    Rob Halford, aka “The Metal God”, is gay. No metalhead has the right to be homophobic anymore

    • HTTYO

      A. True

    • legato

      not to mention gaahl.
      …though gaahl’s case is a bit funnier, unintentionally.

      • http://www.facebook.com/people/Patrick-Arriola/100002131340820 Patrick Arriola

        Roddy Bottum too

    • SourDeez

      Hypothetically, if Rob Halford and Freddie Mercury got married, gay marriage would not only be legal, but MANDATORY!

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Joseph-Schafer/40902026 Joseph Schafer

    Heavy Metal is all about nonconformity and individualism.

    How could we, as a community, NOT support gay marriage? It’s about as nonconformist as you can get.

    Besides,
    What could be more anti-christian than homosexuality?

    Marry the gays, Hail Satan!

    • Steve

      +1. Fuckin’ Slaaaaayyyyyyyyerrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Brian-Johnson/642241993 Brian Johnson

      1

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/William-Lindsay/567063759 William Lindsay

      For the fuckin’ win. Awesome. \m/

      • Vincent Magnotta

        All I’m hearing is “Metal needs to be tolerant.”
        Metal doesn’t need to be anything other than aggressive.
        Aggressive towards parents, christians, moslems, gays, straights, pedophiles, priests/nuns, Hilary Clinton, Barack Obama, George Bush (there were only, I dunno, 40 album’s worths of Bush-bashing songs written during his administration, 3 of which by Ministry alone).
        If someone can make an album within a genre that is solely (and graphically) about killing Jesus/Christians or raping a 9-year-old girl, I don’t see a single problem with someone making an anti-gay album, and really, grindcore’s been doing that for a while under the tried and true “we’re-just-doing-it-for-shock-value-we-don’t-mean-anything-by-it” banner ever since Anal Cunt, probably much earlier.
        People will say “Being gay is a lifestyle choice and you’re discriminating against them by making this “”hateful”" music”, but then again, gay men and women don’t HAVE to listen to it. There aren’t that many Christians out there who listen to fuckin’ Thornspawn for godssake, and that’s because they’ve chosen not to listen to a genre of music that degrades THEIR lifestyle choice and beliefs.
        I’ve been listening to black metal for years, and I think the whole anti-christian thing is becoming played out. It’s only with truly talented bands like Deathspell Omega who actually do their research and at least put up a helluva front that spark my interest, simply because there’s nothing shocking about Christ Inversion (the band and the act itself) anymore. I say, branch out and spread some well-deserved hatred to the other religions of the world.
        Anguished (1 woman black metal act) probably has less tolerance for Islam than Christianity, has no problem voicing it to whomever will listen (check out her Myspace page), and I applaud her for it. The closest to this we’ve come to in recent years was Nile’s lyrically half-ass (yet musically amazing) “Kaffir!”, the liner notes of which have Karl Sanders expressing his trepidation about the subject matter.
        If there’s one thing that metal fans can’t stand, it’s someone telling them they can’t have something. I’m for gay marriage, hell, I even signed the petition. But don’t tell me who I can’t bang my head against.

        • theAccursed

          Melechesh or Scarab releasing an anti-Islam song is different to a Northern/Western band releasing an anti-Islam song.

          It usually just comes off as cultural imperialism and an attack on ‘the other’ (ie; the type of stuff fascists love). Most bands I’ve heard from Islamic backgrounds (not necessarily Muslims, just from Muslim countries) are political, rather than anti-religious, because (as the dude says in Religulous) being an atheist is a bit of a privilege when you’re not starving or at risk of being imprisoned by a dictator/king/US puppet. Even though religious thinking is a problem (ie; believing the truth can be found in authority, revelation or tradition rather than evidence – like in the case for gay rights) it can only be challenged when a country gets freedom of speech.

          So I say, if everything goes well in the Middle East and they shrug off their chains we’ll be getting anti-Islamic black-metal from there within 5 years.

        • Cody

          tl;dr

          • legato

            hahaha yes

        • Agressorot

          You SIR just NAILED IT… i don’t care if Halford is gay he kicks ass as a singer and we don’t see him babbling around POWER TO THE GAY COMMUNITY or something, he don’t shove under people noses. And in the end if he ever tried anything that includes his hand or peck and my ass ill bash him hard and i wouldn’t give a fuck.

        • Brownsound

          You’re a fucking moron if you think being gay is a lifestyle choice.

        • ian

          There’s a huge difference between a band’s image and actually believing in something that is stupid such as racism, homophobia, Christianity/Satanism, etc.

    • Alex

      Hey Yeah lets all non conform by conforming to the fact that we should hate Chrisianity as metalheads. Or instead lets respect everyone regardless of faith, sexuality or whatever and not act like we are 8 years fucking old.

      • fffff

        you sir, fucking win

  • kittyliquer

    with over 50% of marriages ending in divorce, who cares if two people of the same sex get married, chances are they’re going to be just as miserable as hetero-couples

  • bucketochicken

    Done and done.

    Thanks Vince.

  • blahblahblah

    nope i don’t support gay marriage. homosexuals in my opinion, shouldn’t be allowed to adopt or raise children either.
    you can throw all of that “gay guilt” as i call it at me all you want, you know what i mean, the whole if you don’t support gay’s your a “bigot”, a “homophobe”, or that i need to “grow up”… it doesn’t work on me at all. total liberal bullshit.
    i have a step-brother who’s gay, he knows my opinions on this subject, and we get along just fine. in fact he’s one of the nicest people i know, but that will NEVER change my opinion.

    • Andrew

      Hey look its the typical knuckle dragger metal fan.

      • Billy

        OWNED!!!

        had me cracking up for a bit

    • Matt S

      Its not about “gay guilt” smart guy, its about offering the same rights to ALL Americans, regardless of race, age, or sexual preference. Sides. exactly how does it affect you?

      • blahblahblah

        marriage symbolizes the respect for the transmission of human life… through said marriage between a man and a woman, these two people will together transmit human life to the next generation and nurture and protect that life. homosexuals can’t naturally produce a human life and therefore should not be allowed the same rights as a man and woman who marry.
        in the end, you all have your opinions, and i have mine. name calling and bashing someone for there beliefs that have been instilled in them by their parents, family, church, etc, only further proves my point.

        in other words, GIVE ME YOUR WORST. i expect this type of treatment from people like yourselves. you all sadden me

        • TJ

          What about a heterosexual couple that maybe can’t reproduce to biological issues? Or a heterosexual couple that chooses not to reproduce? Should they not be allowed to marry either, since they don’t fit your little niche category of what constitutes an ‘acceptable’ marriage?

          • Matt S

            Exactly, two citizens of the U.S. can’t get married, because this guy and those who think like him just up and decided that marriage means one certain thing.

            Two loving homosexuals can’t raise a kid, but white trash methheads can? I hate to break it to you pal, but marriage was never meant to decide if people are capable to raising children or not.

          • blahblahblah

            oh of course… a man or woman doesn’t HAVE TO have children… i guess i should have been a bit more specific. but i do think the main point of marriage is to reproduce a lovely child. there’s also adoption, etc for those who unfortunately cannot have kids. however, that privilege shouldn’t be available homosexuals.

        • cxj

          even though i disagree with you, i respect your honesty and opinion.

          • blahblahblah

            thank you. same to you ‘cxj’

        • TheAdversary

          Marriage is a culturally constructed concept, and therefore not immutable. Marriage is a socially negotiated, sexual and economic contract between two or more people, nothing more. It has nothing to do with reproduction; that is called matting, and it is biological, not cultural. Yes, the two are closely interrelated, but again: marriage is culturally constructed and therefore not immutable.

          The point is that it is absolutely ridiculous to deny any group the same rights that everyone else has; especially in an instance such as this where it harms no one. I’ll repeat that: gays marrying harms no one. It does not deprive you of your rights or inhibit your ability to live a happy, fulfilling life. No one has any place to deny anyone else their rights. If a couple of gays want to get married there should be absolutely no question about it.

        • http://www.facebook.com/people/Monika-Alexander/1839460098 Monika Alexander

          Too many people are confusing their bilbical/philosophical feelings on marriage with the law.

          I for one believe that individual churches should have the right to refuse to marry a gay couple, while the courts should review applications for a marriage license regardless of the sexuality of the applicants.

          And you sir, can’t have it both ways. If you feel the reason gays shouldn’t marry is because they can’t naturally reproduce, then you must also deny the right to marriage to barren women/impotent men in heterosexual couples, because they can’t naturally reproduce either. I’m not attempting to bash you for your beliefs, merely trying to point out the hypocrisy in them.

        • Vinsanity

          interesting. this man has by far the most intelligent/compelling position on anti gay marriage ive heard in my life. for this, i applaud you. HOWEVER, marriage is a stupid arbitrary human illusion, so i would still argue that any human can participate in said stupid arbitrary illusion if they will it. my above comment about not allowing people who cannot natrually reproduce seems to be an opinion of this blahblablah guy, so im totally with you there.

    • rzberry

      You don’t have to believe it–idiots do tend to be incapable of understanding the obvious–but you are a bigot.

      • blahblahblah

        marriage symbolizes the respect for the transmission of human life… through said marriage between a man and a woman, these two people will together transmit human life to the next generation and nurture and protect that life. homosexuals can’t naturally produce a human life and therefore should not be allowed the same rights as a man and woman who marry.
        in the end, you all have your opinions, and i have mine. name calling and bashing someone for there beliefs that have been instilled in them by their parents, family, church, etc, only further proves my point.

        • Gacy

          Scientists can create life in a fucking lab. You don’t need a god or opposite sexes. And what about people that are born with both male and female sex organs, or none at all? How do you categorize them, where do they belong in your “only a man and woman can marry” plan?

          I also can’t stand people that are against gay marriage but try to justify it by saying “I have a gay friend so it’s totally cool”, fuck you. It’s not like homosexuals chose to be gay, everyone is born different.

          • Vinsanity

            we shouldnt create life. humans are too incompetent to understand all ramifications of our creations, and augmenting genes further would only lead to a decrease in genetic diversity, and thus this limits a populations ability to adapt. biologists are typically hypocrites who do not understand the implications of ecology. what i said above is basically inbreeding depression; that is maintaining recessive deleterious alleles over generations. in some ways it may be aesthetically pleasing to create kids, but aesthetics mean nothing. if one cannot create, there is something wrong genetically so they souldnt be allowed to do so. thats not eugenics, its just acknowledging the fact that some mutations are deleterious and should not be helped to maintain frequency in the population. im all for adoption though, to anyone. im all for sterilizing all people until population curves chill out too, and we can sustain humanity indefinitely but i dunno how many people would get on board there.

          • Gacy

            @Vinsanity (below)

            I’m not saying we should create life (I could care less what those weirdos do in their labs). This is an argument about same-sex marriage. You missed my point.

            Anyway, “genetic diversity” as you mentioned, is kind of my point. Everyone is born different; people can like metal or rap, men and women can like men or women. It’s pretty basic bro.

        • Gacy

          Scientists can create life in a fuckin’ lab. You don’t need a god or opposite sexes. And what about people that are born with both male and female sex organs, or none at all? How do you categorize them, where do they belong in your “only a man and woman can marry” plan?

          I also can’t stand people that are against gay marriage but try to justify it by saying “I have a gay friend so it’s totally cool”, f*ck you. It’s not like homosexuals chose to be gay, everyone is born different.

        • 3D

          in the end, you all have your opinions, and i have mine. name calling and bashing someone for there beliefs that have been instilled in them by their parents, family, church, etc, only further proves my point.

          This is probably the number one thing bringing down the discourse in the US today: the belief that everyone’s opinions are teflon and free from criticism or ridicule, no matter how stupid they are.

          If someone came to this forum and said, “black people are inferior and should be dragged behind cars until dead; that’s my beliefs that my parents instilled in me, and you can’t bash me for them.” That person would, and should, be branded as a fucking idiot.

          Your beliefs are no less bigoted and no less retarded, and so, you should be criticized and mocked for them. We can’t progress as a society if we keep patting people on the head for the irrational, archaic, idiotic things they believe; we have to shame idiocy and cast it out to a dark corner of society so that people will be embarrassed to admit stupid things publicly and start using reason and logic to question the things they believe in.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Steve-Stracquatanio/786020622 Steve Stracquatanio

      Most of the time people who bash same sex marriages do it because of a religious belief. Are you saying youre religious beleifs are getting the best of you? causeeeeeeeee thats now what im hearing. Theres quite the amount of gay people in metal fyi.

    • nick

      Exactly how it affects the bigots and how they’ve come to those conclusions is a mystery even to them. Anytime you get that answer it’s so completely abstract and vague that it’s simply not worth the energy asking anymore. It’s never anything as concrete as “Teh gays raped ma Pa and made me gay cause I saw it”!

    • cougar party

      Why exactly do you feel gays should not be allowed to marry or adopt children?

      Do you disagree that there are many, many, children who would be better served with stable people who WANT to care for a child than being in a foster home?

      Just because you morally oppose something does not mean it should not be allowed. No one is asking you to like it; merely tolerant it.

    • http://pelagic-id.com Jeremy
      • blahblahblah

        i could care less about your silly link

        • Stolas Trephinator

          You say certain privileges shouldn’t be afforded homosexuals–why?

          • blahblahblah

            because i feel and believe homosexuality is immoral and a sin and these sinful ideals should not be imprinted into a child’s impressionable mind.

          • Aether Jake

            You are reading a metal blog and talking about sinning. Does not compute.

          • http://multimedia-ami.deviantart.com amelia

            @blahblahblah
            So if you don’t support gay marriage because, though it is a human right, it is a sin and is specifically preached against in the bible, then do you also think that, as is sanctioned in Lev.25:44 (or so I’m told), I can own both female and male slaves from neighboring nations? And how about Exodus 21:7 which says that I can sell my daughter into slavery. Is that acceptable to you, even though it would be considered a violation of human rights also?
            Just a thought.

        • Jeremy

          You could care less? Good, that means you care a little; watch the video – it’s a perfect example of what an impressionable mind can be when it is taught tolerance.

          • blahblahblah

            oh i watched it…i just don’t buy into it.

          • Jeremy

            Fair enough.

            I’ll stop bugging you with follow-ups as I respect – and respectfully disagree with – your beliefs.

            Be well.

      • tingdurr

        Thank you so much for that great link man, it was truly inspiring. I consider myself a metal motherfucker like the rest of us and to be completely honest, it moved me to tears.

        Zach Wahls is an incredible example of exactly why there should be no debate as to the rights of gay marriage.

    • SxPxDxCx

      That is fine that you are against it. But really if it were legal how would it effect you on a day to day basis? Lots of things are morally objectionable and we can be bothered by them on an intellectual level but in reality those things will never effect our life.

      • blahblahblah

        it effects my life when my 4 year old daughter asks about gay marriage after seeing Elton John and his husband/bf on the cover of US Weekly holding their new baby in Wal-Mart back in January. not too mention the endless censoring i have to do at home to weed out all of the pro-gay liberal nonsense on tv. those are just two of the ways it effects my day-to-day life.
        thankfully, after asking me, “where is their Mummy?” i told her the truth and asked her what she thought about that… her response “that’s yucky”. and i agreed with her and praised her for her opinion.

        • bradyja

          My 5 yr old’s best friend .is the daughter of 2 lesbians She asked “does she have a dad” we told her, “no, instead of a dad and a mom, she has 2 moms.” No issue. Families don’t have to be biological. It takes more than making a child to raise a child.

          You absolutely have the right to teach your kids whatever you want. Just like when my daughter asks about god, I tell her there is no god and its just “dog” spelled backwards.

        • Milan

          I’m 20, so I’m a tad young to be thinking about having kids. But when I do have kids, I know the number one value that I hope to pass onto them is tolerance, non-judgment and appreciation of those who are different from us, not that those who are different from us are “yucky”.

        • speedbump

          It’s interesting to see the how the sexual aspect of the homosexual relationship is sensationalized among those who are opposed to it. Typically speaking, when we receive a wedding invitation for a “normal” hetero-couple wedding, our immediate fixation is not on their sex life. However, when there is news of a gay or lesbian couple seeking a legal recognition of the commitment they have made to one another, their sex life becomes the immediate focus. To respond to two men, or women, who wish to live their lives together with “that’s yucky” merely points out a strict focus on the sexual aspect of that couples partnership – unless, of course, you are subject to the adolescent view that love is “yucky”.

          When it comes down to it, the belief that gay marriage is morally wrong has undeniable ties to religious belief. While I may have very strong opinions regarding certain theological structures and belief systems, it is in no way my place to tell someone what their beliefs should be. It seems only logical and just that this standard should be reciprocated by those opposed to gay marriage; they should not expect others to conform to their faith-based definition of what is morally sound.

          If nothing else, there should be a separation of church and state. Denying gay marriage is a clear violation of this concept. Furthermore, to those of you who claim gay marriage is immoral and wrong, look no further than the words of your boy, J.C.:

          “Let he who is free from sin cast the first stone”.

          So, is that you? Have you lead a life of perfection that allows you to pick up the rock of condemnation and tell others they’re not worthy of the basic rights which you are privy to?

          • Milan

            Solid post man!

          • speedbump

            Thanks Milan. I was hoping for some kind of response, but it looks like I was too late to partake in the debate.

      • http://www.facebook.com/people/Corey-Mitchell/660352330 Corey Mitchell

        @blah3: First you claim you are opposed to gay marriage because gay couples are unable to reproduce. Then, you claim homosexuals should not be afforded similar rights as straight people because you believe homosexuality is a sin. So, which one is it?

        And yes, there are several straight people incapable of conceiving, therefore, according to your narrow-minded viewpoint, they too should have all marriage rights terminated. Same with cancer patients who are infertile, disabled people who cannot have children, people with mental deficiencies who are unable to bear children, elderly straight couples beyond baby-making years, military soldiers whose reproductive organs have been destroyed during combat, etc., etc., etc.

        Just admit it — you are a homophobe. You are a bigot.

        Be a man and fess up.

        My only question for you is why are you so concerned with where other consenting adults stick their penises? What is your obsession with male genitalia? Latent repressed desires, perhaps? That’s okay. There’s nothing wrong with that. Just accept what you really are and don’t make others suffer due to your own internal conflict.

        • legato

          HE HAS SPOKEEEEEN!
          +respect

        • http://www.easttexasunderground.net DaylightReckoning

          And a brofist to Corey.

    • Alex_P

      Stating the truth=liberal bullshit. Jon Stewart said it first: reality has a liberal bias.

      Your justification is that homosexuality is a sin. Policies based on morality, not reason. Gotta love it. To someone who doesn’t believe in sin versus non-sin, only a right and wrong based on basic human decency, your argument holds no weight and I cannot possibly respect it. Believe what you want, but it’s not 1950 and we’ll be leaving you behind.

      Personally, as a heterosexual, I take offence that you’re stereotyping heterosexuals as breeders. I don’t want kids. I can make them, but I see no reason to do so. I might get married, I might not, but my purpose in life is not to breed.

      • soy el niño más bonito

        1

      • http://www.facebook.com/people/Monika-Alexander/1839460098 Monika Alexander

        Amen

    • Metal4aHead

      I totally support your post man. I also believe that marriage should be between a man and a woman only. I don’t hate gays, people are people, and God gives us all free will to do as we want in this life, but there are certain principles that do not fly regardless of how we feel about them. I know I’ll get bashed for stating the truth, but go ahead, I don’t give a shit. I’m stating what I believe just as everyone else on this post. Since when can’t a metalhead get online and state what he believes even if it does offend someone? We all love metal or we wouldn’t be browsing this blog, so grow up and stop attacking someone based on what they believe. The author of the post asked for opinions. So if you can’t handle one that flies in the face of yours, then you have a problem.

      • Gacy

        this is basic human rights, no opinions, I hope all your children are gay

      • SxPxDxCx

        Just because you believe in something doesn’t make it the truth.

    • bradyja

      God has nothing to do with it. God is dead.

    • WowWee!

      I didn’t read everything in this thread but I got up to “a sin” and since you involved religion in the subject you’re wrong by combining church and state. If you say marriage is part of religion (but it isn’t for a lot of people). That’s why some people get married at court with a judge instead of a priest.

      About raising children with a gay couple, people who are mature enough to nurture and teach a child and raise a child should be allowed to care for one. Just because they’re gay doesn’t mean anything. That’s like saying a black couple can’t addopt a white kid or he might become a wigger when he grows up.

    • Matt

      Oh no, boys n’ girls, he used the “my BLANK is BLANK, so that makes it okay” argument!

      At least you have the nads to admit your own ignorance.

  • Tryfon

    Ah, why not?

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Skylar-Strange/1095951788 Skylar Strange

    Let them marry. I think Gay Marriage is the least of the worlds problems right now.
    Also, apparently it’s been pumping a bit of cash into the economies of the states legalizing it (don’t quote me on that though).

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Corey-Cobb/566162517 Corey Cobb

      thaaaaats weed

  • cougar party

    I have never understood the reasoning behind not letting gays marry. If a church or religious organization is willing to marry gays then what is the point in stopping them. Marriage is between you and another individual; not society.

  • MoshUntilPanic

    Whilst i don’t ‘support’ it, i also couldn’t care less.

    • JB

      amen

  • Brian

    There is absolutely no reason gays should not be allowed to marry. They fact that they can’t already is just fucking stupid and prejudice to begin with.

  • deeds

    i’m gay, so yes. let me get married for fucks sake.

  • darkdragon

    Many are so close minded when it comes to music so I cant imagine them being so open minded about certain social issues.

  • smearCampaign

    At this point isn’t it just ignorant religious zealots that are against gay marriage?

    • steve

      …and religious zealots are def not metal. fuck stryper

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Sceb-Cbs/589052729 Sceb Cbs

      my god you and your religios problem where you all raped when you where kinds by a priest? Metalheads are just a so braindead community…. and yeah i listen to behemoth or slayer…

      • bowing headds

        You should take your mittens of when you type. Since we’re all “just a so braindead” we might have trouble trying to understand your point. Certainly listening to Slayer is a fine demonstration of your superior mental faculties, yes?

  • http://www.worshipvolume4.com jeremiah

    im a big time homo myself and a metalhead since 3rd grade (36 now). while the metal community definitely loves the gay slur words (ugh)… i’ve never once encountered anything negative from any of my fellow metalheads in person who know i have a longtime boyfriend.

    i’ve actually found the metal community to be more accepting of ‘different’ people than almost any other genre of music fans. sure, the indie-rock community may be “art” based, but those fuckers will point and laugh at ANYONE who doesnt fit their elitist mindset. metal fans care about metal, thats it…not looking ‘hip’ or how they’ll be ‘viewed’ at the show. its always been a den for outsiders anyway, maybe thats why they dont treat others as such.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Annalisa---Triola/604992980 Annalisa マリエ- Triola

    They are law abiding, tax paying citizens just like everyone else, they should have access to the same rights as every other citizen, not just the right to marry, but all the right thats go along with marriage

    • Matt S

      I’m pretty sure the “equal but different” took a different form one hundred years ago. Your idea would basically be Jim Crow laws for gay people. Discrimination is discrimination.

      • jacob

        uh no dude, i’m pretty sure you misread that post. she said that they should have the same rights (not just for marriage).

  • SxPxDxCx

    It’s a non issue. If two people want to enter into a contract together to share property and be allowed visitation rights in the event of an emergency who am I to say that they can’t. I don’t really understand what the argument against it is.

    Other then the typical religious arguments and gay sex is icky reasons.

    There is no downside to allowing same sex marriage

    • SourDeez

      ^ This
      Marriage has nothing to do with reproduction, or religion. It’s merely a legal contract stating that you share all your shit. All of the “sanctity” bullshit is just dressing up an incredibly basic legal concept.

  • Stolas Trephinator

    “Trenchcoat wearing?” I’m not sure the metalheads people think of as homophobes are the trenchcoat wearers. If anything, it’s the denim-and-leatherers.

    But yeah. Fuck all marriage, but fuck anyone who thinks people shouldn’t be allowed to marry ’cause they like a taste of their own medicine.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Quentin-Wilkins/100001046551530 Quentin Wilkins

    The sole reason people are against this is because of “the Bible says” argument. Since the Bible isn’t, as far as I know, a legal document and there IS a separation of church and state, it should be clear cut what the verdict is. But, noooooo…fucking conservatives.

    Devin Townsend for Pres.

    • fffff

      the stupidest fucking thing is that the Bible hardly says anything against it at all. As with most things in the Bible, you can interpret it however you fucking like, and a lotta homophobes realized that if they could get all the bible thumpers in a big army behind them, they would stand out less as the complete fucking dicks they are.

      cause yeah, it turns out the Hebrews, y’know, 3000 YEARS AGO, didn’t really get the whole ‘gay’ thing. They kinda just thought some dudes liked to have sex with dudes cause they were pervs. Can’t really call them any stupider than us though, lotta americans still think that.

      • alex

        @fffff Yeah the Bible mentions it like twice in over a thousand pages. Its like a minor footnote but these people act like it was Jesus’s greatest commandment even though the evidence suggests He was more or less indifferent about it.

        • 3D

          Arguing about what Jesus thought about political issues is like arguing whether a unicorn is left or righthanded. He didn’t exist, so you can make him believe whatever you want.

          However, that said, I think it’s dangerous to start parading around this philosophy that the Bible is really awesome but the crazy people living today are misinterpreting it. That’s just not the case. It’s an evil, horrible book. The Bible has more than “a couple of passages” that condemn homosexuality; it’s all over the fucking thing, including the New Testament. Here’s a few:

          “Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.” — Leviticus 18:22

          “If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.” — Levitucs 20:13

          “The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman’s garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.” — Deuteronomy 22:5

          God says not be bring any whore, sodomite, or dog into the house of the Lord. For “these things are an abomination to the Lord.” Sodomites and dogs are biblical names for homosexuals. — Deuteronomy 23:17-18

          Paul condemns homosexuals (including lesbians). This is the only clear reference to lesbians in the Bible. — Romans 1:26-28

          Paul lists ten things that will keep you out of heaven, including homosexuality and being “effeminate.” — 1 Corinthians 6:9-10

          Homosexuals (those “that defile themselves with mankind”) are included on the list of lawless, disobedient, unholy, and profane people. — 1 Timothy 1:10

          • alex

            Ok first of all Jesus was an historical figure. You might not believe He was the Son of God but he did exist. Thats an almost universally accepted historical fact. Secondly that’s still only 2 sections (The Books of the Law and The Pauline Epistles) so it still isn’t a major biblical theme the way its made out to be. Yes the Bible is full of some messed up stuff. Thats my point virtually no one applies half the stuff in there to the modern world but the make an exception with gay marriage to try and justify their bigotry. Also by saying its simply an evil horrible book and ignore all the stuff about loving your neighbour, forgiveness, helping the poor, turning the other cheek etc your being as one sided as you accuse others of being. I believe in a higher power and reading about the life and teachings of Christ help me to feel connected to that power. Its just a shame mankind managed to distort His message.

          • 3D

            >Ok first of all Jesus was an historical figure. You might not believe He was the Son of God but he did exist. Thats an almost universally accepted historical fact.

            No, he wasn’t a historical figure. There’s no evidence he existed, outside the Bible.

            > Secondly that’s still only 2 sections (The Books
            > of the Law and The Pauline Epistles) so it still
            > isn’t a major biblical theme the way its made out
            > to be.

            Oh OK. So your argument appears to be: God only tells people to violently bash in the heads of gays with a bloody rock in only a few teeny tiny places in the Bible. That’s not so bad, is it?

            Yeah, I don’t think I can buy that one. You might wanna walk that back a few paces.

            >Yes the Bible is full of some messed up stuff. Thats
            > my point virtually no one applies half the stuff in there
            > to the modern world but the make an exception with
            > gay marriage to try and justify their bigotry. Also by
            > saying its simply an evil horrible book and ignore all the
            > stuff about loving your neighbour, forgiveness, helping
            > the poor, turning the other cheek etc your being as one
            > sided as you accuse others of being.

            No it’s not. The evil and horrible shit in the Bible far, far outnumbers the good stuff. It’s not that it’s not there; it’s that, why would you want to dig through all that manure to get to an ice cream cone at the bottom? All you have done is gotten shit all over yourself.

            It’s not that hard to be a good person on your own, love your neighbor on your own, and be charitable on your own, without attaching yourself to all the horrible things in the Bible. If people like you would stop insisting the Bible has some kind of value because of the few good parts in it, then less people would give the bad parts (like slaughtering gays) validation.

            >I believe in a higher power and reading about the life
            > and teachings of Christ help me to feel connected to
            > that power. Its just a shame mankind managed to
            > distort His message.

            I don’t think Jesus taught anything that great. He was pro-slavery (Ephesians 6:5-9), anti-women’s rights and equality (Luke 2:23, Romans 1:27, 1 Corinthians 11:3, 14:34-35, 1 Timothy 2:9) and planning to destroy the world in a full-scale terrorist attack, then torture all the dead people’s souls forever in a hell that he created. That’s a pretty fucked up philosophy if you ask me.

          • alex

            Actually Jesus is mentioned by Roman and Jewish historians. And if he didn’t exist theres no explanation for the emergence of Christianity. I mean the early Christians were haevily persecuted. Would the really do that for something they knowingly made up?

            I don’t belive the Bible was written by God. Men wrote it.

            The vast majority of the evil stuff is Old Testament. Jesus is New Testament. I never said I attach myself to horrible parts of the Bible. I don’t. Most of the scriptures you referenced were by St Paul not Jesus (apart from Luke I don’t have a Bible with me right now so I can’t comment on that (I’m at a Cybercafe). The earth gets renewed not destroyed and only sinners who refuse to repent go to hell.

          • 3D

            > Actually Jesus is mentioned by Roman and Jewish
            > historians.

            Cite examples. There are no contemporary histories written by anyone living at the time Jesus supposedly lived. The closest one is 40 years after the fact, and doesn’t even mention Jesus by name.

            > And if he didn’t exist theres no explanation
            > for the emergence of Christianity.

            Did Zeus exist? If not, how do you explain the emergence of Greek mythology?

            > I mean the early Christians were haevily persecuted.
            > Would the really do that for something they knowingly
            > made up?

            Quite likely, they sincerely believed in Jesus, based on stories that someone had written decades earlier, and had gotten embellished over the years.

            >I don’t belive the Bible was written by God. Men wrote it.

            I agree, but — the only account of Jesus and his supposed philosophies etc. is in the Bible. So if you believe the Bible to be fallible and prone to error, then what’s your basis for believing in Jesus?

            > The vast majority of the evil stuff is Old Testament.
            > Jesus is New Testament.

            Actually, some of the most horrible evil stuff is in the New Testament. I already directed you to the New Testament verses that are pro-slavery, anti-women’s rights, and so forth. There’s also the concept of Hell that wasn’t introduced until the New Testament; and Jesus himself introduced what is probably the most sickening, disgusting thing in the whole Bible, which is the idea that if you pray for something, you will receive it as long as you believe in Jesus. That one concept has gotten more people killed than all the stonings of the Old Testament combined.

            I never said I attach myself to horrible parts of the Bible. I don’t. Most of the scriptures you referenced were by St Paul not Jesus (apart from Luke I don’t have a Bible with me right now so I can’t comment on that (I’m at a Cybercafe). The earth gets renewed not destroyed and only sinners who refuse to repent go to hell.

            So — God makes people flawed and prone to sinning… then if they don’t do what he wants, he tortures them eternally in hell. What a guy!

          • alex

            Well Josephus is the main one i’ve heard of. I’m not that familar with the historical evidence but I do now the majority of scholars reject the non existence hypothesis and its leading exponent (Wells) has recently retracted his claims. I guess I’m more likely to belive academic historians and biblical scholars then some guy on metalsucks. Zeuss was a God who lived on a fictional mountain. Jesus is portayed as man in a historical time and place. I sure the people of Gallilee, Jerusalem etc could have responded to stories by saying “hey this guy never lived here”. But they didn’t. I don’t know if every thing the Bible says about Jesus is true because I wasn’t there to witness Him. But I feel there is enough common ground in the Gospels to gain a reasonable picture. I’m choosing to have faith. Can I guarantee I’m right? Of course not and neither can you or anyone else when it comes to spiritual themes. I already pointed those scriptures you mentioned were by St Paul. How has praying killed anyone? What are you even talking about? To say God created humans fallible and prone to sinning simply means He gave us free will. If we didn’t have that we wouldn’t be human. We would be molre like Gods puppets. Goodness only exists if you choose to be good in light of the knowledge of evil.

          • 3D

            >Well Josephus is the main one i’ve heard of.

            Here’s a pretty good synopsis of why Josephus is not good evidence that Jesus existed: http://debunkingchristianity.blogspot.com/2008/11/why-josephus-so-called-testimonium.html

            To sum it up, it was written 40-50 years after the fact, doesn’t mention Jesus by name at all, only talks about people who were following Jesus, and parts of it have been proven to be forgeries.

            > I’m not that familar with the historical evidence but I do
            > now the majority of scholars reject the non existence
            > hypothesis and its leading exponent (Wells) has recently
            > retracted his claims.

            I hate to say it but it sounds like you haven’t done much research into this yourself and you’re just repeating what someone told you about the topic. I’d prefer you look over the actual evidence and debate your thoughts about it with me, then parrot what your youth pastor told you to say.

            > I guess I’m more likely to belive academic historians
            > and biblical scholars then some guy on metalsucks.

            And that’s a bad approach to a topic like this. It’s a logical fallacy (“appeal to authority”). The evidence is the evidence, and you and I can interpret and understand it as well as someone who studied theology and history for 50 years. Not to mention that the greater majority of published Western scholars over the past 300 years have been Christians, and have a personal vested interest in Jesus being a real person.

            But on top of that, you just admitted you haven’t even read any of the “evidence”; you only know about Josephus because someone told you about it but you don’t know what he actually said or didn’t say about Jesus. So, what we have is a case of you really wanting to believe something and seeking out things that confirm your belief, rather than looking at the evidence objectively and coming to conclusion.

            > Zeuss was a God who lived on a fictional mountain.
            > Jesus is portayed as man in a historical time and place.

            Yes, a man in a historical time and place who had the magical power to make blind people see, walk on water and change inedible objects into delicious food items. Then died and came back to life.

            Come on, you really don’t see any similarities between other fictional stories and Jesus?

            > I sure the people of Gallilee, Jerusalem etc could have
            > responded to stories by saying “hey this guy never lived
            > here”. But they didn’t. I don’t know if every thing the Bible
            > says about Jesus is true because I wasn’t there to
            > witness Him. But I feel there is enough common ground in
            > the Gospels to gain a reasonable picture.

            Actually, the Gospels themselves are completely contradictory in relation to each other about even the smallest details about Jesus. They are all over the place. Here’s a good list: http://www.evilbible.com/contradictions.htm

            > I’m choosing to have faith. Can I guarantee I’m right?
            > Of course not and neither can you or anyone else when it
            > comes to spiritual themes.

            That’s fine, if your argument is “I believe what I believe with no evidence because that’s how I feel”, then I have no problem with you. You’re still wrong, but I can’t make a rational argument against that, because you’re at least being honest, and saying you are going into this discussion without any regard for logic or evidence.

            The problem only comes in when you start saying that Jesus was a real person that lived, and the claims about him being God are exaggerated stories about a real person. That’s when you cross the line from “faith” into a bad argument. The evidence just is not there.

            > How has praying killed anyone? What are you even
            > talking about?

            Well, for one example, how many children have died because their parents refused medical treatment, relying on prayer? Thousands? Millions? Because they took that bullshit verse literally. How many people like Jehovah’s Witnesses have refused blood transfusions that could have saved them? They took the Bible’s lies at face value, and they died.

            > To say God created humans fallible and prone to sinning
            > simply means He gave us free will. If we didn’t have that
            > we wouldn’t be human. We would be molre like Gods
            > puppets. Goodness only exists if you choose to be good
            > in light of the knowledge of evil.

            God gave people the free will to rape babies? You really believe that? Why would God do that? You would think he would say, OK, I’ll give everyone free will, but at least I won’t make anyone desire to rape babies. But, no, there those people are, still raping babies and God doesn’t do anything about it. Why?

            The world makes a lot more sense, when you realize there is no magical caretaker looking over it, and good and bad things happen for NO REASON. People are born sick or born good for NO REASON. And we have to make the best of things, help each other, be kind to each other, and make the world a better place, because it’s the right thing to do. Not because of fear of an idiotic imaginary concept like burning in hell.

          • alex

            That link about Josephus simply said Josephus didn’t believe Jesus was the Christ which was kinda obvious to begin with since Josephus was Jewish. He does mention him by name I’ve read it before. More scholars accept than reject Josephus so how is it proven to be a forgery? I have done research into it but it was ages ago and I can’t remember of the top of my head. I guess I could try and hunt down some of the books and stuff again. I don’t have a youth pastor at all. Aren’t you appealing to authority by sending me links written by atheists who have a vested interest in Jesus not being a real person? Hypocritical to say the least. I know about Josephus because I read it in an encyclopedia but I don’t have a photographic memory for quotes and stuff. Sorry about that. Ok whether you believe the miracles attributed to Jesus is a different question to whether he existed at all. That link about contradictions proved my point actually. There is minor differences in the details but the basic account of the things that happened is broadly similiar which is what you would expect when different authors independently complie oral tradtions into written works. (The earliest Christian communities were based on oral tradtions about Jesus since the New Testament didn’t exist yet but theres enough commonality in what emerged in the Gospels to suggest a common original source which I believe was the actual life of Jesus.) My point was that I can’t 100% certain about details surrounding Jesus but He is regarded as an historical figure and despite what you think you’ve presented nothing which concretely disputes that. I highly doubt the number of people who refused medical treatment based on faith would reach the millions and Jehovah’s witnesses aren’t representative of the majority of Christians. How does refusing blood transfusions have anything to do with Bible? I don’t know where the got the idea that it’s somehow Christian to refuse medical treatment but it certainly doesn’t come from any sayings recorded by Jesus. Personally I have never heard of anyone actually raping a baby. God gave us free will and Satan tries to pervert our free will by leading us to sin. Things don’t happen for no reason the happen as a result of choices we make and natural processes. As for you last paragraph about how we should act I agrees 95%. I just think its possible that hell or somewhere like it may exist. But if we be good only to avoid hell and no other reason than in Gods eyes we are not really being good at all. I’m sure He judges internal thoughts and motives as well as external actions.

          • 3D

            > That link about Josephus simply said Josephus didn’t
            > believe Jesus was the Christ which was kinda obvious
            > to begin with since Josephus was Jewish. He does
            > mention him by name I’ve read it before. More scholars
            > accept than reject Josephus so how is it proven to be a
            > forgery?

            You’re misunderstanding the link I sent you. Josephus’s work is not a forgery — it is legitimate. The forgery part is explained here by Wikipedia:

            “…the famous Testimonium Flavianum found in the Antiquities of the Jews 18.63-64, in its current form summarises the ministry and death of Jesus; but the authenticity of this passage remains contested by many scholars, and has been the topic of ongoing debate since the 17th century. The most widely held current scholarly opinion is that the Testimonium Flavianum is partially authentic; but that those words and phrases that correspond with standard Christian formulae are additions from a Christian copyist.”

            > I have done research into it but it was ages ago and I
            > can’t remember of the top of my head. I guess I could try
            > and hunt down some of the books and stuff again.

            It’s OK if you don’t know something. I don’t everything. The problem is that you are coming into this argument/discussion acting like you know definitively that Jesus existed, and you can’t name one thing that supports this theory, other than Josephus which has a ton of problems.

            It’s clear you WANT to believe that and so, when someone tells you there is evidence to that effect, you’re eager to believe it without questioning it.

            > Aren’t you appealing to authority by sending me links
            > written by atheists who have a vested interest in
            > Jesus not being a real person?

            No. Why would an atheist have a vested interest in Jesus not being a real person? Atheists are about being rational. If the evidence points to Jesus being God then we would believe that. We don’t believe in God because there is no evidence for it, not because that’s what we WANT to believe.

            It’s tempting for people to just turn their brains off and say, “I’m going to a magical place when I die and there I will meet all my family and we run through sun-soaked fields all day playing frisbee forever.” It’s a nice thought. But my brain doesn’t work that way; I know it’s bullshit, so I can’t force myself to believe it. I follow the evidence, even if it takes me to an uncomfortable conclusion.

            >I know about Josephus because I read it in an
            > encyclopedia but I don’t have a photographic memory
            > for quotes and stuff. Sorry about that.

            There’s this thing called Google, don’t know if you’ve heard of it…

            > Ok whether you believe the miracles attributed to
            > Jesus is a different question to whether he existed at all.

            No — that’s the problem. It’s the SAME question. Because the ONLY proof we have Jesus existed, is in the Bible. Everything other the Bible is hearsay — weak evidence that could have come about zillions of other ways, from being totally fabricated and passed down through oral history.

            So either the Bible is right, and Jesus is the son of God, or the Bible is wrong, and there’s no evidence he existed at all. There’s no choice (c) of “Jesus existed but was just a man”. That’s something Christians made up recently, because they don’t want to stop being Christians, but they realize that the stories about him having magical powers are stupid, just like the rest of the Bible.

            > That link about contradictions proved my point actually.
            > There is minor differences in the details but the basic
            > account of the things that happened is broadly similiar
            > which is what you would expect when different authors
            > independently complie oral tradtions into written works.

            Did you read the link? They are not “minor differences”. They are huge differences in the story.

            And these are not the only contradictions in the Bible. It’s completely full of them from cover to cover. The point here is — the Bible is the only place we have to turn to, to learn about what Jesus supposedly taught. If it’s so unreliable, which YOU ADMIT, then why do you believe it happened? Why do you believe he taught that?

            > (The earliest Christian communities were based on oral
            > tradtions about Jesus since the New Testament didn’t
            > exist yet but theres enough commonality in what emerged
            > in the Gospels to suggest a common original source
            > which I believe was the actual life of Jesus.)

            “Believe” is the key word. It’s fine if you want to believe that, but there’s no reason it couldn’t just be some guy sitting in his hut who made up a story about Jesus.

            You choose to believe because you want to. Your source is the Bible which is erroneous. You’re not operating on logic or reason, just faith.

            > My point was that I can’t 100% certain about details
            > surrounding Jesus but He is regarded as an historical
            > figure and despite what you think you’ve presented
            > nothing which concretely disputes that.

            In logic, it’s not incumbent on me to prove a negative. I can’t prove something DOESN’T exist, I can only conclude, through lack of evidence, that it probably didn’t exist. There may have been a purple unicorn that created the story of Jesus, too. I can’t disprove it, but I know it’s not likely. It’s YOUR job to prove Jesus existed, and so far you are 0-for-1 with Josephus. Got anything else?

            > I highly doubt the number of people who refused medical
            > treatment based on faith would reach the millions and
            > Jehovah’s witnesses aren’t representative of the majority > of Christians.

            That’s right, because most Christians are sane, rational good people with 21st Century morals — like yourself — and whenever the stupid crazy Bible conflicts with their good secular morals, they IGNORE the Bible. Jehovah’s Witnesses are just like any fundamentalists, like al-Qaeda — the closer you follow religion, the more crazy your actions are. The more you secularize and de-mystify the Bible, and only do the rituals and holidays, like most Christians do, the less crazy your actions are.

            > How does refusing blood transfusions have anything to
            > do with Bible? I don’t know where the got the idea that it’s
            > somehow Christian to refuse medical treatment but it
            > certainly doesn’t come from any sayings recorded by
            > Jesus.

            YES IT DOES. Did you not read the Bible too? It says dozens of times that if you pray, whatever you pray for will be granted, as long as you believe sincerely in Jesus. It’s the worst lie by far told in the Bible and it’s demonstrably false.

            Christian Scientists and Jehovah’s Witnesses base their refusal of medical treatments on these verses. You correctly interpret these people as crazy and delusional. I agree. Why? Because on some level, you know that the Bible is bullshit, and you effectively ignore it when it says something you know is ridiculous. But they don’t, and so they are in the minority of the world who still doesn’t realize that religion is archaic BS.

            > Personally I have never heard of anyone actually raping a baby.

            Really? It happens all the time. How about child molestation? Ever hear of that? God lets that happen too. Why?

            > God gave us free will and Satan tries to pervert our free
            > will by leading us to sin. Things don’t happen for no
            > reason the happen as a result of choices we make and
            > natural processes.

            Wow, what a disgusting thing to say. What choice did a 6 year old girl make to deserve some guy scarring her for life by molesting her? You really think God thinks in such horrible, evil terms? If he does, then he’s an asshole anyway.

            What about hundreds of thousands of people who died in tsunamis including very religious, pious people and babies who never did anything? What bad choices did they make? Are you starting to see why this is more bullshit?

            > As for you last paragraph about how we should act I
            > agrees 95%. I just think its possible that hell or
            > somewhere like it may exist.

            Based on what? The Bible? Which you just said was written by men and made up?

            > But if we be good only to avoid hell and no other reason
            > than in Gods eyes we are not really being good at all. I’m
            > sure He judges internal thoughts and motives as well as
            > external actions.

            But he doesn’t judge actions. You can go to heaven no matter what evil vile things you do, as long as you accept Jesus. And you still go to hell no matter how great a person you are, if you reject Jesus or never heard of him. So it’s not about actions at all, just kissing Jesus’s ass.

            And if you really believe that God wants us to be good, and judges us on our inner monologue, then why does he need to threaten them with hell? The threat won’t make them really act righteous anyway — just going through the motions out of fear. How is that free will? “Do what I want or I will torture you” is not free will.

          • rawr

            whoa whoa whoa whoa WHOA!!! Holy shitting balls, this went somewhere I didn’t expect. But I just got off the other line with somebody else on a similar discussion, so ima have a go.

            Dear Mr. 3D,

            I’m afraid that, yes, Jesus is considered a historical figure, if his history has been significantly mystified and clouded since his death, much like the Buddha or Confucious. The reason that the only historical annecdotes about his life come up to 40 years after his death is because nobody had any reason to report them at the time. He was just another Jewish man, born in the tiny, TINY town of Nazareth, who never traveled more than several miles from home, never wrote anything, and all of his significant teachings came in a single week before he was promptly executed. Who would record that at the time? He was hardly a renound figure durring his life, and the Romans wanted him to be forgotten sinse he opposed the established order so much.

            The real heart of the matter though, which you seem so opposed to, is that the Bible MUST be read as a collection of historical and cultural sources because it is one of the only recorded links we have to one of the most influential peoples in Western culture: the Hebrews. Of course it is contradictory, but does that invalidate the entire document? It is composed of hundreds of different books from just as many different authors. Some stories are folktales, others are cultural laws and regulations of the time, others are mythology, and others are historical. Biblical scholars work on seperating these from eachother, and through this you can learn a huge amount of the origins of western civilization. If we discredit the entire Bible, based on inconsistancies over GENERATIONS of different writers and varying subject matter, then we are subjecting it to harsher critisism than ANY other historical source in existance, and we should begin questioning the existance of Archemedis, Plato, and many other classical figures.

            I can tell from your generalized description of the Bible that you have not actually read it, and definately not studied it. You references to insanely biased websites and quickly-gathered quotes through google hardly substitute for an accute understanding of the source material. Calling it an evil book won’t do you any good either; the notion that evil is inherent in an inanimate object is absurd, not to get into to the whole objective existance of an “evil” force, which i find equally absurd.

            Your understanding of my beliefs and alex’s beliefs are confined by the narrow stereotypes that you have for Theists, that they are attached to irrational and easily disproven beliefs out of fear, preffering pretty or nice thoughts to hard realities because they can not accept them. We also clearly must believe in a fairy-tale afterlife to comfort our inevitable deaths. I will not go into my beliefs about God here, but I find that they fit my reason, which I value, and are not based on an escapist approach to fear. Instead of arrogantly discarding this God idea as absurd, childlike, and beneath your consideration, you could approach it from the perspective of reason and see how it could make sense philosophically. Then you could go about this discussion as an equal, without seeing us as irrational, irreversably biased idiots who just somehow refuse to see the clear evidence of Jesus’ nonexistance as demonstrated on the not-at-all-agenda-oriented sites debunkingchristianity and evilbible. Respecting us as rational beings, as well as respecting the scholars and historians and…reading…the…god…damn…source material…could take this conversation in a totally different way. Right now you seem just as intolerant, one-sided and stubborn as the radical Jehova’s witnesses that you mentioned.

          • 3D

            > I’m afraid that, yes, Jesus is considered a historical figure, if his history has been significantly
            > mystified and clouded since his death, much like the Buddha or Confucious. The reason
            > that the only historical annecdotes about his life come up to 40 years after his death is because
            > nobody had any reason to report them at the time. He was just another Jewish man, born in the
            > tiny, TINY town of Nazareth, who never traveled more than several miles from home, never
            > wrote anything, and all of his significant teachings came in a single week before he was
            > promptly executed. Who would record that at the time? He was hardly a renound figure durring
            > his life, and the Romans wanted him to be forgotten sinse he opposed the established order so
            > much.

            The problem with this argument is that the Bible reports historical events of the time and places Jesus in the middle of them — like for example the Census of Quirinius — the time frame is all wrong, and if the actions of the historical figures appearing in the Bible were indeed motivated by what the Bible claims they were motivated by, they would definitely have been recorded elsewhere besides the Bible. But they weren’t.

            > The real heart of the matter though, which you seem so opposed to, is that the Bible MUST be
            > read as a collection of historical and cultural sources because it is one of the only recorded links
            > we have to one of the most influential peoples in Western culture: the Hebrews. Of course it is
            > contradictory, but does that invalidate the entire document?

            No, it’s a perfectly valid collection of folk tales and oral history and tradition. But it invalidates the document as an accurate recording of history, which you are trying to turn it into. At every step of the way it fails in that respect.

            Consider: there are 30,000 different sects of Christianity. All of them disagree on which parts the Bible wants us to take literally and which parts the Bible wants us to take as a metaphor, and they are so sure about it that they often pipe bomb each other’s fucking cars over different interpretations. So why is YOUR interpretation the right one? Better yet, why is the Bible valid and the Koran wrong? Or any other religious text? If we’re allowed to act like you and go on a whim cherrypicking which parts of the Bible to believe in, then anything goes.

            I think my position (that it’s full of shit from cover to cover) is a lot more tenable than your position each of those sects’ positions (“the part I say is valid is valid, and anything else is just metaphor and folk tales”).

            > It is composed of hundreds of different books from just as many different authors. Some stories
            > are folktales, others are cultural laws and regulations of the time, others are mythology, and
            > others are historical. Biblical scholars work on seperating these from eachother, and through
            > this you can learn a huge amount of the origins of western civilization. If we discredit the entire
            > Bible, based on inconsistancies over GENERATIONS of different writers and varying subject
            > matter, then we are subjecting it to harsher critisism than ANY other historical source in
            > existance, and we should begin questioning the existance of Archemedis, Plato, and many other
            > classical figures.

            But, Archimedes showed his work. He didn’t say “a submerged three-dimensional object will displace an amount of water equal to its volume, because a burning bush told me so.” He proposed things that are testable and verifiable. That’s why Archimedes is a respected historical scientist, and the Bible is a bunch of self-contradictory, magical bullshit that we can dismiss as never having really happened.

            > I can tell from your generalized description of the Bible that you have not actually read it, and
            > definately not studied it.

            I have read it cover to cover, twice. I made it through all 10,000,000+ of God’s violent killings, all the stonings, all the boring ass “begats”, all the vile stuff Jesus supports, and all the ridiculous crap in Revelation. I read it because I don’t believe in arguing against things I am not familiar with.

            > You references to insanely biased websites and quickly-gathered quotes through google hardly
            > substitute for an accute understanding of the source material.

            You should try addressing my actual arguments, instead of attacking the websites themselves. You’re a Christian arguing that Christianity is awesome, so I could easily dismiss you as “biased”. But, I’m not doing that, I’m listening to what you have to say, and dismissing it because it’s absurd. Not because you have an “agenda”.

            > Calling it an evil book won’t do you any good either; the notion that evil is inherent in an
            > inanimate object is absurd, not to get into to the whole objective existance of an “evil” force,
            > which i find equally absurd.

            I think it’s obvious to anyone who can read English at an adult level that when I say the Bible is “evil” I don’t mean the physical pages and book-binding are possessed by a demon. I mean the concepts inside the book, expressed through words, are evil. Don’t play semantic games in lieu of a real argument. Either defend the crappy stuff in the Bible, or don’t. Do you think it’s evil to bash someone in the head with a bloody rock, or not?

            > Your understanding of my beliefs and alex’s beliefs are confined by the narrow stereotypes that
            > you have for Theists, that they are attached to irrational and easily disproven beliefs out of fear,
            > preffering pretty or nice thoughts to hard realities because they can not accept them. We also > > clearly must believe in a fairy-tale afterlife to comfort our inevitable deaths.

            Prove me wrong. You believe that a dead man came back to life and crawled out of a cave; you believe if you masturbate you will go to a bad bad place where demons will poke you with fire-sticks for all eternity. Explain how that’s rational.

            > I will not go into mybeliefs about God here, but I find that they fit my reason, which I value, and
            > are not based on an escapist approach to fear. Instead of arrogantly discarding this God idea as
            > absurd, childlike, and beneath your consideration, you could approach it from the perspective of
            > reason and see how it could make sense philosophically.

            Well, that’s your job. I’m still waiting for either of you to make an argument how God makes sense philosophically. My argument is that it doesn’t, and I supported that idea with facts, which you haven’t refuted.

            In case you didn’t see them earlier, I’ll repeat them. Why did God design earthquakes and tsunamis into the system to regularly kill hundreds of thousands of people? Why does he allow babies to get raped? Why are children born with horrible diseases, missing organs, and awful deformities? Why do we live on a planet that’s constantly bombarded with meteorites, cosmic rays, and volcanic eruptions? Why is over 70% of the planet inhabitable? Why “design” things that way if he is perfect? Those are circumstantial evidence that God (a) doesn’t exist, (b) exists but is just a malevolent asshole, or (c) exists but doesn’t give a fuck about human existence. Either way, it doesn’t conform with the stuff the Bible says about God loving us. I don’t really see a choice (d) there, but if you have one, please enlighten me.

            > Then you could go about this discussion as an equal, without seeing us as irrational,
            > irreversably biased idiots who just somehow refuse to see the clear evidence of Jesus’
            > nonexistance as demonstrated on the not-at-all-agenda-oriented sites debunkingchristianity
            > and evilbible.

            You really have a persecution complex, don’t you. I didn’t call you an idiot. I don’t equate religious delusions with stupidity, at all. Quite the contrary, when you are indoctrinated into a cult since birth, and everything you’re taught keeps you from applying critical thinking to your philosophical beliefs, it’s very hard to break away from that, and I have a lot of respect for the many who do. For the others who spend their whole lives under the burden of believing in religion, many are very, very intelligent. They just compartmentalize their rational, 21st Century beliefs in one box and their backwards religious beliefs in another box in their brain, and try really hard not to let the two meet each other.

            As for sites having an agenda — again, everyone has an agenda. That doesn’t invalidate their points. You have an agenda too — holding onto belief in Jesus despite all evidence to the contrary — but I’m not holding that against you, I’m arguing against the actual arguments you’re making, rather than attacking your “agenda”.

            > Respecting us as rational beings, as well as respecting the scholars and historians
            > and…reading…the…god…damn…source material…could take this conversation in a totally
            > different way. Right now you seem just as intolerant, one-sided and stubborn as the radical
            > Jehova’s witnesses that you mentioned.

            I think you’re using the word “tolerant” wrong. I am completely tolerant of religious people. Tolerance means accepting that others think differently, and coexisting with them peacefully. I’m perfectly happy to be your friend and coexist with you peacefully, no matter what your religious beliefs are.

            The problem comes in when you want RESPECT for your beliefs, from the get go, without others applying critical thinking to them; just accepting them no questions asked. That is a problem, because while my default position is to respect and be kind to others, I do not respect shitty ideas. And the Bible is full of really shitty ideas. I believe that respect for ideas should be given on merit, not given to anyone who says they believe in God, just because.

          • alex

            Good reply Rawr. I had forgotten about this thread after getting drawn into a debate about BTBAM (I was defending them). Anyway I would like to add a couple of points. Atheists always seem to feel God has to be scientifically proven before they can even entertain the possibilty of his existence. But the question of God is on a whole other level that can never be adressed by science. It’s not rational to say there’s no God because I haven’t seen Him walking around. Also if a Jehovah’s Witness falls sick and then pray’s to get better but dies because he doen’t seek medical treatment that’s no ones fault but his own. God didn’t let him down because the medical treatment was right there. Thats like me praying to God to give me money directly because I refuse to use an atm. Also girls aren’t raped because of their choices. Their raped because of the rapists choices. And I said things happen because of choices & natural processes. I think tsunamis would fall under the latter.

          • 3D

            >Anyway I would like to add a couple of points. Atheists
            >always seem to feel God has to be scientifically proven
            > before they can even entertain the possibilty of his
            > existence.

            No, this is wrong. God is no different from anything else in the world. We make conclusions about everything based on the evidence available. We believe the sun will come up because the empirical data predicts exactly what time it will come up tomorrow. We believe if you drop a pencil 100 times, it will fall to the ground 100 times, because we understand gravity and it’s a testable, repeatable experiment. If something lacks evidence — sure, it COULD be possible, but we dismiss it as unlikely.

            God is the same: it COULD be possible, but there’s no evidence for it, so we dismiss it because it’s unlikely.

            >But the question of God is on a whole other level that can
            >never be adressed by science. It’s not rational to say
            >there’s no God because I haven’t seen Him walking
            >around.

            Not a good argument. We never see certain invisible chemicals floating around either, but we know they are there, because we can TEST for their presence and we know their properties and behavior. We cannot test for God nor does God impact our world in any kind of way that we can detect. Whenever something good happens, people attribute it to God, and whenever something bad happens, they keep God out of it.

            The only reason you keep God “on a whole other level” is because if you apply some thought and logic to it, it will disappear in a puff of smoke because you will realize it’s ridiculous. So you do your best to keep logic out of it, by pretending that logic and reason don’t apply to the biggest questions in life. When really, those are the #1 questions you should apply them to.

            >Also if a Jehovah’s Witness falls sick and then pray’s to
            >get better but dies because he doen’t seek medical
            >treatment that’s no ones fault but his own. God didn’t let
            >him down because the medical treatment was right there.

            What about all the people who pray to get better but don’t receive any medical treatment? What about amputees, why doesn’t God ever give their arms back?

            You’re taking the scientific achievements made by the hard work of PEOPLE, and acting like God made them. If he did, why did he wait 10,000 years before letting us have cures for simple diseases, letting so many people die? What a prick.

            The Bible tells you to pray and you will get anything you want. Yes, the Jehovah’s Witnesses are at fault — for believing in a delusional book. I agree, that like you, they should realize the Bible is full of shit and not take it literally. But, if the book didn’t exist, no one would be able to take it literally, and more people would be alive.

            >Thats like me praying to God to give me money directly
            >because I refuse to use an atm.

            No, it’s like praying to God to give you money directly instead of going to work. And if you read the Bible, you will see that this is what the Bible tells you to do. ANYTHING YOU WANT will be given to you, if you pray — and sincerely believe in Jesus in your heart.

            >Also girls aren’t raped because of their choices. Their raped because of the rapists choices.

            But why design people with brain disorders that cause them to want to rape? Why make people who are capable of molesting children? Why design a system like that unless you are sadistic?

            >And I said things happen because of choices & natural processes. I think tsunamis would fall under the latter.

            Why design the Earth with those horrible events as part of the “natural processes”? Couldn’t God make a world where tsunamis don’t happen every year and kill hundreds of thousands of people? And earthquakes? And bombardment by cosmic rays, and meteorites, and 70% of the planet being covered by water we can’t survive in, and deserts, and jungles filled with hazards, and unlivable climates at the poles… Why design all these constant threats to our existence if God loves us? Have you really never thought this through that far?

          • alex

            3D not everything is black & white. Stop saying the Bible has to be either 100% historical document or 100% lies. Reality doesn’t work that way. Many parts of the Bible have been proven i.e through archaeology. Other parts are regarded as symbolism. Christians actually have never pipe bombed each other over minor disagreements regarding the Bible. Thats a lie. As for why there are bad things in the Universe I don’t have the answers but the theory is that Satan corrupted Gods work. Though an interesteing alternative is Gnosticism which suggests the Creator & the Father of Christ are two separate beings. The thing is you’re determined to believe there’s no God. Thats why you only focus on the bad side of everything. You seem to think the entire Bible is evil (the message not the book it self). That proves right there you are not operating on reason. And you proved my point. You clearly do think God has to be scientifically proven. But God is the eternal omniprescent Creator who is transcends physical time & space. You can’t go into a lab, do some experiment and say “hey look its God”. Its not hard to understand. In fact a three year old should be able to grasp a basic concept like that. As for Jehovahs Witnessess…well anyone who thinks everything the read has to be taken literally needs to go back to school and relearn basic english. As for bad things in the world well everybody dies sometime. But as long as you don’t reject God you’ll go to heaven. besides the world is already getting overpopulated. Imagine how much worse that could have been

          • 3D

            > 3D not everything is black & white. Stop saying the Bible has
            > to be either 100% historical document or 100% lies. Reality
            > doesn’t work that way.

            I didn’t say “the Bible has to be either 100% historical document or 100% lies”.

            The point is that the lies invalidate its standing as a historical document, because it’s demonstrably WRONG about many, many, many historical facts, provable by looking at other historical documents of the time. It’s purely a work of fiction.

            To use a current example: movies like The Da Vinci Code (and thousands of others) use current events as backdrops to tell a story. Some of them are accurate and some of them are bent and molded to fit into the story as necessary. Would you call The Da Vinci Code anything other than a “work of fiction”?

            > Many parts of the Bible have been proven i.e through archaeology.

            For example?

            > Other parts are regarded as symbolism.

            The problem is — how do you know which part to regard as “symbolism”?

            When the Bible tells you to pick up a rock and beat somebody over the head with it until they are dead, for being gay, it is not being “symbolic”. It’s trying to be a “Morality for Dummies” guide. The Bible is very literal; the words on the page mean exactly what they say. People only try to complicate matters, by saying it’s “symbolic”, because — like you — they are good and decent people, who are very rightly EMBARRASSED by the ridiculous, evil shit that is in the Bible.

            But instead of doing the right thing and throwing away the Bible, the propaganda of the cult is very strong and they are compelled to make excuses and rationalizations for why the Bible contains embarrassing and evil things.

            > Christians actually have never pipe bombed each other over minor
            > disagreements regarding the Bible. Thats a lie.

            Oh my. I guess your youth pastor never told you about Northern Ireland.

            Check out this Wikipedia entry for a refresher course. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Irish_Republican_Army Or, alternatively, you could just pick up a U2 album at random.

            > As for why there are bad things in the Universe I don’t have the answers but
            > the theory is that Satan corrupted Gods work.

            Isn’t God perfect? Why does he bend to the will of Satan? Is God incapable of overcoming Satan’s interference? Then he’s not God. If he can, but just refuses to, then he’s passively evil.

            > The thing is you’re determined to believe there’s no God. Thats why you only focus on the bad side of everything.

            No — quite the contrary. I’m very open to believing in God, if you show a compelling argument. But you’re not.

            > You seem to think the entire Bible is evil (the message not the book it self). That proves right there you are not operating on reason.

            No, I don’t think “the entire Bible is evil”. I think that there’s so much evil stuff in it, that it far, far outweighs any good things that are in there. And the good stuff in there is universally good and can be arrived at by being a kind person, without the Bible.

            And worse, the “good stuff” is often contradicted by other parts of the Bible. For example, the Bible says “love thy neighbor” but then condones slavery. Says “thou shalt not kill” but commands you to pick up a rock and beat people in the head with it for being gay, and to burn people alive if you suspect they are witches. So I’m not impressed with the “morality” of the Bible.

            > And you proved my point. You clearly do think God has to be scientifically
            > proven. But God is the eternal omniprescent Creator who is transcends
            > physical time & space. You can’t go into a lab, do some experiment and
            > say “hey look its God”.

            Why not? If God exists, shouldn’t God have SOME observable effect on our universe?

            In reality, the universe operates EXACTLY as you could predict it would if there was no God. Or at least, a God that doesn’t give a shit about human affairs and stays completely out of them. You believe in something with absolutely no evidence.

            If there is an eternal, omnipresent Creator, then who created the Creator?

            > As for Jehovahs Witnessess…well anyone who thinks everything the read has
            > to be taken literally needs to go back to school and relearn basic english.

            Says the guy who thinks there HAS to be a God, even though there’s no observable evidence for it whatsoever. Maybe you need to go back to school and relearn 4th grade science.

            > As for bad things in the world well everybody dies sometime. But as long as
            > you don’t reject God you’ll go to heaven. besides the world is already getting
            > overpopulated. Imagine how much worse that could have been

            Oh OK. So you are now arguing that God kills millions of people in earthquakes, tsunamis, wars, famines, starvation, terrible painful diseases, etc. etc. every year, to solve the world’s overpopulation crisis. And yet, there is still… (*drumroll please*)… massive overpopulation. Go figure!

            Hey, if you were designing the world and had perfect omniscient foresight, how would you approach this problem? I know, make the world bigger. Or, maybe make more than 30% of it livable, instead of covering it with water, deserts, ice caps, jungles filled with dangerous animals, and horrible diseases. Or… make a nearby planet where people could migrate to, that’s habitable, with clean water and a breathable atmosphere. Those all seem like reasonable options and well within the capabilities of God.

            But no — according to you, he came up with the brilliant plan of having millions of people starve every day, die under rubble in horrible earthquakes, creating awful, painful diseases, letting people murder and rape each other, and perpetual war. What a guy!

          • rawr

            Ooooh, you made this waaay too easy: I am not a Christian.

            Can you take a step back and see what you just did? I do not believe that any dead man has ever come back to life. I have no problem with masturbation or other more “sinful” forms of sexual expression. I am not going to create a rational basis for those beliefs because YOU came up with those beliefs and placed them on me by assumption. I do not believe in any real afterlife except in a poetic sense. I do not believe in a soul. In my opinion, these things are far more difficult to deny than the existance of a divine character, who, at first glance, doesn’t really seem to give a shit. But I do believe in God. Therefore, I, a Theist, am not attached to beliefs out of fear. I have faced my greatest fears regarding my death and subsequent nonexistance. I love hard reality far more than pretty ideals because I find it beautiful. There: you have been proven wrong. QED

            All my beliefs are based on my own philosophical reasonings. I was raised agnostic; I was not “indoctrinated into a cult at birth.” Am I going to give a rational explanation for my beliefs, to you, right now? No. And here’s why:

            Nowhere in anything that I wrote did I suggest anything about my beliefs except for a vague reference to “God.” I was attempting to defend the Bible based on its merit as a historical work of art, and had no intention of roping my personal baisis AGAINST its mythology into the conversation. However, when you read this, you projected onto me the cookie cutter image of “the Christian” that suits your worldview. Here are a few funny little moments that followed:

            Well, let’s see. I believe I left my personal interpretation out of this, but in any case, everyone believes that their personal interpretation is correct. Otherwise they wouldn’t have interpreted it that way. I base my interpretation on what I observe in nature and what I infer that the Hebrews were observing at the time of the writing. Yes, I do find this more realistic than interpreting the entire text literally as if there were no external world, so i guess that’s “better”…maybe? But I hadn’t said that. And in anycase, weren’t you the one who said that the notion of everyone’s opinions being teflon and untouchable hugely counter productive? Each interpretation should be subject to critisism, mine not excepted. So I’m comfortable critising the literal interpretations as idiotic without being hypocritical.

            I also didn’t say that the Koran was wrong. I am currently studying arabic so that some day I can read it in its intended language. I do not dismiss any religious text outright. The pagan and indiginous texts that Western culture refutes offhand are no less true or beautiful than the Bible, and I think they should all be considered as holding a grain of truth. But I can’t take them all literally due to disagreement, and I refuse to dismiss them all just because they are strange or outlandish. So I guess you can call it cherrypicking. I see no problem with “anything goes.” If we leave it open like that then we allow our personal reasoning to take over and guide us instead of the texts guiding us. “Anything goes” is good.

            Also nice bit about the pipe bomb. It reminded me of a time when a man, arguing against something as harmless as the legalization of marijuana, described a vivid car crash where pair of stoners passing a joint mid-drive lose focus and run over a helpless baby in the middle of the road. It was naturally moving and utterly pathetic. Don’t resort to stupid shit like that. We’re talking about something as harmless as A BOOK.

            You should try adressing me as a person instead of the image of me that you’ve fabricated. In that way, you’re really not listening to what I have to say. You’re putting words in my mouth and ideas in my head. I don’t know what I’ve said that is “absurd” and dismissable; you seem to be refering to the words of Christian institutions in general. And as someone who is NOT a Christian and doesn’t care much for religious INSTITUTIONS, I really don’t think you could dismiss me as biased, either. I, too, have listened to what you have to say, and I gotta tell you, I am much more interested in the lack of a historical Jesus than I was before this shindig. But I don’t think it would alter my worldview much at all, so don’t act like I have a personal stake in this.

            No, it’s not my job, because I’m not interested in converting you or convincing you. Everyone follows their own path towards truth. Wherever you are is wherever you should be right now.

            And don’t go on from here and tell me that I’m hiding in my little bunker of my own secure worldview. I am more than happy to discuss philosophy or semantics with anybody who can manage such a conversation. But your talent for fair and respectful discussion seems pretty dismal right now, so I don’t know what would come of it for either of us. Until you stop telling me what I believe and why I do, I’m not going to start answering your questions about why God lets…ugh…babies get raped?…did I mention the baby-in-the-road story yet?

            I don’t mean…wait demons? What? Who’s been fucking with my medicine?

            Look, what I meant was that it’s useless approach to think of the contents of ANYTHING as “evil.” Example: I reject most nihilist philosophy, and yet I listen to a lot of nihilist metal. Based on my personal beliefs I could dismiss this music as “evil,” since most of it (advocating suicide, violence, etc) don’t match up with my morals. But what’s the use of that? I approach it assuming that if the artist went through all the effort to put this together, then they might have something to tell me that I haven’t considered. Maybe this “evil” music will radically change the way that I look at the world. Or maybe I can just appreciate it as interesting art, since art isn’t entirely about the message, but also about the process of expression (art that IS entirely about the message is propoganda).

            So when you try push me into a black and white corner of defending this work of art—a definition that I’m applying loosely…call it a historical document or not or whatever—based only on a grosely simplified message that you have taken from it, I’m going to dismiss your questions as entirely irrelevant. This is not “real argument,” as you suggested.

            Okay, at this point I’m just about fucking done. I’m boarderline losing my composure having to wade through all of the stuff that you’re assuming about me, as well as about everyone else living a life of “religious delusions” under some religious “burden” with a 1984-esq brain trained in double truths. You are absolutely refusing to try and understand or relate to people different from yourself beyond this very shallow and condescending level. I don’t need to go into all the rediculous things you just said to prove that. The entire reason that I spent all this time picking appart your dickary is to show the outrageous assumptions that you are making about me (without cause) and the pidgeonhole questions you’re asking and “proofs” that you’re requiring. So as long as you’re telling me about my “persecution complex,” I have nothing more to say to you regarding the Bible, off topic as this responce may have been.

            Not that this whole conversation isn’t off topic…so yeah…um, gay couples are cool, huh?

            Oh, and it’s not too much to ask for respect for the beliefs of the person that you’re talking too. I respect Atheists. Maybe they understand God far better than I do. Point being, I can never really know until I sympathize with their view and get in their shoes instead of telling them what they believe and how their minds work and so on.

            P.S. And I respect that you have actually read the Bible…though cover to cover? Hell, you coulda skipped Generations and I woulda been fine with that. But anyway, I agree with understanding fully what you disagree with. And I admit that I was presumptuous myself in accusing you of not understanding the source material without truly knowing that…though I gotta say, your understanding does not exactly shine through in your arguments.

          • rawr

            Fuck, last one didn’t work, here goes.

            Your understanding of my beliefs and alex’s beliefs are confined by the narrow stereotypes that you have for Theists, that they are attached to irrational and easily disproven beliefs out of fear, preffering pretty or nice thoughts to hard realities because they can not accept them. We also clearly must believe in a fairy-tale afterlife to comfort our inevitable deaths.

            “Prove me wrong. You believe that a dead man came back to life and crawled out of a cave; you believe if you masturbate you will go to a bad bad place where demons will poke you with fire-sticks for all eternity. Explain how that’s rational.”

            Ooooh, you made this waaay too easy: I am not a Christian.

            Can you take a step back and see what you just did? I do not believe that any dead man has ever come back to life. I have no problem with masturbation or other more “sinful” forms of sexual expression. I am not going to create a rational basis for those beliefs because YOU came up with those beliefs and placed them on me by assumption. I do not believe in any real afterlife except in a poetic sense. I do not believe in a soul. In my opinion, these things are far more difficult to deny than the existance of a divine character, who, at first glance, doesn’t really seem to give a shit. But I do believe in God. Therefore, I, a Theist, am not attached to beliefs out of fear. I have faced my greatest fears regarding my death and subsequent nonexistance. I love hard reality far more than pretty ideals because I find it beautiful. There: you have been proven wrong. QED

            All my beliefs are based on my own philosophical reasonings. I was raised agnostic; I was not “indoctrinated into a cult at birth.” Am I going to give a rational explanation for my beliefs, to you, right now? No. And here’s why:

            Nowhere in anything that I wrote did I suggest anything about my beliefs except for a vague reference to “God.” I was attempting to defend the Bible based on its merit as a historical work of art, and had no intention of roping my personal baisis AGAINST its mythology into the conversation. However, when you read this, you projected onto me the cookie cutter image of “the Christian” that suits your worldview. Here are a few funny little moments that followed:

            “So why is YOUR interpretation the right one? Better yet, why is the Bible valid and the Koran wrong? Or any other religious text? If we’re allowed to act like you and go on a whim cherrypicking which parts of the Bible to believe in, then anything goes.”

            Well, let’s see. I believe I left my personal interpretation out of this, but in any case, everyone believes that their personal interpretation is correct. Otherwise they wouldn’t have interpreted it that way. I base my interpretation on what I observe in nature and what I infer that the Hebrews were observing at the time of the writing. Yes, I do find this more realistic than interpreting the entire text literally as if there were no external world, so i guess that’s “better”…maybe? But I hadn’t said that. I also didn’t say that the Koran was wrong. I am currently studying arabic so that some day I can read it in its intended language. I do not dismiss any religious text outright. The pagan and indiginous texts that Western culture refutes offhand are no less true or beautiful than the Bible, and I think they should all be considered as holding a grain of truth. But I can’t take them all literally, and I refuse to dismiss them all just because they are strange or outlandish. So I guess you can call it cherrypicking. I see no problem with “anything goes.” If we leave it open like that then we allow our personal reasoning to take over and guide us instead of the texts guiding us. “Anything goes” is good.

            Also nice bit about the pipe bomb. It reminded me of a time when a man, arguing against something as harmless as the legalization of marijuana, described a vivid car crash where pair of stoners passing a joint mid-drive lose focus and run over a helpless baby in the middle of the road. It was naturally moving and utterly pathetic. Don’t resort to stupid shit like that. We’re talking about something as harmless as A BOOK.

            “You should try addressing my actual arguments, instead of attacking the websites themselves. You’re a Christian arguing that Christianity is awesome, so I could easily dismiss you as “biased”. But, I’m not doing that, I’m listening to what you have to say, and dismissing it because it’s absurd. Not because you have an “agenda”.”

            You should try adressing me as a person instead of the image of me that you’ve fabricated. In that way, you’re really not listening to what I have to say. You’re putting words in my mouth and ideas in my head. I don’t know what I’ve said that is “absurd” and dismissable; you seem to be refering to the words of Christian institutions in general. As someone who is NOT a Christian and doesn’t care much for religious INSTITUTIONS, I really don’t think you could dismiss me as biased, either. I, too, have listened to what you have to say, and I gotta tell you, I am much more interested in the lack of a historical Jesus than I was before this shindig. And I don’t think it would alter my worldview much at all, so don’t act like I have a personal stake in this.

            “Well, that’s your job. I’m still waiting for either of you to make an argument how God makes sense philosophically.”

            No, it’s not my job, because I’m not interested in converting you or convincing you. Everyone follows their own path towards truth. Wherever you are is wherever you should be right now.

            And don’t go on from here and tell me that I’m hiding in my little bunker of my own secure worldview. I am more than happy to discuss philosophy or semantics with anybody who can manage such a conversation. But your talent for fair and respectful discussion seems pretty dismal right now, so I don’t know what would come of it for either of us. Until you stop telling me what I believe and why I do, I’m not going to start answering your questions about why God lets…ugh…babies get raped?…did I mention the baby-in-the-road story yet?

            “I think it’s obvious to anyone who can read English at an adult level that when I say the Bible is “evil” I don’t mean the physical pages and book-binding are possessed by a demon. I mean the concepts inside the book, expressed through words, are evil. Don’t play semantic games in lieu of a real argument. Either defend the crappy stuff in the Bible, or don’t. Do you think it’s evil to bash someone in the head with a bloody rock, or not?”

            I don’t mean…wait demons? What? Who’s been fucking with my medicine?

            Look, what I meant was that it’s useless approach to think of the contents of ANYTHING as “evil.” Example: I reject most nihilist philosophy, and yet I listen to a lot of nihilist metal. Based on my personal beliefs I could dismiss this music as “evil,” since most of it (advocating suicide, violence, etc) don’t match up with my morals. But what’s the use of that? I approach it assuming that if the artist went through all the effort to put this together, then they might have something to tell me that I haven’t considered. Maybe this “evil” music will radically change the way that I look at the world. Or maybe I can just appreciate it as interesting art, since art isn’t entirely about the message, but also about the process of expression (art that IS entirely about the message is propoganda).

            So when you try push me into a black and white corner of defending this work of art—a definition that I’m applying loosely…call it a historical document or not or whatever—based only on a grosely simplified message that you have taken from it, I’m going to dismiss your questions as entirely irrelevant. This is not “real argument,” as you said.

            “You really have a persecution complex, don’t you. I didn’t call you an idiot. I don’t equate religious delusions with stupidity, at all. Quite the contrary, when you are indoctrinated into a cult since birth, and everything you’re taught keeps you from applying critical thinking to your philosophical beliefs, it’s very hard to break away from that, and I have a lot of respect for the many who do. For the others who spend their whole lives under the burden of believing in religion, many are very, very intelligent. They just compartmentalize their rational, 21st Century beliefs in one box and their backwards religious beliefs in another box in their brain, and try really hard not to let the two meet each other.

            As for sites having an agenda — again, everyone has an agenda. That doesn’t invalidate their points. You have an agenda too — holding onto belief in Jesus despite all evidence to the contrary — but I’m not holding that against you, I’m arguing against the actual arguments you’re making, rather than attacking your “agenda”.”

            Okay, at this point I’m just about fucking done. I’m boarderline losing my composure having to wade through all of the stuff that you’re assuming about me, as well as about everyone else living a life of “religious delusions” under some religious “burden” with a 1984-esq brain trained in double truths. You are absolutely refusing to try and understand or relate to people different from yourself beyond this very shallow and condescending level. I don’t need to go into all the rediculous things you just said to prove that. The entire reason that I spent all this time picking appart your dickary is to show the outrageous assumptions that you are making about me (without cause) and the pidgeonhole questions you’re asking and “proofs” that you’re requiring. So as long as you’re telling me about my “persecution complex,” I have nothing more to say to you regarding the Bible, off topic as this responce may have been.

            Not that this whole conversation isn’t off topic…so yeah…um, gay couples are cool, huh?

            Oh, and it’s not too much to ask for respect for the beliefs of the person that you’re talking too. I respect Atheists. Maybe they understand God far better than I do. Point being, I can never really know until I sympathize with their view and get in their shoes instead of telling them what they believe and how their minds work and so on.

            P.S. And I respect that you have actually read the Bible…though cover to cover? Hell, you coulda skipped Generations and I woulda been fine with that. But anyway, I agree with understanding fully what you disagree with. And I admit that I was presumptuous myself in accusing you of not understanding the source material without truly knowing that…though I gotta say, your understanding does not exactly shine through in your arguments.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ben-Robson/1375985482 Ben Robson

    anyone should be able to marry any person they want.

  • trence75

    I’m from montgomery, AL. I get stereotyped all the time.

    • nick

      He’s a Witch!

      • NickB

        He turned me into a newt!

  • nick

    I hope you guys realize Obama can’t just throw a switch and allow gay marriage. It’s funny, only just recently did Obama come to the realization DoM was unconstitutional.
    But instead of taking challenges to Defense of Marriage act all the way to the Supreme Court to validate that view, he caved to pressures from gay groups and ordered the Justice Dept. to stop defending challenges in court. So we’re stuck in limbo again and it will take another 2-3 years for the high court to hear the case going through California right now.

  • Russell

    Why can’t we just hate everyone equally? Seriously though. Who cares if gays get married. It’s not like it affects you in anyway. The only time I care is when I see two guys kissing, then you know what I do? Change the channel and go about my life. Done. Problem solved. Anyways, I hear the new trend is marrying your pets.

    I don’t support gay marriage but I don’t support straight marriage either. I don’t care if you are married or single. I am married to a women. Do people care? No. Should they support it? I don’t care if they support it or not. Why should they? Who gives a shit?

    I believe Slayer put it best here:
    “I hate everyone equally, you can’t tear that out of me. No segregation, separation, just me and my world of enemies.”

    • Conrad

      Tom’s also a Christian who writes songs about praising Satan. Slayer makes good music, but they’re lyrical content has little to do with their actual beliefs.

      Also, comparing two consenting adults who love each other to people fucking animals makes you look unbearably dumb.

      • Russell

        You are absolutely right. Tom is a christian and he says that his song writing is a form of art which is a reflection of society. I used the quote because it was funny not because it’s accurate.

        Let gays get married – like I said it is not going to affect me in any way. I DON”T CARE. People are making this into a huge ordeal. Give it another 5 years and it will be socially acceptable in all States.

        I wasn’t comparing human beings to animals here I was trying to change the subject – making a joke that obviously wasn’t very funny. I understand that there is a difference between bestiality and the love between two human beings. Thank you for your comment.

  • halloway

    Only stupid people oppose gay marriage, plain and simple.

  • http://dystrophy.bandcamp.com devin townsends lost skullet

    Done and done!

    Props Vince for bringing this up.

  • kmfcm

    Ban all marriage.

    • HxT

      Corey Monster, that is frightening we are on the same page. I was about to say the exact same thing

  • foobear

    Marriage is pretty gay anyways, so yes.

    In all srsness, absolutely. I think it’s pretty sad that we as a nation like to tout religious freedom so much, yet still we manage to create laws based around religion. And make no mistake, that’s effectively what keeps getting gay marriage banned. You can dress up the opposition and say things like, “Marriage should be between a man and a woman.” Oh, really? It should be? Where does it say this?

    Keep the church the fuck outta our laws, thanks.

  • guh

    Totally had my comment REMOVED. Lameballs. Utter lameballs.

  • reign in blud

    Adam and eve not adam and steve
    Adam and eve not adam and steve
    Adam and eve not adam and steve !!

  • SomeGuyFromCanada

    Anyone… DUMB ENOUGH!! To wanna get married, should be allowed to.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Brandon-MXickman/502613553 Brandon MXickman

    marriage is all about taxes+$$$.
    but, just to prove your point, that metalheads aren’t homophobic, i’ll sign it.

    it’s just like signing a petition so people can listen to bullet for my valentine- i wouldn’t want to, but i don’t give a crap if someone else wants to.

  • Gecko

    I’m pretty sure marriage in general has outlived its usefelness given the fact that so many fail. Plus, I generally only look at marriage, gay or straight, for the purposes of procreation (and my girlfiend is well aware of that). That being said, I’m sure I’ll be told I’m ignorant, but I can assure you my views are not based on any type of religious or other beliefs, and are only my personal views on marriage. I still think people have the right to be happy.

  • Kuranes

    I definitely support the rights of gays to marry. But 40% of Americans believe in Creationism so I’m not surprised that there’s a level of opposition to this. Thanks Vince.

  • cyrollan

    i wish i was gay. It’d be so cool to live with one of my buddies, play video games all the time, get drunk, etc.

    • Dirtman73

      So you’re basically saying you wish you were living in your old fraternity house again?

  • Beowulf

    Funny thing is I’m about as republican as you can get, but even I think this should be legalized! I don’t see any reason why they’re any different. Let them marry!

    • Driven9

      right on brother, im glad to hear this.

      Nobody should let a ‘party’ they associate with define their morals/beliefs. Being ‘as republican as you can get’, should not play a role in your individual feelings towards gay marriage (or abortion, guns laws, etc… for that matter).

      people need to think for themselves and build their own character… this was always the biggest problem ive had with the two-party system that so many chose to blindly follow and accept.

    • Dakotaw

      Yay! Your one step closer to being a libertarian join the club buddy sign a petition to legalize Marijuana Personal freedom=Personal responsiblity.

      • nick

        Personal responsibility is a great catch phrase to throw around but a persons upbringing can be as disabling as down syndrome. When your only role models are the crack dealers on the corner the meaning of “personal responsibility” takes on a meaning wholly different from yours.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Devon-Czekaj/550092101 Devon Czekaj

    signed

  • Ziltoid

    There is no logical reason why gays shouldn’t be able to marry.

    • Fart

      Ziltoid has spoken!

      • Ziltoid

        Astute observation.

  • philly_28

    Another instance where Louis C.K. covered the subject and hit the nail on the head:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yPvVnrV1tow

    • steve

      funniest fucker ever

  • Jarkko

    There’s nothing more metal than a gay bar. Denim and leather!

    Seriously though, caring about another person’s sexuality is really fucking dumb.

  • No name

    Isn’t this a metal site? Why the fuck are you talking about gay marriage?

    • nick

      These guys like to stir the pot. They’re amateur chefs and watch gay shit like Hell’s Kitchen.

  • soy el niño más bonito

    for anyone who uses a religious argument against gay marriage:

    marriage is no longer strictly a religious institution. i can go to the courthouse and get married and no church will no about it or give two shits about it.

    gay marriage will NOT affect your religion. within YOUR religion it will still be about a man and a woman getting together to make babies to spread the religious faith and blah blah blah. it WILL affect the lives of multitudes of homosexuals who are already living with partners like they’re married, may refer to their partners as their husbands or wives, but without the benefits that heterosexual couples enjoy.

    if you take the religious connotations and significance away from it, there ONLY logical thing to do is to legalize gay marriage. it’s NOT a moral or religious issue, it’s a civil rights issue, under the purview of the STATE, which is supposed to be a secular and tolerate and accept, but NOT privilege, religious belief.

    • soy el niño más bonito

      also, by “no about it” i mean “know about it.”

      • soy el niño más bonito

        and by “there ONLY” i mean “there’s ONLY”

        goddamn typos.

  • TheHateMachine

    Marriage is an antiquated ideal in this world.Nothing more than a contract to hold ownership over each other. I did it once and will never do it again.
    Gay marriage is as stupid as hetero marriage. they should have the right but really does it matter? How many married men in this country secretly suck dick behind closed doors? aahahahahaha

    • nick

      Or play footsie under bathroom stalls, or do speed off a gigolo’s ass? BTW I live next to the bar where pious pastor Haggard had his fun. I can see why he kept coming back, those dudes know how to party!

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Tim-Bartolini/100001859397919 Tim Bartolini

    Yes, they should be able to marry

  • dhdude

    not for it-not really against it. i know people are going to bitch at me and shit, but i view being gay as a personal choice( which people have the right to chose) but just because you chose to do something doesn’t mean the world has to change to accommodate you

    • jxk

      A choice, eh?

      What benefit would there be to making that choice?

    • nick

      What would qualify you to make such an assumption? This is one of those moronic “beliefs” that needs to be dragged out into the street and beaten until it’s coughing up blood!! Do you know any homosexuals? Have they shared with you any meaningful personal experiences?

      Again, being a HETEROsexual, what makes you think you are qualified to assume a HOMOsexuals state of mind? You are nothing but a self absorbed arrogant bastard to think that you are so all knowing as to see into another mans soul! Fuck you and all you ignorant bigots. Your time is coming, your mindset will vanish. Your mark will be forgotten even by your own children. You are NOTHING!!!

  • nepenthe

    sure, let them get married. i honestly don’t care who other people fuck.

  • Joe LaForm

    I totally 100% support gay marriage,gays in the military AND gay adoption. We live in a free country,where ALL of us are free,not just the ones other people choose to be free. They didn’t pick being gay, but people choose to be hateful and ignorant. If you don’t support gay marriage, you don’t support freedom. Let them live their lives the way they choose, just like we are allowed to live ours.

  • Evil Ernie

    There is no good argument as to why homosexuals should be prevented from marrying. There are comments above which are quite on point when they say marriage is a legal contract. Being that individuals at or above the age of consent are supposed to be able to engage in legal contracts, then any individual should be able to enter a contract with another individual, bottom line.

    The “I’m not a bigot, I just don’t like gays,” kind of reasoning is bogus. The definition of a bigot is someone who is unwilling to change his or her views. Given that those of us posting here probably don’t hold to the biblical reasons for banning gay marriage, I really can’t think of any reason for not allowing it, other than an arbitrary dislike of homosexuals, which is largely unrelated to the marriage issue specifically, meaning that yes, you are in fact a bigot.

  • JB

    Just because you dont support gay marriage doesn’t mean you’re suddenly Homophobic. Vince, you’re kind of a fucking pusher here. If someone doesn’t have your opinion, they’re automatically the wrongest of wrongs. Getting sick of this political bullshit on here. Keep posting about metal. On a side note, i support civil unions.

  • Objurium

    Intelligent Cascadian metalheads for gayrights. Or something.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Filipe-Pereira/1000280032 Filipe Pereira

    What’s the big deal over this matter? Here in Portugal, gay marriage is legal for over a year now, and I can say that it didn’t change a lot. Preconceptions about gay people still exist and about that only time will solve that. This should be just to garantee the same rights to everyone as it is explicit on the Constitutions.

    • soy el niño más bonito

      portugal is the shit. even if cristiano ronaldo and jose mourinho are douches :)

      • http://www.facebook.com/people/Filipe-Pereira/1000280032 Filipe Pereira

        Thanks for that! But actually Portugal is degrading everyday, we’re strugling with the biggest economic and financial crisis from the last decades…

        • soy el niño más bonito

          well, you know, except that. i’m all about awesome beaches, beautiful women and decriminalized drugs though. and the language… so awesome. my friend described it to me as “spanish with swagger”

        • nick

          Man’O man, you guys were king shit back in the day. What happened? Invest too much in U.S. bonds? I kid. Like all the other great western Urup countries you actually treated your citizens well and ere bit in the ass when the balance sheet didn’t jive. It’s an honest mistake, (unless of course the crash is really the result of unscrupulous multi-national corporations who pressured your government to privatize impoatant services at inflated costs, cough-latin-america-cough).

          But yea, you’re on my travel list despite any economic crash. Hell it just makes my money look better, so keep tanking cause I’m'a comin!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Dan-Burton/784250631 Dan Burton

    I support gay marriage. Although not gay myself, I wish more metalheads would be happy to come out. Some of the best metal is made by the gays. Steve from Torche, a couple of the guys from Botch (I believe). I’m pretty sure there must be some men who love men in the slamming deathcore scene. Maybe it’d all be a little less ‘bro’ if people came out.

    • nick

      I keep thinking of that song from Nevermore’s “Enemies of Reality”, the one with the video praising the virtues of physical pleasure, makes you think…. It’s my favorite Nevermore song. Actually it’s the song “Enemies of Reality”. Look it up and have some fun. I did. Long black fingernails means you’re into satan…. and cocaine. fun times in seatle.

  • BruisedMetal

    Sorry Im a knuckle dragging metalhead

  • Daniel N.

    Absolutely for Gay Marriage. They are equal to all of us and deserve the same rights.

    For the surprising amount of pro-gay marriage support in here, it’s still dis-heartening to see those few voices of utter stupidity and ignorance.

    Also, if you go to a random show, you will most likely get most of those fans to be opposed to this as they are probably not well-read MS readers or readers in general. Until the majority of the Metal World shows support for this (which I really don’t think it is) it will be perceived with those stereotypes…

    • nick

      It’s interesting how many different metal crowds there are in a given city. If you went to a random old-school local death metal show I might agree with your assertion. but if you went to see Devin Townsend the crowd would be a different group altogether.

      This would be an interesting article topic for MetalSucks, How divided is your local Metal scene? Do the crusties crash the power shows? Are there pissy neckbeards up in your deathcore? I see many possibilities with such a column

  • MadetheSame

    The con is health insurance and benefits. I don’t care personally if gay folk want to get married though it does come at a cost to established healthcare system which haven’t been calculated. With our economy already in the dumps this would add another debt. Doesn’t mean I am against it, just think that would have to be analyzed thoroughly before just saying, “yea it’s fine.”

    • nick

      Huh. Never thought of it that way. I guess we should all bow down and suck the insurance man’s dick. Of course we already do and you’re just trying to keep from gagging.

  • http://Myspace.com/ballharness DirtRock

    Just stop making out where people can see you. That goes for the “straighties” too. Whether you’re gay or straight, public gropings are not cool when kids can see it. Other than that, I say Marry dem queers!!

    • nick

      You must have turned away too quick cause it’s usually the kids that grope the most in public. Every time I go to a movie I’m afraid of slipping in the slobber those teeny-bobbers leaver behind!

  • http://Myspace.com/ballharness DirtRock

    “As if I give a toss who you’re buggering?”

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Christopher-Ashlock/1300561574 Christopher Ashlock

    in the words of Frank Reynolds “If gay people want to get married and be miserable like everyone else, then why not!”

  • Frampler

    I’m not American, so I’ll leave the petition alone, but I cannot see any valid reason why two people should be prevented from marrying simply because they share the same type of genetalia.

    • nick

      But why just two? I honestly have a hard time reconciling the question of bigamy. I honestly don’t care if a man has many wives, or a women has many husbands, or tranny has many husband and wives. I understand that the traditional forms such bigamist relationships take may be abusive/coercive (see Texas Mormons… ) but in principal why not allow several people to marry?

      If some love cult sprang up in the Smokey Mountains and made their living at the local flee-market why shouldn’t all of the flock be able to visit the sickly patriarch/matriarch in the hospital? They could vote on whether a blood transfusion is right and proper or devil magic. All would come to a balance. The world would be a better place.

  • Oldestfart

    I don’t support this. No, I don’t think gays and gay way of life are any kind of sin. Yes, gays need to have same rights as heteros, but gays permanently and exclusively living together, it’s simply not a marriage. It’s a community of ppl of same sex, and need to be called that way.

    I also think that this dispute (should or should not gays be allowed to “marry”), is just a fake. It’s fictional, it’s artificial, it’s just totally made up, mostly by media – in my own experience, wast majority of gay ppl like their free way of life, and absolutely don’t want to “marry” anything.

    • soy el niño más bonito

      …do you think gays live in some sort of big gay commune?

      just because MAYBE a “vast majority” of gays don’t want to get married doesn’t mean that we should prevent the ones who do want to from doing so.

    • CrestalMyth

      “in my own experience, wast majority of gay ppl like their free way of life”. So, we should simply adhere to the majority?

      Perhaps two people of the same sex livng together is not a marriage, or perhaps it is. Regardless, they should be able to have the same ceremony and legal contract as anyone else, whether or not one person’s body part fits into the other’s. What we have on our hands is nothing less than a moderate version of apartheid, and needs to be abolished in just the same way. You can’t separate one population segment from the rest in such a drastic way.

  • Russell

    it says my comment is awaiting moderation. hmmmmm been a while.

  • Black Shuck

    Much respect to all the progressive metalheads on this thread. Middle fingers to fuckheads like blahblahblah up there.

  • Russell

    Why can’t we just hate everyone equally? Seriously though. Who cares if gays get married. It’s not like it affects you in anyway. The only time I care is when I see two guys kissing, then you know what I do? Change the channel and go about my life. Done. Problem solved. Anyways, I hear the new trend is marrying your pets.

    I don’t support gay marriage but I don’t support straight marriage either. I don’t care if you are married or single. I am married to a women. Do people care? No. Should they support it? I don’t care if they support it or not. Why should they? Who gives a shit?

    I believe Slayer put it best here:
    “I hate everyone equally, you can’t tear that out of me. No segregation, separation, just me and my world of enemies.”

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Jordan-Oates/1476540021 Jordan Oates

    I personally agree that gays should be allowed to marry, but at this point in my life, as a 20 year old college student who has no plans to marry or have that kind of commitment atm, I’m kind of jealous of their inability to marry. They don’t have to worry about a crazy girlfriend (or boyfriend in a lot of cases) wanting to get married

    • nick

      Ball up and tell that ho to hit the streets!!! If she’s yanking your sack and begging for a ring you need to kick her to the curb. Unless she has the tightest slizz you ever split, it aint worth it If she does have the tightest slizz it might be…what’s her mom look like?

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Andrew-Sterner/1335958279 Andrew Sterner

    Okay, this is how I see it:

    They can have the marriage license or whatever it is the government hands out to folks. Nowhere in the constitution does it say we are a Christian country, in fact, it says the opposite(NO religion, the government is Atheist by default). To say you don’t want to allow two people to get married is a very archaic way to look at things. Like most everyone else is saying, let them get married and be miserable like everyone else. The institution of marraige was destroyed by morons who think they’re ready for it, then go get divorced, then repeat 5 or 6 times. There’s no sanctity left in it, so playing that card is a moot point. If anything they may stay married longer, and fix the divorce rate. They certainly can’t be any worse that we have been.

    Having that said, they cannot marry in my church. My religion is pretty cut and dry on the issue, so they can’t do so in my church. On hte same grounds that they can get married, I’m allowed to practice my faith however I want to, without persecution from the gov.

    So in closing, let them get married, idc, just don’t try to tell my priest he has to do the ceremony, or that I have to be a part of it.

    • nick

      That has never been the issue. No church would ever be forced to marry a gay couple. This is pure paranoia. It will never happen, PERIOD! Tell your parents, tell other parishioners, yell it from the bell-tower, GAYS STAY AWAY!!! You will be within the law.

  • tim

    As a newly converted atheist, I firmly believe that the church should have NO say in the legislation process. I don’t actively support gays and their rights (I have no problem with it though), but I get sickened at the fact that the reason behind their lack of constitutional rights is because of religious fucks who force their beliefs to be supported, despite that whole pesky “equality for all” thing.

    • nick

      Oh you sound so sexy with that anti-christian talk. Oooohhh, tell me more about those “religious fucks”, it gets me horny. Tell me, do you think they pray together when they fuck? That sounds pretty kinky, lets try it sometime.

      • nick

        On second thought lets just touch dicks. It’s only a friendly gesture and not gay at all.

  • rdt513

    Ii’s probably been said on here before (I don’t have time to read all these posts) but what has this really got to do with metal?
    Which only brings up a wider point…”metal” is an umbrella term to say the least. You get “right-wing” metalheads, “left-wing” metalheads, religious metalheads, atheist metalheads…it’s not like being a righ-wing skinhead or left-wing punk with a set ideology! You might as well have the same argument/discussion with random people in the supermarket (that said, be my guest).
    And another wider point. I don’t really give a damn if some stranger does think I’m a knuckle-dragging caveman, quite frankly. Exactly whose validation am I supposed to be aspiring to here?!

    • Daniel N.

      Well, one would like to think he/she would prefer to distinguish oneself from animals who don’t have the capacity to use logic and make arguments using scientific evidence and reason. I’d like to think people should care about their intellectual integrity, not to impress others but to retain the essence of why we’re alive in the first place.

      • rdt513

        Well that is fine and dandy, but just to continue the argument for the sake of it.
        I take your point about intellectual integrity rather more than your point about distinguishing oneself from animals. Don’t be so quick to assume that animals never understand logic. What’s more, IIRC, people, as a species of animal themselves, are 90% governed by emotion not logic. It’s been proved that rabid right-wingers and rabid left-wingers both fire up the emotional, rather than the reasoning parts of their brains.
        All of which has got nothing directly to do with gay marriage, I must admit – meh, whatevah!

        • Daniel N.

          …The entire point is to govern oneself rationally so obviously being a rabid one-sided individual will never properly understand things or judge things objectively. There is no excuse for someone to deal absolutely without consideration for an opposing stance. However with that said, it also doesn’t mean that one side can’t be right over another as long as an issue is debated properly…with logic obviously.

          Animals have nothing to do with this topic, it was brought up as an example of the standards we should hold ourselves to.

          We are emotional beings but also capable of rationalizing those emotions so it’s more about balancing both sides. Those who let themselves be governed purely by emotions are obviously damaging their intellectual potential and this applies directly to those who see this issue from a purely ignorant point of view.

          • nick

            The beautiful thing about retards is that they can dry hump each other all day long and no one will ever view it as sexual, let alone homosexual. So that means there’s nothing wrong with recording it. Keep going guys, there’s a market for this shit in Germany.

  • ryan d.

    just let them marry already

  • MetalMeatHammer666

    As a long time Metal head and a life long queer I am appreciative of posts such as this. Just because I suck dick doesn’t mean I can’t love.

    • nick

      I’m all for it. Sucking dick that is, at least having my dick sucked. I like licking pussy myself. I don’t imagine it’s all that dissimilar. I mean, I guess it is, but it all smells the same. Sometimes I wish my wife had a dick so I could show her exactly how I would like my dick sucked. I imagine that’s one of the few advantages of being gay.

      • MetalMeatHammer666

        I have to say you are spot on as far as teaching your wife how to properly suck dick, though, I consider myself lucky: my bf sucks a mean dick. As for dick and pussy being the same, I am afraid not. I spent many years acting ‘straight’ and I have had much pussy. It is sticky, stinky, and messy. I do not miss it. Cheers to ya.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Dan-Burton/784250631 Dan Burton

    I think Metalsucks readers are the more discerning type of metalhead. I’d say the demographic here is 25+, obviously mainly men, but generally a little more educated and rounded.

    I’d like to see them try and run this article on Lambgoat or Blabbermouth and get the same kind of response.

    • nick

      Blabbermouth is nothing but a press release dumping ground. It has its purpose but is not of any constructive value. Why they have a comment section is beyond me.

      Lambgoat I only know by way of the Greek diner on my block. Lambgoat Gyro Special – $5.95

    • Ty Winchester

      I’m 19 but mature enough to not throw around gay slurs like it couldn’t hurt somebody’s feelings. But I’d say generally your assessment is right about the demographic and the responses you would get on Lambgoat.

  • shreddies

    Canadian here…

    Figure it out you fucking red neck, trench coat wearing, bible belt wearing, Quaran toting, narrow minded…

    Pfff. What are you, new?

  • blahblahblah

    hahaha… look at all the hate and spiteful bullshit you people spew at me in my previous posts… i simply don’t have the time to reply to all your false interpretations of what i said and your blatant forceful attitude(s) of “if you don’t agree 100% with gay marriage your a bigot/moron”… bahahahaha

    i don’t have to prove or justify shit to ANYONE. FUCK ALL Y’ALL and fuck you gay little world. this website is so pro-queerosexual it’s gay as fuck.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ben-Robson/1375985482 Ben Robson

      you sound like a really cool dude, bro

      • CJ

        Oh my God, this guy needs to get laid PRONTO.

        It seems like the only people who care about who other people are fucking, don’t do a whole lot of fucking themselves.

    • Gacey

      How does it feel to be in the minority? Sucker.

  • blahblahblah

    i’m a canadian too by the way. fuck america.

  • Robert Hagedorn

    According to the story, God did make Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve. But Adam and Steve could have done exactly the same thing Adam and Eve did. Do a search: The First Scandal. Then click twice.

  • http://thenumberoftheblog.com/ groverXIII

    Remember back when slavery was legal? Remember back when women couldn’t vote? Seems pretty silly now, doesn’t it?

    That’s gay marriage in twenty years. Well, hopefully.

  • Johnny G

    Nobody should presume to tell anybody else where they can stick their tongue, schlong, whatever. Hell, I’ve got mine in a butternut squash right now!!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Patrick-Arriola/100002131340820 Patrick Arriola

    I don’t see why gays shouldn’t be allowed to marry; but if you were asking me about supporting Juggalo marriage, then I’d have to draw the line there.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Jason-John-Crispen/100000169530540 Jason John Crispen

    i’m curious as to what the westboro baptist church has to say on the matter.

  • http://www.oblivionseye.com nPHYN1T3

    Fuck yeah we support gay marriage. For starters it’s not different than music! I’ll be good and god damned if some fucking asshole would or COULD tell me what music to listen to, and I say the same applies to love and sex. If you find guys hot, and you’re a guy, go for it cuz who am I or anyone else to tell you who to love or fuck! If your a woman who likes women, I’ll be in the closet with the video camera, for about the first 10 minutes, so don’t freak when I pop out :)

    Seriously though, if someone told you no more metal Justin Beiber only what would you do? Same if someone told you who you loved was wrong, stab a mother fucker!

  • Curmudgeon

    I am NOT reading all those fucking comments so I’m probably gonna state some shit over again here. Why do Metalheads as a collective need to be for or against gay marriage? It has nothing to do with Metal music (well, there are a handful of bands on each side). It’s just another way of getting a mass herd to vote one way or another. “Metalheads aren’t homophobic rednecks, let’s show them by voting for gay marriage” What fucking propaganda. NO! You know what, how about let’s vote for or against gay marriage how we individually see fit. Some people don’t mind gay marriage, some see something wrong with it either from their beliefs or just being disgusted by it not being socially norm. Another thing, we all know this, online petitions mean shit. Here in NY, a gay married couple is legal and acknowledged but getting gay married is still not allowed…. go figure, that’s why couples from here make a trip to Mass. or wherever in New England, get married and come back home. I personally don’t care, if gay people wanna get married, fine.

  • Mad Mooney

    I’m gay. I live in Canada. I can get married if I want (I don’t).

    The streets aren’t running red with the blood of innocents (unfortunately). The end times are not upon us. There hasn’t been a spike in violence or divorce or pedophilia. Society hasn’t crumbled. Everyone who was straight before is still straight. Homosexuality isn’t being rammed down anyone’s throats (unfortunately…I could use a knobber). Everyone who hated gays before still hates gays and is free to do so.

    No big deal.

    If I did want to get married to another man, it would be of absolutely none of anyone else’s business. It has no effect on anyone else other than the two of us.

    Oh and I couldn’t care less about how awkward it is when your kids ask you about it. To hell with your fugly, consumer kid.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Kurt-Horimoto/702126482 Kurt Horimoto

    As a community, metal is all about going against the established mores of society. That, and aardvark-slaughtering awesomeness. We fight against those who disagree with us because we don’t want our values or tastes to be looked down upon or judged poorly by those who don’t appreciate who we are.

    In a way, we antagonize ourselves against society. We’re the ones who listen to music that we KNOW most people hate and do our best to fuck with normal people who can’t see the innate beauty of corpse paint, blast beats, and MS’s favorite, Devin Townsend.

    Gay people deal with FAR worse discrimination and prejudice than metalheads do, but have done nothing to instigate it. The metal community looks forward to the clash with society because that’s who we are. Gay people are forced into being outsiders because of whom they love.

    I dunno about you, but that’s a pretty bullshit position for someone to be in. As metalheads, I certainly hope that we can acknowledge the parallels between our struggles, even if we don’t agree with homosexuality for whatever reason, and do our best to help out a community that gets ass-fucked (pun intended) on a daily basis.

  • njiata603

    Gay marriage all the way! Bigots and jesus freaks fuck off and die.

  • Alex

    I would just like to say that even though I’m aware a lot of opposition to gay marriage comes from right wing Christians that doesn’t mean all Christians agree. I’m Christian and I don’t care if gays get married. Also gay and lesbian Christians can and do exist. To
    say things like “Hail Satan Marry Gays” is very mindless. By stereotyping my faith you are just as bigoted as homophobes. I just know that Jesus loves all of you (including the homosexuals).

    • tingdurr

      You are completely right, thanks for sharing another side. Lots of people don’t realize just what you said.

  • John

    My stance on gay marriage:

    HOLY CRAP THE NEW PROTEST THE HERO IS REALLY GOOD

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Dorian-Legodick-Lafferre/1432620197 Dorian Legodick Lafferre

      This.

  • nick

    This has been oh so fun and lovely yet I’m afraid I must take my leave. You see, my mistress, that is Mistress Bouvier is quite strict in matters of punctuality and if I’m the slightest bit late she will redden my bottom without question! Oh and how do I dislike a red bottom! I prefer the rope and straps. When she, eh excuse me, Mistress Bouvier spreads me open and licks her whip across my smoothness I begin to drip profusely!

    • nick

      Yank yank yank yank, Ungghhhh!

      Seriously though, I’ll jerk off to anything. Gays, straights, doesn’t matter even though I’m a straight married male I am all for pleasure.

      • tingdurr

        Is it weird? I’m the same way

  • Hugl Al

    y don’t u make a poll ? that would be way better !
    i <3 Vagainas (preferably circumcised)….fuck gay ppl

  • BruisedMetal

    So in other words were not “intelligent” unless we all agree on the topic?… I dont support gay marriage Im not a hater I just dont agree with it

    • Dayv

      If you don’t agree with it, you are a hater.

      HTH

  • tingdurr

    I thought that this ‘blahblahblah’ commenter was doing a good job of maintaining a level of pity and understanding for his vastly misunderstood stance on gay marriage, and then I just realized he’s actually the bigot we all expected him to be. It’s so cliche.

    I really try to understand when people have been straight up raised to show distaste for gays and their rights (It really is only the fault of an infinite amount of years of similar public misconception), but it really gets hard when the argument is so prevalent that people aren’t able to take a step back and say ‘hmm, maybe these people should have equal rights’.

    My brother is gay, and boy did it take a revolution among the conservatives in my extended family to come to terms with it. I can only hope the rest of the world catches up with the realizations they have had to make. He was suppressed for so long and it gives me an amazing feeling inside to be able to see him be his true self now.

  • Yodocq

    In country where I live (Czech Republic) gays can marry or have registered partnership,or how is it called.Main purpose is general acceptance and heritage issue-when two ppl live together for some time and one dies,the other inherits his/her money and stuff.But we have mostly positive or indifferent opinions towards gays,unlike Polish and others.But who cares about gays anyway?

  • Jason

    Gay marriage is 100% right.
    Anybody who believes contrary, is philosophically close-minded, and idiotic.
    Aren’t “metalheads” stereotyped as anarchists, or at least freedom supporters?

  • some dude

    have you guys ever noticed, that a metal show is 99% dudes and like 4 chicks, and they look like guys, the pit where big sweaty hairy guys touch each other, everybody trying to act super tough jumping on each other damn near dry humping everything,

    kinda gay

  • Josh

    I do support gay marraige, but I’m not signing the petition. Why? Because online petitions…

    NEVER
    ACCOMPLISH
    ANYTHING.

  • Dayv

    God created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Necrobutcher!

  • Chainsword

    Marriage was once a function of the church. However, once you attribute financial and legal benefits to it in a society that was founded on the separation of church and state, it is out of the church’s control. The church consented to governmental recognition of marriage, and by doing so, forfit the right to contol it. Simply by legal means, it is unconstitutional to suspend gay marrige.

    I also support it morally. Signed.

  • Chainsword

    *founded on equality and the separation of church and state

  • OLiNViLLE

    they’ve never bothered me, therefore why should I care? marry whoever the fuck you want.

  • Hetal

    “If we do not act now, homosexuals will own America! If you and I do not speak up now, this homosexual steamroller will literally crush all decent men, women, and children who get in its way… And our nation will pay a terrible price!”
    – The late (thankfully) Jerry Falwell

    Visual: http://s3.amazonaws.com/theoatmeal-img/comics/literally/5.png

  • FAGGOTKILLER

    Look at all the fucks we give.